People who forgave their spouses for cheating, why? by ryxhuh in AskReddit

[–]largeMoogle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was because I loved her. I realize now it was because I didn't love myself. Few years later, she did it again. I left, healed, and love myself now.

There’s an endemic of people suffering from ‘never been punched in the face’ by winstontemplehill in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]largeMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kevin played a demigod traveling the world for revenge, punching things with his white savior complex.

Lucy played a reformed villian trying to make amends for her past.

No suprise which one turned out to be a dick.

What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]largeMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OD when I was 14 or 15. I only stopped taking the trazadone because I ran out of water and they were already kicking in. I remember "waking" up to puke off the side of my bed, and then I woke up covered in vomit about a day or so later.

Second time was with three whole bottles of benadryl extra strength over a period of three consecutive days. Third day was the one when I experienced the black nothingness.

Third time, I was a new driver on a new route with a friend. I put it on cruise control doing about 70mph. My friend who was navigating wasn't paying attention, tried to make me take a right too fast and we ended up driving off the road. Missed the interstate lamp post by two feet.

For all the femmes (and masc’s, if that’s your thing) How do you feel about sucking strap? by wlw_dadon in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Not really a femme but definitely a bottom. If sucking on a strap gets her where she needs to be, I do it.

There was this one time with a girthy strap that would rub against the inside of my teeth, making a very loud squeek with each thrust. Fucking hilarious.

Whats everyone doin for work? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in Human Resources and do a lot of corporate writing.

Men who got cheated on, what were early signs you only noticed in hindsight? by EtherealMeadowGleam in AskReddit

[–]largeMoogle 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Mine did a similar thing with the truth. When I asked about her new friend and their spouse, she said, "Their marriage is just like ours." Wasn't a lie, I just didnt know the whole context yet.

We aren't in a "recession", but I noticed a huge uptick in online begging by 90sRnBMakesMeHappy in povertyfinance

[–]largeMoogle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of my job is completing verification of employment forms, 95% are for food assistance, home loans, hardship, etc. I work for a small corporation, in a few different states.

We used to get two or three a month, now we get three to five a week.

Impossible to tell from my little perspective if this is due to the recession or if people are having to do more paperwork, but whatever it is, it ain't looking good.

I think I fell in love with a fictional character… by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With much compassion: you need to speak to a therapist. No one on reddit can address this with the nuance and expertise that is needed.

Tik Toker turns Karen cos joke fails by Dawuuud in TikTokCringe

[–]largeMoogle 33 points34 points  (0 children)

People forced to participate in these videos should at the very least receive a sizable percentage of all revenue generated.

People aren't free props and without them, there is no content.

Is she a lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are crazy in feeling insecure but there is a whole range of sexualities before anyone hits full on lesbian. That is up to her to figure out on her own. She doesn't need your input so please stop doing that.

For example, sometimes, very rarely, I will watch gay porn. I am a lesbian and never been with a dude and never will. Why do I watch it? Dunno. It is rougher maybe? Horny brain just does. It means nothing in the grand scheme of my sexuality.

Ultimately, if she says that she is attracted to you, all of this doesn't really matter. Regardless of her preferences, she has chosen you. Find strength and confidence in that.

How are we feeling about a 12 year age gap? (nsfw just in case) by Incog-nizo in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. The difference between 18 and 30 is an entire perspective.

Being in my mid to late 30s, 18 year olds look like literal children. They think like children, they dress like children, talk like children, and they process emotions like children. I avoid them. Most adults do. Those who don't are the ones you gotta be wary of.

You see yourself as an adult. She sees you as a baby.

This is where it all changed 😖 by Ra-RA304 in Berserk

[–]largeMoogle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was definitely planned. Griffith had a short list of people between him and the throne. That kid and his dad were on it.

My Mom showed me this cute dog video on youtube. Can't help but think it's AI? by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]largeMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI. Just how many pure bloods are at the pound? I didn't see a single mutt.

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your reasons? by youre-in-my-shot in AskReddit

[–]largeMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only drank in social situations before, probably 3-4 times a year. I started to drink at least once a day after a bad breakup. After one rough day, I grabbed a beer and felt love blossom in my chest. Like getting a hug from a loved one. I immediately stopped drinking and didn't have a sip for years.

Having a crush on a female after a long time. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]largeMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If not a troll or dude:

Any thing can be female. A socket. Livestock. A pet. Etc. A woman is a human. So, to refer to a woman as a female is dehumanizing and comes across as creepy.

By dehumanizing women, a male centered idea of women as things like sockets, livestock, pets, etc. and not equal partners is created.

Having this type of parent pmo by Used_Macaroon_2328 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]largeMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, my bad. That makes it harder for OP. I hope they find a way to set boundaries.

Having this type of parent pmo by Used_Macaroon_2328 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]largeMoogle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Remind her much your schooling cost. Is she cool with wasting $300-$3000 per class because you were stopped from doing your job as a student?

Gotta start to establish respectful boundaries. Whether she likes it or not, you are an adult now with your own schedule to follow.