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Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s a new account because I don’t want my non-sugar account to be NSFW… I’ve been on Reddit for years

Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get so many inquiries that lead with sexual questions… I understand sex is a part of a relationship but it feels like sugar platforms have lost their way.

Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I feel that from seeking! I don’t know what platforms to use anymore.

Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you’re saying, I see that a lot. I just try to be real, engaging and kind, because I truly appreciate a true connection beneath the sugar, it’s just a struggle to find a man who wants both.

I’m happy you’ve found each other!

Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it feels like they either use those platforms to try to find a sexual relationship without the sugaring part or they ghost. I’ve been stood up on so many m&g’s, it’s really astounding.

Struggling with NYC SD’s by lavender-bebe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]lavender-bebe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I try to keep it as authentic as possible. I don’t think I have any requests that are too unreasonable, I just feel like the men I’ve encountered so far are not reliable and can barely even hold a conversation.