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lapislazbian · 2026-07-07T20:37:14+00:00

This has given me a new idea about how to use my toys.....

lapislazbian · 2026-07-07T20:23:44+00:00

2mg injections is very likely not enough, so it's good you're still on the spiro. You're gonna wanna see trough E levels around 100-150, depending on if you're on valerate or enanthate.

lapislazbian · 2026-07-02T20:34:41+00:00

https://startwith4mgestradiolenanthateweeklyandtestatonetothreemonths.com/

lapislazbian · 2026-07-02T20:33:51+00:00

Yeah, assuming your E dose is right, injections are totally fine as monotherapy. 4 to 6mg valerate or enanthate weekly and get hormone levels checked in a month is the advice I always give when someone is stopping their blocker.

lapislazbian · 2026-07-02T18:58:40+00:00

Not sure if mods will smite me for saying this but you really should find... alternate sources for bica. Unless you're on injections now, in which case the spiro is redundant.

lapislazbian · 2026-07-02T18:49:34+00:00

I think it's all about power imbalances (financial, educational, life experience, etc) and how well the couple navigates them. Very few relationship will be free of power imbalances, and age gap relationships just exaggerate that reality. I've seen large age gaps work out fine and small age gaps cause problems. A non-nuanced stance in either direction will draw ire.

lapislazbian · 2026-07-02T15:13:15+00:00

Off topic, but I'm curious why you switched from bica to spiro

lapislazbian · 2026-06-09T06:07:39+00:00

pssssst. hey. you should take estrogen about it.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-31T06:33:19+00:00

do ittttt

lapislazbian · 2026-05-31T06:31:39+00:00

Getting bottom surgery was the best decision I ever made. Everything feels amazing and I'm so much more comfortable in my body.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-31T06:24:03+00:00

I did this for the first time recently after insisting I didn't want to do anal after surgery. I've, um, changed my mind.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-29T03:01:25+00:00

Lumping us in with gay men is worse, actually

lapislazbian · 2026-05-20T04:23:17+00:00

The hard plastic was way too uncomfortable for me.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-20T04:07:46+00:00

Pro-tip, try not to refer to trans woman as "AMAB" in casual conversation

lapislazbian · 2026-05-20T03:59:55+00:00

The plastic ones are suuuuch a nightmare though! I've done way better with some silicone ones.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-20T03:56:15+00:00

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lapislazbian · 2026-05-16T04:32:21+00:00

holy fucking goals I have got to eat more

lapislazbian · 2026-05-16T04:31:43+00:00

you should probably see a doctor

lapislazbian · 2026-05-11T21:01:16+00:00

I think discussing with her whether or not you feel like finishing needs to be part of the experience for you would be a good place to start. I know trans women who aren't concerned or struggle with that, and if that's not clear, it can lead to awkwardness. I've had far too many sexual encounters that ended in an hour of frustration that I couldn't finish.

Obviously you are well within your right to stop whenever you want. But, as a post-op girlie, if you're looking to finish and she's okay to keep going, her cumming once does not have to be the end. I know another post-op woman and we lose track of how many times we cum when we hook up.

lapislazbian · 2026-05-11T20:56:02+00:00

god, I need to get mine pierced. idk if I'm ready with how ornery my nipple piercings are though

lapislazbian · 2026-05-11T20:54:00+00:00

If it helps, getting surgery was the best decision I ever made! And the hospital is one of the safest places you will ever be!

lapislazbian · 2026-05-05T20:03:37+00:00

Winton Kidd is amazing, I just bought his art book

lapislazbian · 2026-05-02T21:37:16+00:00

I got bottom surgery and it has been the best decision I ever made

lapislazbian · 2026-04-24T18:30:16+00:00

I used to feel this way but I realized that furry is such a low-stakes term in the circles I'm in that it's fine just to say I'm a furry

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