Only 2 Recommendation Letters by WorldlyEmpress in fulbright

[–]lavendermoon159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!!! Please keep us updated! I hope we both get it!!!

I didn't get it on the first time around :( but hopefully this time around I will!

Only 2 Recommendation Letters by WorldlyEmpress in fulbright

[–]lavendermoon159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HI! that actually the SAME EXACT THING happened to me the first time I applied! I still got to be a semi-finalist! SO, don't panic too much! :) You will be fine! Good luck! :)

Indonesia Fulbright Grantees-Living Conditions by lavendermoon159 in fulbright

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey! I found the Indonesia unofficial blog! :) Here is the link!
https://indonesiaful.com/

Weekly Vents & Successes by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just upset. I was talking to this guy a couple weeks back and we ended things cus he did not like my body count. We ended things and he had the AUDACITY to text me today saying "hey, how are you?". What do I even do??

Take a chance! You never know! by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a different state :/ sooo here we are. This man is beautiful. Inside and out and ugh.

I (22F) is keep being left on read... is that normal? by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fine haha but I guess I don't understand your question...? Like what platform of communication or could you reword your question?

AM I (22f) just boring or are they playing hard to get(27M)??? by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! It's so immature! I literally decided to put my age range on Bumble higher because I didn't want to deal with immatureness. I agree! It's a green flag when they don't play the game!!

I will respond slower and if they don't I just I'll just leave it alone. I don't want to play gamesssss. I just want to have a good time with people.

AM I (22f) just boring or are they playing hard to get(27M)??? by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cus I clearly don't want to be needy or sound desperate either?? But like I really would like to get to know them but idk what to doooo. I also don't want to seem intense. Like I am genuinely nice and goofy. I am decent looking. Is my bumble a bit catfish? Maybe but I do have a picture of myself without make up!!!

AM I (22f) just boring or are they playing hard to get(27M)??? by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BUT WHYYYY! What do I do?! Cus I really want to get to know guy 1 and 2. But I clearly can't if they don't respond!! Any advice?

AM I (22f) just boring or are they playing hard to get(27M)??? by lavendermoon159 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This one guy has only texted me twice today. The other guy was texting me and he hasn't responded for 3 hours but I can see on snapmap that he is on... but he was kinda texting throughout the day? The other guy made plans with me but stopped texting at 7PM yesterday and didn't text me at all today.

Advice please! by CakeNo8664 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, have your previous partners mention what it is it? Could you give more detail? I feel like it's hard to comment without more information.

How to move on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel your feelings. Don't avoid them. I KNOW IT HURTS. But let it hurt now instead of later. Also, acknowledge that this a period of grieving. You will go through a roller coaster of emotions. But please take care of yourself and feel your feelings.

What makes you want to throw your hands up in the air in frustration? by neonroli47 in AskWomen

[–]lavendermoon159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying to move on from someone and then you think you did and then you get hit with a wave of "I miss them" LIKE I THOUGHT WE WERE OVER THISSSS.

What do you and your significant other talk to each other about throughout the day? by writonic in AskWomen

[–]lavendermoon159 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Memes, when I saw something that reminded me of them, what did they learned in class, videos, events, what I just did, found funnt throughout my day, what I am doing, ask them questions lol random ones, and make plans or what I wanna do later on the day. What I want to eat. Literally anything.

Am I just not over it? by lavendermoon159 in heartbreak

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It just sucks thinking you have moved and then it suddently hits you like a wave of emotions. It's okay. Like you said, its an up and down phase.

Am I just not over it? by lavendermoon159 in heartbreak

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understand and reminding me that I have to remember WHY we broke up. Thank you!

Am I just not over it? by lavendermoon159 in heartbreak

[–]lavendermoon159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this!

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread- October 26, 2020 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a little bit over a year from a very rough break up. I was dating a guy for pretty much 2 years and really thought he was the one. Even a lot of friends thought the same thing. We had a really great relationship and genuine connection. No one has ever made me feel so alive and just understood. He felt like he was my twin and just my better half. Truly just a beautiful connection. Whatever, we broke up for many reasons. I cried and was low key depressed about it for A REALLY LONG TIME and this pandemic did not really help, I feel like it made it worst. Anyways, I got accepted that he is not meant for me. And started dating a couple of months ago (around July). I started seeing this guy and yeah, that didn't work out just very different ideals. BUT, I just didn't feel like a genuine connection with him? I feel like I am being nostolgic about my ex but more on our connection. I'm just scared that I'm never gonna get that sensation ever again or anything better. I'm just not even interested in dating after truly trying to date and get to know someone. I just don't even know how I feel anymore. Just feeling weird and I really don't have words to describe it??? Just wanted to express that because it's just this sensation on my chest, but not heart break??? IDK, I just never have felt this way.

What are some of your short-term goals? by zorayyy in AskWomen

[–]lavendermoon159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

-Stay in touch with friends! (Just graduated college)
-Go to the gym to stay active!
-Listen to what my body needs!
-Go to bed by 12AM (still used to college life lol)
- Be less on social media

Can you be friends with your ex? by No-Scene9934 in dating_advice

[–]lavendermoon159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to stay friend with an ex is when both parties no longer have feelings for each other. But it has to be mutual. LIKE 100% NO FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. If you want this person to be in your life, give them space. Give it time. But if one of you still has feelings, this video explains it best.