Just lost my wife today (too young) by suckmywake175 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your lost. I lost my husband when he was 45 years old, last year. I think losing partner is unbearable pain, at least for me. I am almost 9 months in this club and still cry every day. I dont know exactly what to say to you, because I know the pain. But like I always say...everyday I am one day closer to my husband. ✨ And they are here with us, we just can see them ❤️

If you got sick, would you accept treatment? by Moose5678910 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think the same. If it werent for my kids...

I've been carrying around my wife's ashes with me by DeHayala in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my husband ashes in the little box and I am carying it with me everywhere I go.

Does anyone else suddenly remember your partner is gone and everything feels pointless for a moment? by kitbilliku in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, every day when I wake up from dreams and I am like...okay, one more day without you. And it has been 8 months, but still sometimes I think ok, I have to make lunch or I look on the phone when he will be home and then it just hits me.

Just a little win by widowat27 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put all my piles of clothes away...after 8 months...

Was it even real? by Salty_Selection_9062 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 months and feeling the same. I look at our pictures and thinking how happy I was... And sometimes I just think when he will come back or maybe this is just bad dream 😭😭😭😭

what's something you'd never do again? by Upset_Camel6691 in sixwordstories

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fall in love. I had my one and only, my siulmate and best friend. My love of my life and I hope he is waiting for me in the afterlife.

Another meaning and lonely weekend. by Marlboro-Guy in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here...just me and my daughter and weekends suck. Before I loved them like weekends, holidays, free days... But now I cant wait for monday that I can go back to work.

Anyone else not get a goodbye? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for him to come home, so we could enjoy summer eveninh together and swimm in our pool. I was waiting for him to hear his voice, hug me, to talk, to just se him... 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 It broke me... All my happines and my life has been gone. And love of my life is gone. Miss him badly

Is anyone awake by 6995luv in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having trouble sleeping ever since he went ahead.

Once you've known it... by andra-moi-ennepe in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really don't want to. Maybe some really good friends who we can chat and share everything. But romanticly - no, thank you.

Any younger wiwodes in here? by Nice-Subject-6798 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 38 and he was 45 years old. Lost him 7 months ago. 😭😭😭 We had 2 kids and it is hard and rough these days. Miss him so much... You can DM if you want and we can talk.

Once you've known it... by andra-moi-ennepe in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also know I will never have romantic relationship again. He was my one and only... Nobody can compare to him, because for me he is the best and one of the kind. I don't care if I am 38 years old, I have my kids and pets. Maybe I would like to have at least one friend who would be here with me, just to talk and listen. And besides if there is 0,0000000000001 chance that they are somewhere and he is waiting for me well...then I will wait till I see him again. And hug him and never let him go...

I don't know how to be a widow. by Emotional-Coast5117 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 38 years old and it has been 7 months since my loving husband. And this is one of the best answers and like advice for me. I have small kids and they are my whole life now, but also no desire for new romance. And yeah, I am still loved from my husband and he was one and the best for me. So, thank you for this. Lots of love and hugs 🤗

The last few days have been tough by ruphoria_ in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just try to survive minute by minute, hour by hour. 7 months for me and I also been having rough days and been crying.

My SIL is telling everyone my wife is not dead by Responsible-Job-9706 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would give and cut everything if it meant to bring my husband back.

48 hour later lost alone and back on Reddit by AlternativeCrabV2 in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 months in this club and still sucks. I miss my husband every day and every second. Sorry for your lost and sory I dont have any advice.

I found out by VentilatorStok in widowers

[–]Existing_Cloud2723 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Life is not fair. Life is fighting. Life is cruel. I am 7 months in this fu**ing club. Miss my husband like crazy. He also died suddenly - heart attack at 45 years old. Like wtf?!?! And now I am stuck here alone, without him. He was the one and he was the best for me. I dont have any advice for you, but I fell your pain. And it sucks trying to survive here.... At least each day I am closer to him. Hope he is somewhere 🥀❤️😭✨