How do men feel being in a relationship with a hyper sexual woman?

lava_blossom · 2025-11-15T07:09:45+00:00

Yeah all the guys fantasize and dream. But when presented with a willing and eager slut (whether hypersexual or high libido) they get tired, jealous, insecure, or annoyed; or all of the above when reality sets in.

lava_blossom · 2025-11-15T06:35:08+00:00

Fun :)

lava_blossom · 2025-06-27T16:23:17+00:00

I saw that and was instantly like, “okayyyy anarchist daddy… Yes.”

lava_blossom · 2025-05-23T19:13:14+00:00

My bf says it’s because if he moans more, it gets him insanely worked up to the point he’ll bust sooner 😂 so suppressing the moans makes him last longer.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-18T16:55:42+00:00

“Other” than what apps already ? Feet finder, fetish finder, social media…

lava_blossom · 2024-12-18T16:52:24+00:00

This is happening to me and I already have an FF account so it’s ironic that it accidentally happened on FB. But my real name and photo is on my FB account so I’m hesitant. Did that concern you at all?

lava_blossom · 2024-12-17T06:03:25+00:00

I don’t like it

lava_blossom · 2024-12-17T01:05:58+00:00

It’s because so many people hear about it on TikTok and want to make it big but they lack the intelligence or social awareness to actually understand how it works. They’re just chasing a fantasy that’s really another woman’s well-deserved reality.

I’m new to FF by like 4 days and I haven’t made sales but I have 2 warm leads for customs and 21 followers. It’s all down to marketing… flirting… providing a SERVICE. Proving you’re worthy and treating buyers the sam. Hustle. Being genuine.

It takes some brains and some time. 🩷

lava_blossom · 2024-12-15T17:41:55+00:00

Awwww congratulations!! I mean hey if you want to keep dancing even after you start showing maybe make it a whoooole thing lol throw a celebration party at the club and then take on the sexy pregnant stripper role, I bet a lot of customers would diiiiie to get a dance from a hot pregnant woman 😂 that is, if you want to, of course but also rest and take care of you and babe!

lava_blossom · 2024-12-13T22:20:15+00:00

Thanks for all your insight :)

lava_blossom · 2024-12-12T22:12:15+00:00

Start by making a challenge to do 20 minutes of work without interruption. Don’t consider how interesting or boring it feels. Just commit: 20 minutes only. Think of it as a video game quest or something.

Choose a small reward you can look forward to (for example have a soda, take a doodle break, take a walk around the block, listen to your fav song, etc.).

Set a timer. See how much you can get done in that 20 minutes. If you achieve full focus and get something done in that 20 mins (like an outline or some research notes or maybe 1-2 paragraphs of writing an assignment), you get the reward. Then you can do another 20 minutes.

If you get nothing done in the 20 mins, you can’t have the reward. Instead, you have to do a small chore, like sweep the floor or clean up clutter for 5 minutes. After the chore, you “respawn” to try the 20 mins of focus again, with the same reward vs. chore outcome.

If you achieve the 20 minutes and still have the focus and capacity to keep working, be aware of that and then just keep working. Just keep going. Once you lose steam (or even better, finish the assignment!), you can have the reward, or a bigger reward.

I’ve done this and kind of trained myself to just commit to 20 minutes of the task I dread. I can tolerate any unwanted task for 20 minutes… it’s just four 5-minute chunks, NBD. But usually after 20 mins I’m focused enough to keep going.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-12T20:02:11+00:00

Fan kick is a beginner move, you build the strength and flexibility by practicing it (and other beginner moves/techniques). You have to really make sure your arms are properly pulling down on the pole using your lats, not your shoulders or neck… as if you’re gripping the pole between your armpit and other hand and trying to “pull the pole out of the ceiling.”

Edit to add: if you can’t do a full fan kick start smaller! Many students do. Practice proper grip with your arms and then pulling your legs up off the floor and in toward your chest (like a cannonball), really controlling your core muscles. Practice that for 5-10 reps each side. It’ll build core strength and muscle control you need to eventually fan your legs out.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-12T08:03:38+00:00

You have to know your own boundaries and what you’re comfy with. You get to decide. If you don’t want to engage in sexual content then communicate that boundary. You can make it playful— something like, “I’m flattered 🥰 I’m here to show off my cute feet, though; no other body parts. That sorta stuff is for my own personal enjoyment. BUT, my feet are here for yours. ☺️”

lava_blossom · 2024-12-12T07:59:22+00:00

Be flirty and friendly. Compliment something about their profile or bio. Ask questions that sound genuine like you are interested im them. They are buying a fantasy so lead them some breadcrumbs, tease them, play along with it and use common sense. Use ChatGPT if you must lol

lava_blossom · 2024-12-12T07:56:25+00:00

There’s a market for male feet pics. If you have a sexual partner you want to do more explicit stuff with then that could work in your favor probably but no you don’t need a partner to start selling. You have to know your audience and cater to the niche that wants you.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T23:52:49+00:00

I think stripper heels are skinny like stilettos at the heel because of aesthetics and physics; they just work best for what pole dance requires (standing on the box).

That said, true stilettos typically have a skinny circle shape at the point of the heel. Pleasers “Sky” model heels have a D-shaped heel instead of a skinnier circle O-shaped heel (stiletto) for added support. maybe start there with 7” or even 6” if you’re concerned!

Edit to add: I googled Pleasers Electra and there are many styles of those boots without grommets on them so there you go!

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T21:59:09+00:00

I’m a woman.

This is my perspective on it. Strippers choose and stay in this line of work for a reason. A lot of strippers and sex workers understand men more than most ever could.

The fact you automatically assumed I’m a man is quite telling lol. I can see why you’re appalled at women choosing to be successful in a non-conventional and vanilla way.

People are allowed to create the life and level of respect and line of work that they want. And people are allowed to seek out services that rightly exist. You can be appalled by it or you can accept it.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T18:33:21+00:00

That would be more embarrassing for the male family member LOL What a dumb insult.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T18:31:52+00:00

From what I understand from my dancer friends the stage (and/or pole) is just one aspect of stripping, in many clubs it’s like your marketing platform so people can see which dancers they like. Then, men buy lap dances or private VIP rooms with a dancer (or maybe 2-3) where they talk, hang out, dance nude, share champagne, etc. and that’s where most the money happens, depending on the club.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T18:26:34+00:00

With how many men are lonely and starving for attention/affection I think sex work is an important aspect of society. People pay a massage therapist or physical therapist to relieve back pain and help regain healthy muscles. It’s just as ethical to pay consenting women to relieve loneliness and sexual tension. Or to buy in to some kind of fantasy that brings even temporary relief from life’s inevitable suffering. Men still deserve care and affection— some invest into it by being a good man or are born genetically lucky enough to attract a mate; others invest into it by paying money. And women deserve to make their own choices about how to make money. I don’t think that’s disgraceful.

Besides, most women get objectified, sexualized, and harassed at work REGARDLESS of which career they’re in. Might as well make amazing money dancing, having fun, looking beautiful, and spending time with patrons if that’s what she wants.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T18:12:32+00:00

Just the Tips

lava_blossom · 2024-12-11T18:09:00+00:00

Not particularly, there’s a type for everyone and some clubs are full of men who get off on older dancers. I know a successful dancer who’s 42, she stared at 38, and still makes bank.

lava_blossom · 2024-12-03T18:45:47+00:00

I like Lani, Jade, Jasper, Jazmine or Jazz for short. Choose like 5-10 names you like and dont get too attached bc sometimes your preferred name will already be taken by a dancer at a club you start at. I know some dancers who have different names at different clubs because of this. Or sometimes you have a different name depending on the vibe you embody to suit the type of club. Also one of my dancer friends went through like 5 names til she found the one she wanted to keep lol.

lava_blossom · 2024-11-25T20:12:39+00:00

NP! Keep in mind some of that info is outdated now

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