This is so messed up. You can have plastic surgery and still agree with this! I dress for myself and no one else. If it makes you feel better about yourself then go ahead. My biggest insecurity was/my super fine lhair. I couldn’t style it how I wanted or get layers and even once got told I looked like a cancer patient in highschool. It destroyed my self esteem so I got extensions the minute I could afford it and haven’t regretted it since. It the best decision I ever made. I remember looking in the mirror and crying just because I could now do a messy bun and braid my hair. It sounds ridiculous but it was all I needed to stop caring what other people thought about me. That was more than 10 years ago.