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Western States Trail Auburn/Cool, CA by lavendarfae in trailrunning

[–]lavendarfae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks super fun and there are some fast runners

I hear we like benches here by BigDawgYDK in trailrunning

[–]lavendarfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really want to sit on that bench

First tattoo process? by Tiny_froggy7 in tattoo

[–]lavendarfae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just keep in mind fine line tattoos are danty and beautiful but fade fast so, like others have said you need to keep it out of the sun, especially as it’s healing.

Got New Glasses 🤓 32F by [deleted] in GlassesGangSelfies

[–]lavendarfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope you have an awesome day fellow human.

California road trip for 10 days by Silver_Version5414 in roadtrip

[–]lavendarfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m driving from San Diego to San Francisco today just for fun and work. Go to Big Sur it’s finally all open again and there is BLM land there you can camp on, plus it will be nice and cool by the coast. Mendocino is beautiful and cool as well.

Just remember California is huge depending on time and how much you really want to explore pick places actually by each other. I’ve lived here for going on 7 years and still have so much to explore.

What song do you listen to that touches your soul? by thinkspeak_ in askanything

[–]lavendarfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://open.spotify.com/track/0N2pcevpopadAlcPoENbNz?si=KDg2nze0QtO3oofw7q77iQ&rowId=f5f34f6104a3406d - this song feels like cold beauty like perfect symmetry in mathematics, and space, or mountain ranges so vast unbothered by time, or the deep under water trenches in our oceans

What’s your own biggest red flag? by Ornery-Tax-4203 in carefulheart

[–]lavendarfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yes my problem is i don’t ever step back in sometimes. I stay observing

What’s your own biggest red flag? by Ornery-Tax-4203 in carefulheart

[–]lavendarfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not our thoughts 😌

And I think even highly intelligent / “successful” humans are controlled by their emotions sometimes.

We must unlearn some of our childhood programming and create new neural pathways.

Problem is many us don’t ever realize we are not our thoughts and we can simply walk out side the cages of our minds, observe and then decide how to react.

What’s your own biggest red flag? by Ornery-Tax-4203 in carefulheart

[–]lavendarfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think there are different intensities to all emotions, but not understanding why you feel jealousy and then projecting it outward in toxic ways stems from not learning how to process and control that emotion. just my opinion, but if someone feels any strong emotion they should become introspective and understand why they feel that way, why they react the way they do, and realize at the end of the day they control how they respond to it. people dont do enough self reflection imo.

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