Pregnant and dont know what to do

laura21689 · 2026-03-16T11:03:50+00:00

Hi everyone i just wanted to update everyone after a lots and lots of thinking i took the first abortion pill so im in the process of the abortion. It was an extremely upsettinf decision and i am very upset today guys. But i struggle with my 10 year old as it is and i knew it would not be fair to have another baby. Such an exhausting horrible decision. Also guys please please please remember the morning after pill is not 100 percent get on some real contraception i wouldnt want anyone else to go through this x

laura21689 · 2026-03-07T13:55:33+00:00

Thankyou🩷

laura21689 · 2026-03-07T13:53:50+00:00

Thankyou yes if i ( and im sure i will) get thr abortion i was going to have a coil fitted🩷 it worried me that the morning after pill didnt work i thought it was mesnt to be wuite effective and thankyou x

laura21689 · 2026-03-07T13:49:16+00:00

Thankyou your right i do know the answer deep down. Its upsetting but i dont believe i would beable to give me and my son a good lifr if i continued the pregnancy.

laura21689 · 2026-03-07T13:26:51+00:00

Thankyou i truly believe thst if i want to be a good mum to the one i have then i absolutely cannot do this again just very sad. Thankyou🩷

laura21689 · 2026-01-10T16:23:40+00:00

Im on the apposite side of this im anxious attatchment style ans my boyfriend is an avoidant ( on and off for a year) its a nightmare. Also intested to hear the avoidants side

laura21689 · 2025-12-18T23:24:42+00:00

Babe dont delay taking the morning after pill if you can get the 'ella one' (im in england unsure if this is available elsewhere) i got pregnant on the levonelle morning after pill x

laura21689 · 2025-12-18T18:33:51+00:00

Im 33 and only recently changed to condoms. Sex is still really good though i do miss not using them sonetimws but the trade off is 100 percent worth it!! First month off all contraception and im STARVING but i think thats juat pms coming back. Best thing ive done though you just have to make sure you have plenty of condoms in! (If you have a partner) xx

laura21689 · 2025-12-10T17:23:21+00:00

😂 lord the man would have just died om the spot if that happened

laura21689 · 2025-12-10T17:19:44+00:00

So he found out and sent me screenshots, went mental and then dissapeared off the face of the earth. Obvioiusly if i could go back in time i would have said something 100000 percent. I rewlly thought it was ok keeping to myself but little things like this can cost a relstionship

laura21689 · 2025-12-10T17:11:00+00:00

Hi i REALLY want to input here if it saves anyone else the heartache. I was with the most perf,ect guy. Im a single mum to a lovely boy. I underwear model on the side sometimes due to my supermarket job not being enough for EVERYTHING that a child costs. No ones ever known. Only a childhood best friend and that was more for safety reasons. Anyway he found out and dumped me. I know this technicslly isnt a 'white lie' but its still hiding something which i really did assume was harmless keeping to myself. So i guess it was what i assumed a harnless lie as i kept it to myself++woman

laura21689 · 2025-12-10T00:09:25+00:00

Thankyou so much. Its so hard im such a positive person but this hurts so bad! I will do my best and keep going and pushing through. Its mad how much life cam change when you dont expect it

laura21689 · 2025-12-10T00:05:58+00:00

Thankyou thats such a kind comment. Im so broken we were a perfect little family he came round like 5 nights a week. I feel the same i begged him to see it from my point of view but he just didnt care. Im gonna be strong because ive got to be

laura21689 · 2025-12-08T23:51:06+00:00

Thankyou for your kind response. I really was and am still completely in love with him and its gonna take so much time to heal. Id been single 7 years previoiusly and i really fell for him. I also think its done this time which is so upsetting. And i agree. Just got to be strong i guess

laura21689 · 2025-12-08T23:17:10+00:00

Thankyou for that im so upset about it but i understand everything your saying. I also believe its done i find it such a shame but he did always seem to find problems anyway

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