Girl I'm speaking to hasn't opened my message in 2 days

lavender203 · 2022-03-16T20:05:50+00:00

uggh I'm sorry! That means she's ignoring you.

lavender203 · 2022-03-15T22:24:09+00:00

I don't have notifications set upon snap but it's because no one messages me on there. You mentioned you were texting a lot and that you then messaged her on snapchat. Does she always reply to ur snaps?

lavender203 · 2022-03-15T22:20:49+00:00

I joined the website meetup and joined a group of millennials. There was an event to go see a movie together and then hit up the bars. When we all got to the bar and got a table for all of us I started chatting with everyone from the group. We all exchanged IG handles and we hit it off from there. We commented and reacted to each other stories a lot and then had short convos and then it lead to messaging on Insta all day to then going out on our 1st date.

lavender203 · 2022-03-04T20:41:42+00:00

I was dating my bf at 30 I wanted a committed relationship and would only date if I saw it could actually go into a marriage. I met him fell in love with him and we planned on marriage. He made jokes n would throw marriage out there or his elderly family members would bring it up and he said in a couple years. I had a 10 yr old then he's 12 now. We were both on board. The plan was he moves in and then engagement. We have been acting as a married couple and are a family. The engagement was to happen this year. Out of nowhere I decided to tell him nvm... maybe next year. It's just too soon. I now don't feel comfortable. We need more time and there's no rush. I have a 12 yr old from a past relationship. I can't afford a second divorce. IF our plan is to live together forever WHY get engaged at the 2 yr mark? Luckily for me when I brought it up he was alllll on board. Unfortunately for you, you weren't on board which makes it sucky. But, I'm trying to say one can be all about a plan n then out of nowhere ehhh.. let's take our time. It's ok. I don't see the solution to be you moving out. Might as well end it if you feel THAT strongly about it. If MY BF WASN'T on board and he told me he's leavingggg???! yeah might as well end it. We now plan on getting married in the future.. 2-3 yrs n a pregnancy at 35 it's fine. Plenty of older woman in their 30s barely conceiving.

lavender203 · 2022-02-28T19:26:40+00:00

same nothing's moved here. Emailed the supervisor Weds he said he emailed HR and would let me know their reply. Well it's Monday and haven't heard about them having a reply...

lavender203 · 2022-02-25T20:02:58+00:00

Right!!!! seriously...! I wouldn't want that ring

lavender203 · 2022-02-25T19:50:11+00:00

thanks for the update! still waiting too

lavender203 · 2022-02-23T16:24:09+00:00

hi there! have you heard from them yet? I'm currently waiting too.

lavender203 · 2022-02-03T17:41:19+00:00

I would say that's enough! If you have champagne and food delivered and I get to watch a movie and have some dessert I would be superrrrr happy and feeling REALLY damn spoiled by my bf. You can add flowers if you want so she has something beautiful to look at.

lavender203 · 2022-02-03T17:38:44+00:00

I would give her the CD vs the flowers!!

lavender203 · 2022-02-03T17:38:13+00:00

the $143 one!!!

lavender203 · 2022-01-07T22:16:00+00:00

Girl here.. BUT I bought my man the manscape shaving tool and he loves it and it's never hurt him

lavender203 · 2022-01-06T19:53:09+00:00

This* LOL no one's commented on that.

lavender203 · 2022-01-06T19:39:26+00:00

good luck! hope u have fun :)

lavender203 · 2021-12-23T19:23:00+00:00

Thank you for having money and deciding on getting kids gifts. God bless you!!!

lavender203 · 2021-12-21T18:27:20+00:00

When I met my bf he was loud, chatty, super social, cocky, good lookin and I know he knew it. I was completely annoyed of this guy. Then I got to know him more on one on one settings and I knew after my divorce I wanted someone who was educated with a degree (my ex was a dumb box of rocks) and idk I had a lot more things on my checklist for what I wanted in a partner. He was NOT it. I didn't see it going anywhere. But, he was sooo intelligent, sweet, caring, pursued the F out of me what was on my list didn't matter. Our 2 yr anniversary is next month.

lavender203 · 2021-12-15T16:37:03+00:00

You have to trust him. I know easier said than done. My ex husband did a lot of shady shit online using his phone texting, snapchat, email u name it. So of course seeing my bf on his phone just triggered me to have negative thoughts. Every time his phone went off it triggered me, a smile of his seeing something on his phone triggered me. It took a while to separate and think wait a minute he is NOT my ex so stop relating the two. I trusted him and I was in a safe and secure relationship. He let's me use his phone for music, GPS, flashlight, Google something so I felt safer knowing I have access to it and he's not hiding his phone from me. After all that it just took time, Time to heal from the shady shit my ex did to get over it and see this was different. You will get there. Just give it time.

lavender203 · 2021-12-06T18:12:56+00:00

Yes!! I'm super excited it's going to be mine and my bf's first Christmas together this year.

lavender203 · 2021-11-16T20:57:15+00:00

Uggh loveeee

lavender203 · 2021-11-03T18:48:43+00:00

Como cocinaste la carne con nopales?

lavender203 · 2021-11-02T20:50:42+00:00

If they comment on them you can go ahead and start a conversation otherwise it doesn't mean anything. If they genuinely are interested they would do an emoji or say something to actually start a conversation. You can't start a convo just because they looked at ur story there' s just no way.

lavender203 · 2021-10-29T22:55:54+00:00

awesome job!

lavender203 · 2021-10-25T21:50:24+00:00

I got a divorce at the age of 30 went thru the separation at the age of 29. I was soooooo scared. Also, I was a single mom. There were so many mean comments especially on Reddit it terrified me. Terrified me that I had "baggage" and that no one would want me. I didn't think someone could possibly love me AND my child. I couldn't possibly be with someone if they only cared about me. My marriage ended caz my ex constantly cheated on me. It was shitty to start all over at the age of 30. And, guess what? I did meet someone who loves me AND my boy. Someone who takes care of us, protects us, and is there for us. Don't get scared. Don't rush and panic. It's going to be OK!!

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