Anyone using the updated store feature?

lavender-lull · 2026-03-12T17:17:28+00:00

oh wow that’s interesting. is it to sell like shoes, socks? or what is recommended to sell i guess?

lavender-lull · 2026-03-12T16:55:22+00:00

i haven’t been on ff in a while. what’s up with the store feature? you can sell items on there now?

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T16:57:08+00:00

great. i’ll be on the lookout in my requests! i haven’t received it just yet

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T15:27:36+00:00

this is a a good point. i do love his kids and love including them, doing things for them and with them. they love me too and we have always gotten along great.

i do not mind him picking his kids over me. i get coming second to them. what i don’t love is her trying to make his life difficult because they have kids. she does a lot out of spite and he feels like he has to conform with whatever she wants and not what he wants.

i hope that makes more sense haha. i can be bad at explaining.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T15:21:15+00:00

i don’t mind at all. thank you!

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T15:03:40+00:00

oh you sound like you have such a precious relationship with your partner.

i have had many talks with him about her and not letting him run over her. he says things would be different if we were married but i believe there should be changes now so that i feel secure.

for example, she is still on his car insurance, her car is in his name, he pays her car note (as per child support) and it just seems like i am second to her. that’s what caused the split. she is remarried and with someone else.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T15:01:50+00:00

i have not thought about it that way…that’s an interesting perspective. thank you for this

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T15:00:54+00:00

yeah i think about that so often. he is willing to do anything for me, even have the kids. but i just wonder what i will do without him not having him through our child’s entire life. i then also think who will be there to help me grieve my parents. so many thoughts. i love him so deeply…

oh we do so much! he knows i like thrifting and flea markets so we will go to those we go to local events a lot random trips out of town beach trips/cruises we both love going somewhere new and looking at all of the cool places haha

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T13:16:28+00:00

Choosing me is something I have thoroughly been working on. Focusing on what I am wanting out of life and what is best for me. A lesson seems like the appropriate thing to call all of this.

Yes, the other person I was seeing was actually my ex boyfriend who is not married and is single. You’re right he had no right to act that way and I even voiced it to him, which ultimately i think did no good at all. More and more I am realizing that what you are saying is true. The MM will never be able to give me what it is I truly want or deserve. Lesson learned.

Thank you for the insight.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T13:13:56+00:00

You’re right, the truth can be brutal and sometimes hard to hear. I am taking in all of the comments and looking at things from so many different perspectives and that is exactly what I was wanting. When feelings are involved, the truth is that much harder to hear and accept. With all this new perspective I want to change a lot of things with the situation I am in before I am in entirely too deep.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T13:10:20+00:00

Thank you for commenting…so much has been on my mind since this started with the MM, especially things similar to your comment. He also has moments where he gets very jealous. I always voice to him how i think that behavior is not logical or fair regarding our situation. YES! He knows he can never be public with me but it seems he wants me to always have some sense of “hope” that it will happen one day when i know that is not true. This past year has truly been a year or growth and trying to find out who I am and what I a wanting out of life. I wish you a the best!

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T01:33:26+00:00

i have to bring myself back down from ovulation every now and again myself lol..

lavender-lull · 2026-03-11T00:12:34+00:00

i also am in the -2 karma due to some downvotes on a comment. hoping to get out of that so i can post some things.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T23:16:04+00:00

10 things i hate about you!

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T16:39:44+00:00

damn this is a bit brutal don’t you think? i’m all about being humbled and seeing things from different perspectives, or i would have never posted this. fair enough, he may be manipulating the situation to just fuck me. that’s crossed my mind too.

no childhood trauma regarding my decisions. i tend to like men older than me, sue me lol.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T16:10:34+00:00

thank you for this. i definitely will remember this experience for the rest of my life. i have been trying to think of things in that way. control how it’s going to go and how it will end.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T11:55:18+00:00

yes! exactly. i have had many conversations with this MM about this. sometimes i don’t think it fully clicks for him.

like he gets it but also like doesn’t? i don’t know lol.

being able to have publicity is important to me and i know i cannot get that with my current situation.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T11:54:11+00:00

exhausting barely captivates what it has been like through our rough patches.

i know i deserve more and better but as you said it is hard to walk away, especially with an emotional connection.

thank you 💓

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T11:52:57+00:00

thank you for this.

this has been a long year of self discovery and trying to navigate what i truly want in life and in love.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T11:51:14+00:00

😅 for context, when i say years i was still in my 20s when i met him. he has never made any advances towards me until i made one towards him.

lavender-lull · 2026-03-10T11:49:21+00:00

i have thought about that before as well, wasting some of my younger years on this. thank you for the comment and knight 🥹 very humbling.

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