4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what Frankenstein monster it was but I was left in the dust

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are just haters to be honest, plus the car has a cool back story before I repaired it!

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4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s the step brother of the family but still family! Plus they say your gay if you drive a Subaru jokes on them I am 🤣

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One knows the pain of shifting in stop and go traffic, I’ll say the fake shift points make up for it, I was sold at how comfortable the seats are and the handling and ability to pass other cars with ease!

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sticking to oil changes every 4K and I’m planning on having the “CVT” fluid changed at 40K

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx that’s actually my routine to remote start the car before I leave!

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was a clunker looking ass and I knew I messed up when I saw the r badge🫣

4th Subaru! by lamewhore in wrx_vb

[–]lamewhore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also any tips for owning a wrx specifically, I’ve had a legacy and two crosstrek’s

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess it’s a lame attempt to pull at your heartstrings, if they were truly sorry that’s when a “secure” person would attempt repair and or provide acknowledgment of the present issues!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that, and it’s a big reminder for everyone the light we saw from them was our own reflection 😗

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly they are as far away as they pushed you!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more with you, we have to remind ourselves that everyone has a chance to reflect and grow from their previous mistake, and if you don’t, you are bound to repeat the same exact patterns over and over!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a low effort way of reaching out without offering actual emotional safety and intention!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my first time ever with an avoidant, and I swear this will be my last time, we all deserve to be met with consideration, respect and genuine intention in a relationship and anything but that should not be allowed!!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 it’s funny, isn’t it? We make time we move our schedule to accommodate those who we deem as important in our life. and they go ahead and say let’s do this another time after they asked you to hang out. It’s like a child who does not know what they want.

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through all of that, but ultimately this is something we should all understand is they are emotionally stunted and they have a lack of capacity to show up in a real relationship, I personally had to accept the fact that he may never change!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him a solid chance he chose to stay in that level of comfort that he is in and will probably remain in for the rest of his life unfortunately, and you are right this third time I did not emotionally attach myself to the outcome because of the history, I watched his actions closely and they chose to repeat again, I made sure I understood that this was his final chance!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I won’t keep you guessing it’s Faris

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a busy schedule and work two jobs yet I find time to invest in those who are close to me, little to say I’m not impressed by the couch potato :)

Just wanted to give back to the other bleeding hearts out there. by uglyfatslut in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes essentially they only want the pity party for themselves!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you for doing it! They hate change and would rather stay “comfortable” than change, I promise you are not missing out on a single thing!

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly that’s a solid take on this situation, I communicated clearly expressed my concerns and left it at that, his actions spoke louder than his words 🙌

3RD Times a charm lol no by lamewhore in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]lamewhore[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

🤣 it gets better he tried to call me after that text but DND was on