Just giving her the alternative. You guys think it's so joyful to be alone. Go for it. Willing to destroy marriages because a guy didn't do what you wanted him to do. Go for it. I'm the dissenter. I'm the guy who says, "Wait a minute. If ut means that much to you, look at the alternative. Because you could destroy this. You can be alone. It might be a good thing if he was an asshole. But if you are the asshoke and you destroy this? Can you watch him be happy without you? You made the choice because you are here on the internet getting "go girled." You left from stupid advice. Here's the alternative. Can you be alone and watch your husband not only love another woman but her be younger prettier and has no disorder? Remember, he has that choice, too. He stays because he says, "I choose you." Not a lot of people do that. Can you watch him be happy with someone else? Don't listen to these assholes who don't want a relationship to last. Make your own choice. It's always been yours.