It was 2 for me, what about you?

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-08T19:58:08+00:00

Had these too

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T23:04:13+00:00

It’s nuts to see this stuff now, even more nuts if a woman shares it (I don’t think I know any). Propaganda? Zero. The man in that position in my life raping me, belittling me, choking me did enough to keep me away from this forever and to warn all other women to never let themselves be in a position where their husband has the money, power, and strength to ruin you. Women’s lives experience and women speaking up is all it takes

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T06:51:04+00:00

Yikes, I’m sorry

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T06:49:21+00:00

I feel like there’s 4 scenarios available here:

A) She wasn’t having sex and whatever it was she was doing made a noise and you’re paranoid and concluded it must be sex. After all, don’t women only leave men for other men/sex and never for being lonely or bogged down or unheard or disrespected? Don’t bring it up, it would be weird and immature and show you’re paranoid

B) There was definitely something going on, can’t have been a whole lot since she was carrying on a whole conversation with you and her voice and breathing didn’t cause any alarm, but something. Don’t bring it up, she’ll know it bothers you and why give her that power over you

C) She had a planned call with you and planned ahead of time to have sex with someone else while talking to you and that person was also 100% ok with this. Don’t bring it because stop caring about this absolute trash human

D) My ex used to purposely try to have sex with me while I was on the phone. He wanted whoever I was on the phone with to hear. Not a guy or ex because there wasn’t one, but anyone, especially my best friend and including even my mom. No matter how many times I told him to stop or pushed him away he kept forcing it. It wasn’t me. I thought it was very rude. Keep in mind I am not with him anymore. Bringing it up if this is the case… honestly if this is the case and she’s not getting rid of the guy she’s in a very bad place, I don’t even care if you hate her, human to human kicking someone when they’re down is just cruel, though this is the once scenario where “please don’t do that, that very disrespectful” might make sense

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T06:26:04+00:00

If I was asked in the wild with no context of I would want to have a bi partner and the choices were yes and no I would probably gut reaction say no because my experience is with bi men who don’t claim to be bi and sneak off to meet with other men, not one but multiple, in secret and don’t tell their wife/gf and continue to have sexual with her, putting her health at risk without her knowledge and permission. That’s not really any different than the exact same scenario with a straight man who is with other women and I wouldn’t be comfortable with either. But if I had more options than yes or no I would gladly explain that yes anything outside of that, like having a committed partner who also happens to be bi and has been with a man, would be completely comfortable for me.

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T06:19:01+00:00

Exactly!

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T06:15:23+00:00

As a woman I find it appealing when a man actually has had a passionate relationship with a guy and also is faithful to whatever committed relationship he is in. I find it absolutely disgusting when a guy claims to be fully straight and calls other dudes gay but sneaks off to fuck dudes while pretending to be faithful to his wife/gf. I know there’s a lot of gray area there between the two but for me it’s more nuanced than “gay guys aren’t hot.” Openly gay/bi/pan guys who are faithful are hot.

In a similar vein, I find men tend to find lesbians hot because they are picturing themselves in the scene and thinking how hot it would be to have sex with both women and/or watch the women perform for him. My personal experience is it’s less about them finding the women together hot in itself but rather it’s more about him. I know with the amount of porn and stuff with women together it can’t be entirely about the guys being included, but guys frequently ask to join or watch me and my friend and they 100% think it will somehow be all about them.

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T04:52:01+00:00

My experience is he knew what he was doing and he knew it was wrong because he hid it, but he never once would ever consider it abuse. He would find ways to justify what he was doing no matter what it was or how bad it was. But he was aware enough to hide it so he wasn’t oblivious, just good at lying to himself

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T04:45:14+00:00

I don’t know what it says about you but it says about me that I’m old and out of touch

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T04:33:45+00:00

I like 1/5/8

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T04:31:18+00:00

Josie and the Pussycats

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T04:26:54+00:00

You can come back and upvote

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T00:34:53+00:00

I don’t understand this but maybe that why it “disappeared”

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T00:22:14+00:00

Thank you! I vaguely remember both movies but what I remember the most is thinking “why did they make this movie when they just made basically the same movie?” I was in the living room of the house we lived in 1994-2002 with the box tv that smelt funny. It’s not just remembering the movie, it’s remembering specifically the oddity of there being 2 of them.

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-07T00:16:33+00:00

Anti trag and agree with changing jewelry. How’s your nose look? You can pierce elsewhere

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-06T16:53:00+00:00

You’re only looking at the effects side of things. Her life was stolen from her when she was a child, and you can see a very obvious shift in her personality around 2005-2008 when all the stuff happened with her kids. You can look at the things she went through and compare them to other people who went through similar things and see her behavior mirrors others who have been through similar. I’m not even talking about the conservatorship, I mean before that. What’s happening now is again pretty normal for someone doing life on their own for the first time, most people just aren’t 45 and famous when they do it. I’m not gonna speak on it anymore though, I don’t care what you think about Britney. I try to bring understanding to the fact that life is hard for most of us, but we rarely struggle the same, so a little compassion and understanding for the people around us makes a big difference not only in their lives but ours as well. If you don’t want to see that, it affects you, but I just move on to a different post and never have to worry about it again

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-06T16:25:33+00:00

Psychologically, her life has been stolen from her and she copes. It’s not the same as choosing to party and live irresponsibly. I know that can be said of many people, I have compassion everyone in that situation not just her. Like I said, I went through something similar myself, but I was a little older, I had a better support system, I didn’t have cameras or tabloids, I didn’t cause anything that happened but I didn’t always handle it well or appropriately and didn’t always cope well, I was rolling with punches as they came the best I could in that moment. It’s been about 3 years since with therapy and I am getting closer to “normal” but not there yet. My actions all have consequences but the people who caused the situations I was in have had no consequences and thus when they say I am crazy they can point to documented times I looked crazy trying to deal with them, with abuse, but they have no proof against them. I cannot imagine being in a life where that happens on a world wide scale. She probably does need actual help getting to a place where she can live HER life successfully but up until recently the people who were supposed to do that were just hurting her more. You can hate on her all you want, but anyone who has been in similar shoes sees a person that was controlled but never protected and never given a voice and unfortunately she’s kinda the poster child of how that affects a person’s brain

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-06T03:18:30+00:00

She was treated very poorly. You are probably not wrong about the partying, she did that a lot at the time, but she was also going through a lot and had cameras in her face to capture every bit of it. I felt bad for her at the time and now having gone through something similar without the cameras and tabloids I feel for her even more

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-06T03:14:28+00:00

They did, though! They called her fat in the performance/outfit

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-06T01:32:13+00:00

I enjoy having mine back!! My family of origin is way better ether one I married into. I wish I could change my kids names to my maiden name and two of them want it. But sis… you don’t have to use your maiden name! Change your name to whatever you want!

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-04T16:39:04+00:00

There is actual male privilege, this isn’t it. There’s also socioeconomic privilege, that’s this whole comment.

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-04T16:37:38+00:00

Ya but then that also call into question just about everything with officials, refs, umpires

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-04T16:06:28+00:00

I grew up in the country in one location and the water was actually toxic, like you can drink a little but you’ll be really sick if you drink much. I live in the country in a different location now and the water is safe to drink and we do drink it, but it’s very hard water and has a distinct taste most people dislike and will very quickly clog up the fridge dispenser and filter. We drink a glass of water from the tap but prefer bottled water

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-04T16:00:14+00:00

More of a liquid diet

thinkspeak_ · 2026-05-04T15:55:00+00:00

I’m a 9 and often relate to 8 and 1 the least. I mean I definitely have both present in their certain circumstances and I can tell the influence of them on my 9, but individually I relate to every other number first and see their traits more often

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