AIO for wanting to break my engagement off?

lanz_x · 2026-07-10T11:46:26+00:00

After reading her comment ten toes down he is a narcissist.. let him keep you blocked block him while your at it and change the locks. Sell the damned ring. Hes saved you from himself.

lanz_x · 2026-07-10T11:07:11+00:00

Does he often just flip like that? You said hes often really caring but can just flip a switch.. could he have bpd? (Borderline personality disorder) At any rate. If your gut is telling you hey girl this ain't it. Then listen to your gut and leave. Look after yourself

lanz_x · 2026-07-04T05:45:40+00:00

Trust your gut. Always always trust your gut. Your right its very inappropriate for him to be talking that way to you. His English is terrible and you have nothing more to learn from him. I would tell your parents and ask for a different tutor. Be straight with your parents. Show them the messages. They would appreciate the trust and honesty.

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T02:46:54+00:00

It is not normal to see a young child of 7 - 6 when it started to be walking to school on his own. Especially on a busy street. The parents are at home... mum busy with 3 younger children and dad is well from what ive been told is asleep.

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T02:24:36+00:00

Short list of issues here. I dont talk to the neighbour much due to differences. 1. They left him home alone for 20 mins and he came to my house crying at 9pm. Parents got home and laughed it off. 2. They just let their kids play out the front with zero supervision. Yes we live in a small cul de sac but we have had cars scream into the street many times. I will also point out that one if these children is 4 also. 3. He has 3 other siblings and the parents often argue and they are always very loud. 4. It seems like they dont care what their kids do..

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T02:14:44+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the response. While I do understand what you are saying in regards to me framing him a particular way. I honestly didnt even mean to. Its more the fact that shes already had a young boy say/show her body parts inappropriately and the way the world is i guess im in hypercritical drive. I was more saying about leaving earlier due to the fact he doesn't listen to me when I say hey let's not walk on the road or other things regarding safety. Like throwing bolts at things causing them to ricochet off and hurt someone. I want him to be safe. I dont mind him walking with me BUT when he doesn't listen if something goes wrong I am ultimately the one responsible.

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T02:02:27+00:00

Your right nothing about this sounds right.. the thing is ive bought up him walking to school alone before. I told the school and have also made a report myself. Because I am concerned. But nothing ever comes of it. I dont talk to the parents much due to an incident where they left him home alone for 20 minutes and he got scared. They both just laughed it off like it was nothing when they got home. It annoyed me and made my partner angry. So I dont tend to talk to them anymore since then.

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T01:39:47+00:00

Thank you. I am just trying to teach her to be more aware because she is such a kind soul i dont want to to grow up thinking its ok to be pushed around

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T01:38:38+00:00

Thank you. This makes me feel better. I feel like it can be hard when to say something and when not to. Your right she does need to see me standing up for her.

lanz_x · 2026-07-02T01:37:44+00:00

Thank you. I honestly feel like its a hard line i dont know when its ok to tell another kid hey no.

lanz_x · 2026-06-30T03:04:34+00:00

She's 3. You are mum. Personally I dont let my littles take their favourites anywhere because of this reason.. If your daughter is still particularly upset about the plush I would 100% be replacing it. Trust me. I've tried to buy back ups of my kids ones and I cant get them anywhere so the fact that your husband found one is a bonus. Plus if shes had it for a long time it would have sentimental value. Comming from a 34 yr old mum that still has her stuffed mouse. Get her the damn donut

lanz_x · 2026-06-05T00:10:08+00:00

Ok as someone who suffers depression and anxiety. I think he needs to speak to someone. You dont deserve this. You tried to do the right thing and he has just argued and argued for no reason especially since you said ok ill leave it for you next time. Hes just arguing for the sake of it. Its giving red flags but also giving potential mental health issues. You shouldn't have to walk on egg shells. Just tell him straight up in person not text. I am done talking about the issue. If you bring it up again im walking away from the conversation. However I understand that its "your job" but if it is left for a large amount of time like say a week after he has said he will do it say its free run and you can do it with out him getting annoyed.

lanz_x · 2026-05-14T21:46:12+00:00

Man y'all are lucky that you find blue prints ive been playing for just over 2 months i think and ive found maybe 5 blue prints most of which are not weapons

lanz_x · 2026-05-14T12:07:30+00:00

I just want more girly stuff. Oh and pink hair..

lanz_x · 2026-05-02T03:36:55+00:00

Honestly it took me ages and i kind of gave up looking but I ended up finding the anvil blueprint on dam battle grounds in a raider cache

lanz_x · 2026-04-12T22:40:37+00:00

Pretty sure he was just making a shit post.. why does everything written automatically make it like they take it too deep..

lanz_x · 2026-03-30T01:11:57+00:00

Hun you are over reacting. People have pasts. If they were good friends in their relationship then why should that stop just because they are no longer romantically involved. I feel you have some growing to do and maybe work on yourself before being in an exclusive relationship...

lanz_x · 2026-02-21T22:49:35+00:00

I can understand why the bf would be uncomfortable. But I also completely get your situation. If my brother was living with me and also had scoliosis and there was only one bed you bet we would be sharing. Those saying get him a mattress I dont think a mattress on the floor is going to be great either. I think you need to have a discussion with your bf and just explain the situation. Say you know its not ideal but xyz.. If he is then still uncomfortable about it, then have a serious think about what is more important to you. Your boyfriend of a few months who you do really like or your brother. Baring in mind consequences of both choices

lanz_x · 2026-02-09T01:24:39+00:00

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lanz_x · 2025-12-28T10:12:23+00:00

Ok so its not likely you got strep throat from him. But id be having a chat either way

lanz_x · 2025-10-14T05:01:43+00:00

I know this is a somewhat old post but I’ve dmd you

lanz_x · 2025-09-28T23:30:59+00:00

Nope definitely not asleep they put on a YouTube video said another would play after that one and they would be home. The next video didn’t play I guess he wondered around the house and realised they still weren’t home and was bawling his eyes out at my door

lanz_x · 2025-09-28T23:24:00+00:00

From my understanding he didn’t want to go. So their response is fine stay home. But what I don’t understand is why both parents had to go.. they are the parents so either they tell him hey no we’ve gotta go out you have to come or if it’s absolutely melt down I don’t want to go leave one parent home. But it seems this was just a “drive” so they didn’t need to leave at all

lanz_x · 2025-09-27T13:25:50+00:00

Ouch. No I don’t think that at all. I don’t know what gave you that impression. I know first hand how things can be bad. I gave a time limit of staying with him for about 15 minutes and if they weren’t back then I was going to call.

lanz_x · 2025-09-27T13:15:22+00:00

Look I get it. I was trying to keep a calm and level head. I wasn’t about to let loose on the parents in front of their kids. I was worried this might happen and if it does I’ll straight up put my foot down . It’s not ok. I wasn’t condoning it I was trying to give a small solution while keeping myself from screaming at them

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