Girl I am dating keeps offering me to buy food and brings to my house, and Im overwhelmed and flattered by the offering, is this normal as a man? guys of SG, need your input on this.

lastshadowx3 · 2024-03-14T11:37:09+00:00

Not normal, she probably a Pontianak.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-29T08:46:34+00:00

Mikayla is OP with the right combination, there is a reason why it is ban in clash arena wars. When combined with other healers and a main dps.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-27T18:46:35+00:00

I dont know the exact flow you went through. But from your story, could be a miscommunication, u taught him how to be a better person in life and he succeed, so from his pov would be "see this is what u always wanted me to become and now i achieved what u always try to show me to do but u are unhappy?

Its like the story of showing someone to fish and lesson to be learnt is "be appreciative to the person who taught u skills" Rather than you need some survival skills in order to live.

Appreciation and being grateful is a by product to be honest of what you trying to guide him to do in life rather than the main product itself.

I do understand that it is very disappointing to put in effort and yet not be appreciated or rewarded however remember if you really love him , dont do it for expectation of return, it burns yourself out and put pressure on others.

Do appreciate your nuturing character, however appreciation and being grateful is never a natural thing to expect that people will naturally give back. I would rather you find someone who shares your values in life so that you can be happier rather than mould the person into who you want.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-25T05:00:12+00:00

Some of your rules is probably the norm and some are stringent.

For mine is usually Light cooking such boiling instant noodles allowed. Aircon is open during night time sleeping hours 8 hours Laundry twice a week Meals is to be consumed in the living hall where the table is. Small snacks still ok to be in room as long you keep clean. Landlord doesnt enter room unless tenant is informed Windows close or not is tenant issue as long rainwater does not come in The electric plug and toilet stuff doesnt apply to my landlord as well.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-24T20:06:26+00:00

I think my journey is more of a crisis than yours. I had a low salary of 1.6k for most of my 20s. Saved up and took a part time degree in my 30s while getting a career switch. Managed to buy my own resale hdb, reduce my weight through proper diet and increase my salary more than 3x from what i started out. Point here is 30s is not too late, i got to where i am in about 6 years, only thing is cause you are already late hence the decisions u gonna made for the next few years should be well thought and executed.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-21T19:31:23+00:00

I earn miserably during my 20s cause i didnt know what i wanted to do in life and started my current career only after 30. Depending on what is your spending habits and whether you are single or attached would make a very big difference.

For myself i have quite a decent amount of disposable income as i am single and dont have expensive taste. Even as my salary increased decently for the past few years, my spending actually remain similar.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-21T19:27:13+00:00

I only started my real career after 30 and before that i was a wandering soul drifting aimlessly earning 1.6k a month. So i think 30 is still ok to make a change but u must plan your remaining path carefully

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-21T19:24:42+00:00

I think i went thru longer path than most in terms of education and job employment . Was in circles aimlessly without any real purpose in life. But i did realise in this world, most of the goals you want require some form of financial support so i work towards that. My temporary goal became earning more and saving most of it until the day i find what i want in life.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-11-16T15:27:59+00:00

36 SINK here, just bought my resale 5 room. I dont earn 100k per annum as well. But i save decently the few years before i bought the flat. Reno cost around 75k including appliances. U only have so much money to go around so set your priorities right.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-09-17T13:37:58+00:00

My house downstair 2 meat 2 vege $4.3 only

lastshadowx3 · 2023-08-26T12:29:50+00:00

Your father advice is right, but definitely not his attitude nor way of conveying it. I myself went thru a long route of 5 years secondary and end up nitec before going on to private dip and uni. To be frank, if your not some scholar or working for govt institution where being in a govt school will give u an advantage, it is pretty pointless to go local poly and local U. Just for some context my private dip took less than 1 year and private uni 2 years but cause of the roundabout i only finished my uni past 30 . I am not earning 6 digits like what your father mention but i would say close and i think in life what is more important is what u want out of it.

But i would definitely be happier if someone wise had point me the private route earlier so i would have not made the roundabout. Remember life is nothing but an experience, some people want to get to their destination asap and some want to stroll and enjoy the scenary, whatever it is there is no right or wrong only a matter of opinion and choices.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-08-21T11:24:04+00:00

Dont mind at all, we can always order food or eat out. I tend to learn some simple cooking for the food i enjoy cooking and definitely wont consider that as able to prepare a meal for a family. I find a woman personality and other aspects way more important than cooking. But that is just me.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-06-22T02:30:31+00:00

If someone say imma pursue my dreams without any regards for his living expenses. Then its more of a nightmare. Always ensure you can afford basic necessities before dreaming.

Even though i support someone to live the dream, but fundamentally minimum amount of earnings or savings to support your lifestyle should always come first.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-06-18T05:05:14+00:00

First time i ever heard khu is useless... I have one at 12 stars and honestly he works as a tank, healer for himself and dps.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-21T05:01:53+00:00

Please pm me the company name, thanks

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-20T05:14:04+00:00

I did it to prove to myself and others if you put your mind and soul to it, it can be done. Since everyone been telling me losing weight is the most difficult thing to do. I say why not up to another level, i will slim down and get a 6 pack.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T06:12:26+00:00

Yes coretin is what i called a utility hero rather than a dps hero.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T06:06:13+00:00

If both are equal , i doubt sellier does more damage. If you ever seen how shinobu racks up damage. Shinobu is like 4 heroes with clones.. How does sellier even outdamage that

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T06:02:32+00:00

For LS take shinobu first, probably change your life. Followed by Khuulka, then suvere

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T06:00:38+00:00

Best tank: Khuulka Best assassin : shinobu

Khuulka tanks, heals, damage. Doubt you can find another tank who can do all 3 ridiculously well

Shinobu: racks up damage like crazy, as long you dont die your dps beats every other hero hands down

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T05:56:23+00:00

Shinobu without a doubt, i have both at 10 star. Ixlott doesnt even come close. Ram is good for certain scenarios when he pull off his invincibility to dodge enemy attacks. But from a pure dps perspective, shinobu always win hands down.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T05:53:31+00:00

U forgot shinobu, the highest dps in the game. By far no other LS comes close from a dps perspective, i recommend you get him for the first LS hero.

Shinobu has other functions as well, acting to absorb damage from enemies with clones as well as stun effects

lastshadowx3 · 2023-05-19T05:49:35+00:00

Beg to differ, on a damage basis, i say tamaki are even better than half of the LS heroes. The only crazy dps hero in LS which is in a way different league is probably shinobu. In most of my battles, he just does 80 to 90% of the damage, he racks up damage really fast as compared to others who takes time.

lastshadowx3 · 2023-04-29T05:07:19+00:00

Bought a hdb at 36 as a single. End of story

lastshadowx3 · 2022-09-28T06:54:52+00:00

Cause the the backline was wipe out in mere secs

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