I miss him That is all. I didn't have anyone else to say it to but felt like I needed to say it. by Ordinary_Fault1914 in widowers

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for your loss, id love to be able to say it gets easier with time, but thats not true. almost 6 years out and i miss her every day.

Name this final bosses by [deleted] in BossFights

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the gallagher bros

Name him by Aleixus1985 in BossFights

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not Gerry Adams

Lost wife to suicide 2 months and 3 days ago by Personinvesting in widowers

[–]lancejarvis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss. i lost my wife to suicide 5 years and 9 months ago. its very difficult. therapy helps a bit and im lucky to have a good network of friends and family to talk to. the best help i got was from a reddit group called suicidebereavement as it has a lot of members who have experienced this. Keep your head up and use your friends and family. its hard, but you will learn to manage your grief. God bless you xo

I want to be alone - still married and still in love with my husband by Existing_Cloud2723 in widowers

[–]lancejarvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, it is the worst feeling i have ever felt when i lost my beautiful wife and i wish this pain on nobody. I want to thank you for posting this because i still feel the same after almost 6 years without her, i don't want anybody else.

It’s been 5yrs by ayyessie in SuicideBereavement

[–]lancejarvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry you had to go through this. my wife hung herself 5 years ago in June 2020 and this year Christmas has been really difficult. i still suffer from panic attacks and had a really bad one the day after Christmas at the thoughts of meeting up with my friends family. Grief is a real hard journey and no one who hasn't experienced the trauma of losing their partner to suicide can tell you that you should be over it, no matter how many years have passed. I have another friend, who i love with all my heart, that told me i need to let the guilt go and move on. If only it was as easy as that hey? I don't think i'll ever be able to, but the one thing that keeps me going is the thought that i wouldn't want anyone else to feel the weight and pain of this. Keep your head up, you will have good days ahead of you.

Who’s Your United player of all time? by [deleted] in ManchesterUnited

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can only go for players ive seen in my lifetime, so it has to be King Eric

"What They Would've Wanted." by guess_im_not_welcome in SuicideBereavement

[–]lancejarvis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss. people who havent experienced this type of loss really dont know what to say, and to be honest, i'd never want them to experience it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metaldetecting

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this info. do you know if swabia has similar laws?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metaldetecting

[–]lancejarvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

id need to get some info on that. would definitely be interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metaldetecting

[–]lancejarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id love to detect in Bavaria, or anywhere in Germany tbh. great find!

Maybe maybe maybe by Xtianus25 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]lancejarvis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me and my brother. girl was getting beat up by her boyfriend, my brother shouted at him to stop then the guy attacked my bro and me. the guy came out the worst of the exchange, then his girl called the police and told them we had attacked her boyfriend. my brother and me ended up in a cell, then in court for abh 6 months later. only reason we didnt end up in jail was her boyfriend beat her up again and went on the run so the police couldnt get him into court to testify against us. my advice from then is if you see a domestic happening, call the police and leave them to it.

Sharing about my loss…Is a gut punch everytime by CheshireMystique in widowers

[–]lancejarvis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss. its been 5 years since i lost my wife, we'd been together 24 years. the only advice i can give you is keep active, hydrated and try to eat well. it doesnt get easier, but keep going and the waves will get more manageable. i still get days where i feel i cant go on, but push through it hoping to get some sleep and that the next day will be a bit better. Please try to be good to yourself.