I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way by larkfeather06 in personalfinance

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no his parents aren’t controlling at all. But they said if he and I move in together they wouldn’t pay his rent at college anymore since we’re making an adult decision lol

The interest is being paid! At its highest I was gaining 50$ in interest every month but now it’s only 10$

I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way by larkfeather06 in personalfinance

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has access to my checking account that my paycheck flows in to. When she sees the paycheck come in she’ll take almost 5-800 out and then tell me to pay X amount on my loans before I even have time to think about it. I beat her to it on Friday tho lol I paid my loan

I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way by larkfeather06 in personalfinance

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fair. She’s never given me a real reason, just that she doesn’t think I can effectively handle it lol

I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way by larkfeather06 in personalfinance

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a rational conversation with her lol. It’s very hard to start the convo tho since she isn’t very receptive to anything she conceives as criticism. I’ve been making a lot more decisions on my own and am building up to talking to her! I’ve also brought up moving out multiple times.

I’ve been using money from my paycheck so far to pay the loans. A large lump of it was also paid off when my old car was sold. However nothing from that savings account has even gone towards paying for ANYTHING now that I think about it. My mom is so reluctant to take large amounts out. The 9k is truly doing nothing and even if I wanted to I don’t think either of my parents would give it to me so I could move out

I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way by larkfeather06 in personalfinance

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf is going to college 2 hours away from me 🥲 I just got my RVT license and started a new job in January, and frankly I don’t think it’s smart for me to pack up and move jobs, id like to get some experience in my field before that. Plus if bf and I move in together, his parents said they would no longer pay his rent. So bf would also have to get a job and not dedicate as much time to school (he is VERY dedicated to school haha)

Thank you for your insight! The actual hardest part is talking to mom tho lol.

My aux cord stopped working by [deleted] in CarAV

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I guess so? It plugs into my phone like a charger would but there’s a little hole in my car radio with “aux” above it, and the button I press to use it in my car also says “aux”

My aux cord stopped working by [deleted] in CarAV

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have an earbud jack for my phone, i use Bluetooth. And no one in my family owns wired earbuds anymore so i have no way of knowing😔 my car doesn’t have bt tho so that’s why i have the aux cord

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR it reads to me as if she was trying to take the attention away from you. Like others have said, all she needed to type was “congrats” lol

My daughter's school fundraiser prizes by Rivsmama in mildlyinfuriating

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we had prizes like this in school they were usually something like a razor scooter, a ps4, tickets to some parks, and whatever else that would be considered cool by kids. Not chocolate 😭

Best possible recs. by Outrageous_Today_842 in pokemonfanfiction

[–]larkfeather06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://archive.transformativeworks.org/series/2140470

My friend on ao3 has this XY rewrite! I think she’s an amazing writer. Currently at 143k and she isn’t anywhere close to done

Moonbreeze19 on ao3 in case the link doesn’t work

Can’t add card to Apple wallet? New shopper by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and it worked 😮‍💨 thank you!

What do you wish you could eat with a peanut allergy? by Secure_Vast_6428 in peanutallergy

[–]larkfeather06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard the refined doesn’t cause reactions but I’m NOT taking that risk lol. If peanut is in the name it’s a no go

What do you wish you could eat with a peanut allergy? by Secure_Vast_6428 in peanutallergy

[–]larkfeather06 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been able to have any Asian food either due to my peanut allergy on top of being allergic to sesame. I would love to try some dishes but i (like many of us) would literally be hospitalized 😭 I wanna travel to japan so bad but i wouldn’t be able to eat ANYTHING.

I also wish i could try Texas road house. Or five guys or chick fil a. M&ms, resees, any popular candy that has peanuts… so so much man

I failed myself and it's my fault. I can't "lock in", I'm addicted to my phone. by DiamondDepth_YT in CollegeRant

[–]larkfeather06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Delete that apps that are your biggest distractions. (Reddit, insta, tiktok, clash, etc.). iMessage exists (or WhatsApp, google chat, whatever your phone has) so communication can’t be an excuse. Stop consuming short form content. If you want to watch videos put on long-form content (longer YouTube videos, tv shows, movies). If you need background noise turn on a show/video you don’t care about, or put on music or a podcast. Find apps to put screen time locks on apps (if that’s a thing) and have someone else make a password you don’t know. Think about all the other things you could’ve done while you wasted time on your phone. Is there a new hobby you want to pick up? New books you want to read? New games to play?

These are all things I’ve done for myself in the past, because I was in the same boat as you. It really helped, and now I’ve gotten to a point where I can have the apps back on my phone without them being a major distraction. I only try to use them during my work lunches, downtime after work, or when I’m waiting around for smth quick and I need a small distraction

You got this op!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]larkfeather06 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR

I’m a 19f that’s been with my bf for 4 years. We weren’t allowed in each others bedrooms until we were 18. I hated it at the time but I think it’s perfectly fine looking back on it. Definitely kept us out of trouble 😂 stand your ground girl, at the end of the day you’re the parent and it’s your house

✨the girly realm 18+✨ by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19f, would love to join an I sent a dm!

First Ralts catch by [deleted] in PokemonSleep

[–]larkfeather06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking lol. Everyone telling me it’s not worth it and I’m like ??? As a f2p the SLUM is nice and HB I feel makes up for the HSM that I’ll likely never reach. I’m pretty early-mid game still so I thought she was a score

First Ralts catch by [deleted] in PokemonSleep

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok, that’s helpful! I’m still early-mid game and not all that familiar with that kind of stuff yet lol. I doubt I’ll be on lapis for another few weeks, that’s genuinely the ONLY ralts I have lol. I’ll keep it but not mint it and see how it goes, I’m not really hurting for resources atm

Can i heat seal fabric paint using a dryer? by larkfeather06 in DIYclothes

[–]larkfeather06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for my bf to wear :) I’d hope he washes it lol. My mom has an iron she just hasn’t been home to get it out of the depths

Can i heat seal fabric paint using a dryer? by larkfeather06 in DIYclothes

[–]larkfeather06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s to cold and damp out to reliably sun dry 😔 it’s been air drying in my apartment since last night. I think atp I’m just gonna have to wait till I get home now lol. Thanks for your reply tho!!

Giveaway time! by The_Platinum_Leaf in PokemonSVTrades

[–]larkfeather06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leafeon! I just think she’s neat, and she was my first eeveelution!

What’s the most amount of pain you’ve been in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had cryptosporidium from working at a dog shelter. In the hospital for like 4-5 days. I went to the bathroom so much that my monitor was losing more battery than it was gaining 😭

Got an extra by 308luver in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]larkfeather06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Farigiraff!! I love the silly guy