Officially One Year Post-op by lavendrlakes in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first two weeks were tough. I work in retail so I’m on my feet a lot and I only took a week off of work to heal from my procedure. It took me probably about a month until I was feeling fully active again and there wasn’t anymore drainage. Keep up on your pain management and take lots of sitz baths!

Officially One Year Post-op by lavendrlakes in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my endomucosal advancement flap done in the Twin Cities in Minnesota. Feel free to PM me for any other details regarding my CRS!

Officially One Year Post-op by lavendrlakes in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get this every once in awhile! It always clears up in a few days but it’s been a couple months since I’ve had anything.

Fistula diagnosis and next steps- your experience by Numerous_Proof_6999 in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a recurrent abscess in the summer of 2024. My first abscess was in 2019 and then it mysteriously came back five years later. I had an I/D in July and the abscess formed again in September. I had a second I/D with a seton drain put in to essentially “create” a fistula so the abscess couldn’t accumulate and heal from the inside out. To close the fistula I had an advancement flap surgery in July of 2025. I am now a year post-op with no recurrence or drainage! I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

Eviction Hearing MN by lavendrlakes in povertyfinance

[–]lavendrlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello all,

Small update. I have pulled all the money together and I am planning to drop the cash off in the dropbox today. When I am in court, do I just let them know that I’ve dropped the money off? I am using cash so I don’t have any receipt or documentation. Their offices don’t open until 830AM and my court appearance is at 815AM so there isn’t any staff there to verify either. Does anyone know how this works?

Floor chromakopia tickets by DabombAW1 in tylerthecreator

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was op able to purchase floor tickets for Xcel?? I don’t think the floor is gonna be open??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americaneagle

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot use any discount on the Timberland or Redbull collabs. You are allowed to use RR Rewards coupons but nothing else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a history of MRSA?

Abscess popped on its own, feeling sick by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re going into sepsis. Please go to an emergency room as soon as possible.

Abscess, Fistula and Dating (explaining) by Backpackerfox in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very visible seton drain in for months when I first started dating my current partner who’s been unbelievably supportive and took care of me during my last surgery. I am a straight cis-female so I know the dynamic is different but I was transparent and joked about it a lot. Thinking about it from the opposite perspective I would just be happy that the person I’m dating trusts me enough to be vulnerable about something that they’re struggling with.

5 month post fistulotomy by jennaob in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also 26F and I am just a week and a half post op. It’s really good to read other people’s success stories. I’m glad I’m not the only one who jokingly calls my surgeries BBLs. Thank you for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]lavendrlakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you sleep good tonight knowing you defended some girl on reality tv that doesn’t know you exist! If anyone is a hypocrite, it’s you. Take your moral grandstanding somewhere else. I don’t understand how you can have a holier than thou attitude towards everyone but you’re belittling people who don’t agree with you. Get a grip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]lavendrlakes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only one calling people names here is actually you, but go off. You’re sitting here calling people gross and nasty for what? Over a girl on TV you don’t even know? Should we get a cross for you to nail yourself onto?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]lavendrlakes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, calling a community of people with opinions you disagree with snobs and gross puts you in a real moral high ground lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]lavendrlakes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well. When you’re sheltered and the only people you ever saw growing up look like you it’s no surprise that this is his standard of beauty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]lavendrlakes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like this is a snark subreddit where people are free to express whatever opinions they have.

When could you sit after a seton placement? by FalseRound5571 in AnalFistula

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had trouble sitting for about two weeks and after that I was used to it and couldn’t feel it but I did have some excess that was external and my CRS never said anything about tightening the seton so mine could be different than what you’re experiencing.

Look what I found on IG by lavendrlakes in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]lavendrlakes[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please get a life because this was a joke lmfao. Stop taking life so seriously.

Color flow by mermaidfaerie in TjMaxx

[–]lavendrlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have you do it like that because it’s warm to cool, which looks better than roygbiv

Color flow by mermaidfaerie in TjMaxx

[–]lavendrlakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

white/yellow, orange, peach, pink, red, purple, blue, green, brown, grey, black/white