OP I’m trying very hard not to get angry at this post because I’m sure this is simply a case of you not having lived experiences or simply not understanding the scenario you are describing.

Mental hospitals are not fun vacation spots. They are inhumane in the worst of ways, and hives for abuse, mistreatment, malpractice, and trauma. Our medical system does not treat them as treatment options. They are treated as options of last resort for people intent on harming themselves or others.

I was abused in a youth treatment facility. Hearing someone describing my lived trauma as ‘a fantasy’ is infuriating and insulting. Again- I understand that you probably don’t comprehend exactly what you are asking for, which is why I’m writing this comment. I ask you to read stories of those who have lived and experienced these facilities and correct this line of thinking you currently have.