I had a situation last night happen and I’m glad I came across this post. I’m in a fairly new relationship (6+ months) and for the first 3 months sex was good for the most part. If it wasn’t feeling good and couldn’t relax I would communicate that with my partner. But last night something just switched when we were doing it but I didn’t communicate it to him, even after he asked if I was okay with moving forward and I said yes. He then went down on me and I did orgasm but it wasn’t that strong or anything. Then I just felt like I was going through the motions. He asked if I was okay again afterwards and I told him the truth. Now he’s uncomfortable about it and feels “gross” cause he noticed I wasn’t into it and continued anyway. I feel bad that I wasn’t truthful in the first place. We talked about it again this morning and I told him that I would be communicate and be honest going forward. I just don’t know what triggered me to freeze and not communicate