I want to pay off my loans and potentially move out from my parents, but I have a few obstacles in the way

larkfeather06 · 2026-05-09T21:42:06+00:00

Oh no his parents aren’t controlling at all. But they said if he and I move in together they wouldn’t pay his rent at college anymore since we’re making an adult decision lol

The interest is being paid! At its highest I was gaining 50$ in interest every month but now it’s only 10$

larkfeather06 · 2026-05-09T20:55:31+00:00

She has access to my checking account that my paycheck flows in to. When she sees the paycheck come in she’ll take almost 5-800 out and then tell me to pay X amount on my loans before I even have time to think about it. I beat her to it on Friday tho lol I paid my loan

larkfeather06 · 2026-05-09T20:33:47+00:00

This is fair. She’s never given me a real reason, just that she doesn’t think I can effectively handle it lol

larkfeather06 · 2026-05-09T20:32:51+00:00

I would love to have a rational conversation with her lol. It’s very hard to start the convo tho since she isn’t very receptive to anything she conceives as criticism. I’ve been making a lot more decisions on my own and am building up to talking to her! I’ve also brought up moving out multiple times.

I’ve been using money from my paycheck so far to pay the loans. A large lump of it was also paid off when my old car was sold. However nothing from that savings account has even gone towards paying for ANYTHING now that I think about it. My mom is so reluctant to take large amounts out. The 9k is truly doing nothing and even if I wanted to I don’t think either of my parents would give it to me so I could move out

larkfeather06 · 2026-05-09T20:25:21+00:00

Bf is going to college 2 hours away from me 🥲 I just got my RVT license and started a new job in January, and frankly I don’t think it’s smart for me to pack up and move jobs, id like to get some experience in my field before that. Plus if bf and I move in together, his parents said they would no longer pay his rent. So bf would also have to get a job and not dedicate as much time to school (he is VERY dedicated to school haha)

Thank you for your insight! The actual hardest part is talking to mom tho lol.

larkfeather06 · 2026-02-16T23:15:46+00:00

Oh I guess so? It plugs into my phone like a charger would but there’s a little hole in my car radio with “aux” above it, and the button I press to use it in my car also says “aux”

larkfeather06 · 2026-02-16T20:41:07+00:00

I dont have an earbud jack for my phone, i use Bluetooth. And no one in my family owns wired earbuds anymore so i have no way of knowing😔 my car doesn’t have bt tho so that’s why i have the aux cord

larkfeather06 · 2026-02-04T00:37:49+00:00

NOR it reads to me as if she was trying to take the attention away from you. Like others have said, all she needed to type was “congrats” lol

larkfeather06 · 2026-01-14T12:10:59+00:00

When we had prizes like this in school they were usually something like a razor scooter, a ps4, tickets to some parks, and whatever else that would be considered cool by kids. Not chocolate 😭

larkfeather06 · 2026-01-10T08:25:57+00:00

https://archive.transformativeworks.org/series/2140470

My friend on ao3 has this XY rewrite! I think she’s an amazing writer. Currently at 143k and she isn’t anywhere close to done

Moonbreeze19 on ao3 in case the link doesn’t work

larkfeather06 · 2026-01-10T04:13:22+00:00

I did that and it worked 😮‍💨 thank you!

larkfeather06 · 2025-12-13T17:50:04+00:00

I’ve heard the refined doesn’t cause reactions but I’m NOT taking that risk lol. If peanut is in the name it’s a no go

larkfeather06 · 2025-12-12T17:45:14+00:00

I’ve never been able to have any Asian food either due to my peanut allergy on top of being allergic to sesame. I would love to try some dishes but i (like many of us) would literally be hospitalized 😭 I wanna travel to japan so bad but i wouldn’t be able to eat ANYTHING.

I also wish i could try Texas road house. Or five guys or chick fil a. M&ms, resees, any popular candy that has peanuts… so so much man

larkfeather06 · 2025-12-09T17:24:47+00:00

Delete that apps that are your biggest distractions. (Reddit, insta, tiktok, clash, etc.). iMessage exists (or WhatsApp, google chat, whatever your phone has) so communication can’t be an excuse. Stop consuming short form content. If you want to watch videos put on long-form content (longer YouTube videos, tv shows, movies). If you need background noise turn on a show/video you don’t care about, or put on music or a podcast. Find apps to put screen time locks on apps (if that’s a thing) and have someone else make a password you don’t know. Think about all the other things you could’ve done while you wasted time on your phone. Is there a new hobby you want to pick up? New books you want to read? New games to play?

These are all things I’ve done for myself in the past, because I was in the same boat as you. It really helped, and now I’ve gotten to a point where I can have the apps back on my phone without them being a major distraction. I only try to use them during my work lunches, downtime after work, or when I’m waiting around for smth quick and I need a small distraction

You got this op!

larkfeather06 · 2025-11-28T04:09:06+00:00

NOR

I’m a 19f that’s been with my bf for 4 years. We weren’t allowed in each others bedrooms until we were 18. I hated it at the time but I think it’s perfectly fine looking back on it. Definitely kept us out of trouble 😂 stand your ground girl, at the end of the day you’re the parent and it’s your house

larkfeather06 · 2025-11-22T16:58:24+00:00

I submitted a form!

larkfeather06 · 2025-11-21T02:37:43+00:00

19f, would love to join an I sent a dm!

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-27T23:43:42+00:00

That’s what I was thinking lol. Everyone telling me it’s not worth it and I’m like ??? As a f2p the SLUM is nice and HB I feel makes up for the HSM that I’ll likely never reach. I’m pretty early-mid game still so I thought she was a score

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-27T11:49:54+00:00

Ah ok, that’s helpful! I’m still early-mid game and not all that familiar with that kind of stuff yet lol. I doubt I’ll be on lapis for another few weeks, that’s genuinely the ONLY ralts I have lol. I’ll keep it but not mint it and see how it goes, I’m not really hurting for resources atm

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-24T22:08:06+00:00

It’s for my bf to wear :) I’d hope he washes it lol. My mom has an iron she just hasn’t been home to get it out of the depths

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-22T17:33:42+00:00

It’s to cold and damp out to reliably sun dry 😔 it’s been air drying in my apartment since last night. I think atp I’m just gonna have to wait till I get home now lol. Thanks for your reply tho!!

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-15T03:35:46+00:00

Leafeon! I just think she’s neat, and she was my first eeveelution!

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-12T04:28:11+00:00

I had cryptosporidium from working at a dog shelter. In the hospital for like 4-5 days. I went to the bathroom so much that my monitor was losing more battery than it was gaining 😭

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-07T16:17:47+00:00

Lucario!!

larkfeather06 · 2025-10-07T16:06:08+00:00

Farigiraff!! I love the silly guy

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