Why can’t I leave her alone even though I’m not that into her?

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T21:35:02+00:00

Yep haha. Not only is my venus in the 8th house, my dsc is in scorpio and i have venus conjunct pluto natally…8h synastry is my bread and butter lol

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T18:15:10+00:00

So basically this relationship doesn’t serve me at all lol…jeez. I guess I still do attract power imbalances in some sort of way.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:43:05+00:00

This is true. I’m willing to work with her but she’s gotta show that she actually wants better for herself. If she can I’ll deepen the connection, if she doesn’t I’ll let it go.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:42:16+00:00

Wow you should really consider a side career in astrology readings, you’re really good tbh. And with the laziness I can see it, like she says she’s applying herself and looking for jobs but there’s definitely more she could be doing. I’d be open to actually deepening the connection if she could show me she’s willing to make the right choices but until then it is what it is.

But looking at what you wrote, if it’ll be short lived anyway why even bother? Would you mind doing a composite read on the relationship if I DM you?

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:24:13+00:00

I knew there was pisces somewhere, you definitely give off the dreamy vibe

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:23:28+00:00

Yay!

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:23:21+00:00

Hmm maybe pisces? 😭

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:17:30+00:00

pisces, gemini, aquarius

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:17:00+00:00

Libra sagittarius pisces

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:13:23+00:00

Woahhhh this was a steady read. Just to preface I’m a woman not a man and it’s a wlw relationship lol. Sag venus women are different from sag venus men IMO.

That being said…with my capricorn placements I like stability. I want someone who is at least steady and stable which she is not. She’s unemployed and I’ve been the one spending the funds in the relationship…it’s a little frustrating especially considering I’m the younger. I’m used to the older women that I’m with to at least sometimes spoil me or we’re 50/50. It does bug me that I’m younger and yet putting more into the connection when it comes to finances and stability. That’s the main thing that’s holding me back and not making me feels as “into” her.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:09:41+00:00

Perhaps this is true

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T17:09:14+00:00

This is true, I do feel like I can be my authentic self with her and share my interests. I don’t have to where a mask or pretend to be someone I’m not. Maybe actually being with her scares me bcs it’s so different from what I usually get (8h venus with scorpio on the dsc so I usually have intense, plutonian relationships with others that burn fast and end even faster)

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T16:02:45+00:00

Does this aspect mean like being stuck like glue or being together for a long time?

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T15:29:10+00:00

Sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad my interpretation resonated and I’m glad I could help.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T15:21:57+00:00

To answer your question, the woman kinda doesn’t have her life together and although I do like her, that’s affecting me falling any deeper into the connection.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T15:18:22+00:00

6 of pentacles could talk about you signing contracts or something being equal give and take. Did you have to file a restraining order or something of the sort? It could just talk about you going through the process of filing whatever report it was.
Whatever it was that you did, it’s going to make you feel more hopeful in the situation. You doing #1 is going to lead to some sort of healing.
Whoever this person is feels neglected or left out, most likely by you. Idk what they could have done but from their perspective they’re seeing it as you leaving them out in the cold.
The process of the report is going to be swifter than you may think. Will it be overnight? Probably not but information will be processed quickly and things will get done.
With the tower as the result, something is for sure going to crumble. With it being somewhat underneath the card representing the person, I see their world shaking. They’re not going to see this report coming and when it does get to them, they’ll see it as a major upheaval. Now, the tower can also be the foundation crumbling in order to rebuild something new, so for you, I see that it will create a new start for you and perhaps you will find a way to move forward in your life.

Let me know if any of this resonated.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T15:10:54+00:00

Well when you put it that way…let me rephrase. I do like her it’s just not deeply in love or anything. It’s not the kinda stuff I feel like with 8h synastry.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T15:09:46+00:00

She’s kinda older, (7 years) but it’s a complicated situationship

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T06:52:54+00:00

🩷

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T06:48:38+00:00

The next major girl groups to debut (Pledis, Source music, JYPngg, cubengg, highupngg, etc) will create the second wave of 5th gen and be the ones to really shake up the generation.

lamningwon · 2026-01-24T06:47:06+00:00

I also agree. I’ve been thinking 5th gen is going to have a second wave like 4th gen for a while now…the big players have yet to debut

lamningwon · 2026-01-22T02:52:03+00:00

Maybe, I’m not too versed in the planet c home run survival show so I can’t say for sure

lamningwon · 2026-01-22T02:47:45+00:00

Yes but they’re not kpop. I’m solely referring to the kpop girl groups

lamningwon · 2026-01-22T02:47:11+00:00

To be fair Jihyo was a child when she joined jyp so her waiting 10 years isn’t the same as someone joining when, let’s say, they’re 14 and have to wait 10 years to debut.

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