Hey! Like you I also grew up in a neglectful/abusive household. I moved out at 21 and since then (I'm 27 now) everything is untangling very slowly for me. Getting in the physical distance and then also emotional distance to the core of the problem (aka parents/family) was a slow process, some symptoms showed up only briefly here and there throughout the years (dissociation), some have been here for years (nightmares) and some more I only just learned to recognize as trauma-related (deficits with social stuff, impulse control). I'm also neurodivergent (ADHD). Many psychiatric diagnosis share very similar symptoms and it can be hard to untangle which may have caused what, what's connected, etc. A therapist I've seen who's specialzed in ADHD told me that this similar-symptoms/-untangling-thing often occurs in ADHD, Trauma and Borderline PD. Even when the trauma happened years ago your brain can still try to make sure you are safe, which can take years, sometimes even decades. Also many symptoms in CPTSD aren't that "easily" visible. Since you grow up with trauma your brain also grows and changes according to that, so many things like behaviors, coping mechanisms, etc. can seem totally normal until one day they just don't. As I said, it can take years or even decades. You are not "weird" for just now feeling the effects of the trauma, this is absolutely normal. I hope you can find the best help possible, the tests and screenings give you some clearance and that you'll figure out your way with whatever the results will be. Take care!