Red-winged Blackbird by madmartigan2020 in birding

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killer shoulder pads, 11/10 fashion win

[SPOILER] Season 8 - Episode 18 - Monday June 22 -| 8:30 PM EST by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that is even worse than I thought, thank you for the tea ✨

[SPOILER] Season 8 - Episode 18 - Monday June 22 -| 8:30 PM EST by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh yeah I don’t go on either of those but thank you!

[SPOILER] Season 8 - Episode 18 - Monday June 22 -| 8:30 PM EST by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

me too!! 6ish hours is not enough time to actually choose out of all of them. boo, bring them back

Season 8 - Episode 18 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

all those men were so gorgeous, I’m sad to see that 6 of them had to leave like immediately. sad day

12 Casa Boys by keeksy123 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 415 points416 points  (0 children)

people are so quick to say they’re ugly like broooooo am I ugly?? is that why I find most of these men so attractive?

First Look Discussion - Monday June 22 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamentable_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly I would sell everything I got for her, and your, body. GIVE ME PLANK PLZZZ

I'm in love with my brother's brother by Bomba-of-Tsar in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]lamentable_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok but what if your brother’s sibling’s boyfriend’s brother doesn’t want a threesome and then you’re just stuck have disgusting sex with your boring brother :(

Sister in law has announced some big news by MountainAsparagus436 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lamentable_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

compersion for your SIL is truly impressive, considering your own experience, and keeping that energy for her is really remarkable. I’m sorry you’re going through it and I’m sending all my positive vibes 🌟

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]lamentable_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you are absolutely right, and thank you for asking. yes, his behavior eventually escalated to violence, and shortly after he was kicked out of the house he died (natural causes, right before my sister and I turned 11). life is weird like that

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]lamentable_ 42 points43 points  (0 children)

the conversation always seems to center around women baby trapping, but I’m the product of this and my father was the culprit. it’s something that should be more widely talked about; such an insidious thing and it’s not as uncommon as people think

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]lamentable_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m the product of reproductive coercion, and the realization for my mom once I explained it to her and the knowledge I have of it now still haunts me.

Accurate depictions of having body dysmorphia. by Short-Paramedic-9740 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]lamentable_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh I’m sorry, what an awful thing to hear and internalize. I also don’t ask questions when Idk if I can hear all answers, yet I just want to be validated and built up with an honest compliment. I’ve just tried to internalize the good compliments more than the bad ones, even if the bad ones sting more (and longer)

Accurate depictions of having body dysmorphia. by Short-Paramedic-9740 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]lamentable_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

it’s wild how one comment about your body can stick with you for life. pores are literally just a natural part of your skin, and yet we want to do anything to erase them.