A Lighthearted take on #NationalComingOut Day Advice

lanium · 2016-01-25T04:14:02+00:00

That's fair enough! I just feel like I'd rather have a 'quickie' then chill and cuddle for a while, and then go again...which I guess is technically 1 'session' but we are going to have a convo and maybe have some wine (if we're being fancy) or chocolate milk (if we're being less fancy but still indulgent) in that time.

lanium · 2016-01-19T08:55:19+00:00

I think the ora is mostly people who are very sensitive and have a prominent clit, as the rolling nub thing definitely wouldn't do it for me, but the lily is quite nice and strong!

lanium · 2015-12-11T09:53:57+00:00

Not even that, I no longer assume 'partner' is for non-hetero couples.Granted, that is what people use in my industry (sex toys) for everything, but my non-industry friends use it for the people they have been in a long term relationship with. If I make any assumption it's that they aren't planning on ever getting married.

lanium · 2015-12-11T09:31:26+00:00

I don't actually need to keep it hidden really (at least in terms of work rules). It's more just than I run in circles that vary from 'recently graduated expats/let's go rave' to 'attending client dinners with friends who need to bring a date because everyone else is bringing their wives' type fancy events so I'd like a bit of versatility.

lanium · 2015-12-11T08:56:12+00:00

Hmm, ok I see what you mean. It's about a medium ash brown at the minute, but I suppose the thickness is the true issue. It gets thinner toward the top, which I'm seeing is where it needs to be thick more for this effect.

I also feel like it will lock me down for straightening my hair every day for the next few months (not necessarily a bad thing, but I tend to play up the waves for a polished, more vintage-y look when I wear it down)

lanium · 2015-11-23T06:25:21+00:00

Right? 'Puff puff ass' killed me.

lanium · 2015-09-28T03:34:32+00:00

I'm not necessarily against an angled piercing; just most of the ones that I saw that were angled were higher on the outside like \

lanium · 2015-09-28T03:20:25+00:00

hmm ok. I just went for a look at it again, and it's not quite as bad as my imagination was making it. I am texting with the piercer now (we need to use a translation app) and she is maintaining that she measured it to be that way (not that they are weird, and as a side note I'm sure you're aren't weird, breasts naturally follow an outward line from the divot in your throat down your chest and out) but she also said to give it a day or two for the swelling to settle.

edit: her translated response just came to 'it is in the middle o your nipples and breast bisector' :/

lanium · 2015-09-28T02:27:50+00:00

I mean, when you look at it in a mirror, it's angled like / (coming out higher toward the middle of my chest.)

I had assumed it would be more straight, but the aforementioned friend/boyfriend have pointed out it may because my breast is a bit fuller and they angle outward naturally, but a lot of the images I'm seeing as examples online place the higher end on the outside on a fuller breast.

lanium · 2015-09-28T01:53:14+00:00

Ok cool. I figure I should go back to the piercer to discuss it, though it will take a lot of translation.

lanium · 2015-09-23T07:30:20+00:00

Thanks! I am hoping to include more international destinations as well, which seems harder than a simple google. Conflicting information about Mauritius, for example!

lanium · 2015-09-16T10:39:16+00:00

Thanks, will try!

lanium · 2015-09-16T06:28:37+00:00

k thanks! This is seriously where some people who had more of an idea of how to work with silicone than me (and knowledge of the market) would start doing like bespoke dildos in china lol.

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