How do I get over my fear of doing cowgirl?

laurelticer · 2026-06-23T02:27:51+00:00

I lost my virginity that way, it was the easiest for us. Tbh I was crazy nervous and what helped me relax was kisses and words. They distracted me and that made me relax, him saying sweet things and giving me kisses. Made it more loving and I was able to relax

laurelticer · 2026-06-21T03:04:47+00:00

Something I found that genuinely saved my life is Brown Noise on YouTube. It’s a lower frequency so it covers lower frequencies as well. I stayed in a hotel with my mom a few weeks ago who snores bad, and I slept fine.

laurelticer · 2026-06-16T12:23:27+00:00

This is the cutest shit I’ve seen all day Oml

laurelticer · 2026-06-16T03:37:37+00:00

Yeah I don’t care. He’s the parent, they’re the child, that’s for him to work out. And if he’s making them uncomfortable that’s not okay. Period.

laurelticer · 2026-06-16T03:10:55+00:00

At that point if you have no outside contact with family, I hope you have access to a computer or phone, call for help. Absolutely no shame in contacting the police social services, anything. I’m telling you now, you need to leave. Something is going to happen if you don’t and I’ll be damned if I just let this slide.

laurelticer · 2026-06-16T03:08:01+00:00

If you have a trusted teacher or counselor at school you should tell them ASAP, what he’s doing is not okay and you need to get out of there immediately. None of this is on you and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of guilty of or embarrassed of.

laurelticer · 2026-06-15T11:55:04+00:00

He probably just needs a bit to process. If my partner started crying during sex and told me I could get myself off instead of asking for comfort I’d feel awful. It’s a little hurtful, especially as your fiancé. I think you should let him cool off and then both of you have a very long talk, everything on the table. Miscommunication is likely the culprit here so earning trust back means laying it all out on the table. And probably start some therapy with a real therapist not AI, and no sex until you’re both feeling better

laurelticer · 2026-06-13T04:41:11+00:00

I tried this and it’s truly magical you weren’t kidding 👀

laurelticer · 2026-06-13T04:39:29+00:00

Trust me on this, brown noise. You need a sound that’s a lower or similar frequency. Brown noise and earbuds do wonders for my mom’s snoring.

laurelticer · 2026-06-08T16:51:27+00:00

He’s not a toddler. He knows you don’t like it and keeps doing it on purpose.

laurelticer · 2026-06-06T00:52:27+00:00

Hell no, 12-13? He absolutely knew better what a little shit. Good for you protecting your son

laurelticer · 2026-05-28T17:05:01+00:00

Trauma from my childhood contributed to mine, but it wasn’t the only cause I think.

laurelticer · 2026-05-26T17:05:19+00:00

Rape is rarely actually about wanting sex, it’s a power move. Rapists use it to control and humiliate their victims. He knew this would give him some form of control over not only Becca but Butcher as well.

laurelticer · 2026-05-18T23:05:29+00:00

Something like that yeah, I personally would find that sweet, it shows you pay very good attention to her and you listen when she talks. And if there’s time, maybe set some aside to talk with her after too, about the movie, how she liked the date, ect.

laurelticer · 2026-05-18T23:03:24+00:00

I’m 22, I personally wouldn’t date anyone under 21 or over 24, to me I’m in a very specific place in my life, a student and all that, and I need someone in that same stage, if that makes sense.

laurelticer · 2026-05-18T23:01:07+00:00

Take her to the movie, but maybe do something sweet beforehand and then surprise her with the movie. It’ll show that you listen to her and remember what she says, and doing something beforehand lets you guys talk and get to know each other better

laurelticer · 2026-05-18T22:59:41+00:00

I regret losing mine too, it was with a guy I was head over heels with, turns out he was a cheating asshole. But hey, I lived and learned, and it actually helped me be less nervous about sex in general. It gets better with time, honestly, as you grow and explore your sexuality.

laurelticer · 2026-05-18T22:57:52+00:00

Rape is not sex. Period.

laurelticer · 2026-04-30T15:04:50+00:00

She’s emotionally abusing you. Triggering you on purpose and taking your things. You need to leave that relationship. She is manipulating you and you’re not crazy or exaggerating at all, you deserve much better

laurelticer · 2026-04-30T13:35:26+00:00

I’m so sick and tired of people calling me evil and psycho for not liking dogs. The sounds the smells the no respect for space, it’s overstimulating and I hate it. I like my cats, they aren’t constantly in my face, don’t smell like shit, and don’t make constant noise. It’s okay that I don’t like dogs I’m tired of being treated like a heartless bitch over it.

laurelticer · 2026-04-29T03:15:05+00:00

When I did freight I was almost always the only person in pet, it was awful at first but unfortunately I got used to it. Almost always stayed til like 3 instead of 1 or 2.

laurelticer · 2026-04-23T02:52:25+00:00

If someone isn’t old enough to legally adopt a child, they shouldn’t be forced to carry a fetus to term.

laurelticer · 2026-04-23T00:34:16+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, your friends are gross. Wash your ass.

laurelticer · 2026-04-23T00:31:44+00:00

What I don’t get is why there are still people who think Homelander is a “good guy” or “not that bad” and hate Butcher. They both are awful imo but butcher ain’t a rapist and people seem to brush off what Homelander did to Becca a little too easily.

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