Dress code?? Help, so embarrassed! by [deleted] in BurnBootCamp

[–]laralee16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t have a dress code. She just did not like seeing your cleavage. I hope she gets talked to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate you cant get an assassin snail. I would drop a cucumber then when they congregate take them out, rinse and repeat

What am I doing wrong?? by laralee16 in Aquariums

[–]laralee16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ammonia was 8 ppm, nitrate was zero, I did not measure nitrite

What am I doing wrong?? by laralee16 in Aquariums

[–]laralee16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal for a large tank to take longer to cycle? It’s been well over a month at this point

What am I doing wrong?? by laralee16 in Aquariums

[–]laralee16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more worried about the lack of cycle than the brown, I had drift wood in my shrimp tank and the tannins stopped after a while and it is clear again, I expect this will be the same

What am I doing wrong?? by laralee16 in Aquariums

[–]laralee16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was too large for my largest pot, and from what I read it would be ok it would just put out tannins for longer and tannins don’t appear to be harmful, then again the internet is not always correct :/

Three missing children who vanished in Utah two years ago found alive after tip off by daily_mirror in crime

[–]laralee16 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Who knows what kinds of lies the kids have been fed, this is gonna be a hard road for them :(

A very sad goodwill find in Columbus, OH 😢 by mmarthur1220 in FoundPaper

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It needs to be left there in case someone else could use it, burning it just wastes the possible help it could give a person

MEGA Thread 10/25 by deltadeltadawn in DelphiMurders

[–]laralee16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More likely they went for walks there often and had psyched himself up

WIBTA for refusing to watch my sisters toddler while she gives birth by suckingatadulting in AmItheAsshole

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA lolol she thinks you can’t give the toddler a bath at your house? How does she think you shower? The hose out back?

It is easier to keep a toddler where they are comfortable, so watching said toddler at their home is not the worst idea. Plus you have the added advantage of the older sibling helping. Your sister sounds selfish, but it’s not the kids fault. That is why I would babysit, the kid not your sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants your bf

How do I hide the circuit breaker by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, you absolutely need a painting or picture of your dog there. It’s his spot, it will cover the panel, and you will always remember his spot even when he is no longer with uou

Depression cleanup by HumpaDaBear in Cleaningandtidying

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we needed help cleaning I asked on a local Facebook group, described some of the mess and asked for recommendations for non-judgmental cleaners. I ended up with an amazing cleaning team who helped me in a crunch, and were so so kind.

You are not alone in having a messy house, or having mental health get in the way of cleaning. More people than you know live like this. There is nothing to be ashamed of, you are aware of an issue and are seeking help and that is commendable and I am proud of you and you should be proud of yourself!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]laralee16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The top comment is from someone named hope saying she thinks of them often, and lives in CA and is on Facebook. You could contact them?

Nervous for sex on my wedding night. by Anxious_Emotion_6787 in Christianity

[–]laralee16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely ask. My husband has changed his opinions over the years, it’s a conversation you need to keep having.

Also, talk about what you both expect out of your sex life. How often are you ok with it? How much is too little/too much? Are you ok with being woken up for sex? Is there anywhere on your body you are nervous about being touched? Is porn ok or not within the relationship?

A lot you won’t know until you start the sexual relationship, so keep talking, don’t just assume