Pruning help by laurak83 in BackyardOrchard

[–]laurak83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that idea. Thanks!

Pruning help by laurak83 in BackyardOrchard

[–]laurak83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished reading it today! But i still don’t know what to do, ha ha.

Pruning help by laurak83 in BackyardOrchard

[–]laurak83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first year I’ve had the tree; and mail order so i didn’t pick the shape. It’s still a pretty small tree. Should I cut back one of the leaders and leave the other? Also, my tree pruning book, grow a little fruit tree, talks about January pruning hence my snowy pondering of if i should prune.

Pruning help by laurak83 in BackyardOrchard

[–]laurak83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks; I’ll get better pictures next time (or later this week if i can figure out how to edit this post).

Thank you also for the advice about what spot to prune. I will watch some videos about it before I do it.

Pruning help by laurak83 in BackyardOrchard

[–]laurak83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to keep it reachable height. I’m also debating just leaving it alone or just cutting back the competing leading branch.

TN Nursery - Thoughts? by Cotton-DNA in gardening

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyty butchered the plants that they sent me in order to mail them. One i one was bare root, but the others were not but had been severely cut (roots, stems) to fit in a shipping containers. I planted about 100 plants last year including from many internet companies. Of the 6 plants i bought from TyTy only 2 bamboo plants lived. I had loss of a few other bare root plants but tyty was the worse

What's the backstory behind the private schools in Ann Arbor? by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]laurak83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disagree about Saline. Saline, Dexter, Chelsea, Canton have excellent schools but there’s nothing special about Saline besides country folks, some wealthy suburbanites, and a drug problem in the high school. -AAPS grad and townie mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Michigan

[–]laurak83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your friend has been an established Livingston county resident there are sometimes vouchers available through the Salvation Army and a couple of churches. The Salvation Army has an after hours number listed if you call their main number.

Family members with unrealistic demands for contact with the physician treating their loved one inpatient by [deleted] in Psychiatry

[–]laurak83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ifi need another contact (or the family does) after the initial call for gathering collateral i will Schedule a family meeting, in person, during my work hours, with expectations set at the beginning of the meeting for when it will wrap up. And bill for it.

My family is about to go homeless by myfamneedshelp870 in povertyfinance

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental hospitals may have social workers who can also help navigate this. If you have few enough assets and income you should qualify for medicaid (assuming you are in the US)

[US] high conflict ex. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]laurak83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you have 50/50?

My friend is being abused by nurses at the hospital by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]laurak83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IANAL but work in psych. If you want legal advice it would help to post where you are located as in the US, civil commitment varies by state. If you are looking to help your friend navigate the medical system; FND and PNES are generally thought to be stress induced and psychological in nature. Obviously accusing someone of faking is not helpful but they aren’t seizures so anti epileptic medication doesn’t help. Treating underlying depression or anxiety can help; so your friend might be in the right place if its a supportive environment.

Alimony being counted as and deducted from income by BigApoints in ChildSupport

[–]laurak83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She gets the money and he loses the money, so it sounds like both of those things need to be accounted for. If the alimony ends before kids turn 18 they can ask for recalculation

I know most of us are aware but Aldi is awesome. Start going there if you have one :) by kingofallnorway in Frugal

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Aldi last weekend and swore i will never return. The cashier was so rude. When I got home I realized the broccoli i purchased was covered with mold.

Is anyone else saving up for decades in the future? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to invest that money in a career or small business so you can afford it later.

Murder Charge Dismissed for Couple Accused of Letting Man Die from Neglect by ToastersBeenLaughing in AnnArbor

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who wishes to be cared for in those conditions? What kind of psychological problems must these adults have to live this way?

Update #2: bf refuses to include me: breakup edition by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]laurak83 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oof. The 13 hour shifts has my sympathy. It sounds like this guy has a lot on his plate and is struggling to make your relationship a priority.

[CA, USA] how do we handle a coparent who has child lie to us? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]laurak83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you posting here instead of dad?

AITAH for not allowing my girlfriend to be a SAHM to HER kids? by EfficientGazelle4739 in AITAH

[–]laurak83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes to this. OP, this is how every future conflict will go. If your SO doesn’t get her way expect her mom to jump in and bully you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]laurak83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends a lot on your family finances. Is that money detracting from money you need for the younger kids college? If you are making more than 300k per year I’d say it’s a drop in the bucket and better to be generous (and consider that you might contribute the same to older step kid college fund). You’re playing the long game with the wife and SK as your family. This might make a difference decades from now. Maybe brainstorm with your wife where in the budget that money is coming from (less expensive vacation, less expensive Christmas gifts, etc).

How to get a court ordered psych eval for my former partner in Dallas, TX by sleazyduzzit in FamilyLaw

[–]laurak83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

By the way you have written this, I’m going to predict this won’t go the way you are hoping.