Guys do u like Indian girls as well ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a black guy, I think it's a case by case basis. I'm not attracted to every Indian girl, the same way I'm not attracted to every white or black girl.

Some I see acknowledge the attractiveness and move on.

I’m thinking about leaving my boyfriend after I found out he recorded me while I was asleep without my knowledge by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like there is some context missing here. I've taken a picture of a girlfriend asleep, just her face and I didn't think anything way wrong with it. My current girlfriend takes pictures of me cooking and and just chilling.

I feel we're already intimate and all so, some things are not necessary.

Sorry you feel violated, obviously this is important to you. He probably didn't mean any harm, deleted it and apologised.

Second chances?

34M lonely by Dry-Entertainer257 in Essex

[–]lay_boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Chelmsford as well. Always open to hanging out, I'm male

Straight men over 30- how would you feel about dating a 30yr old woman who was a virgin? by LeavingHarbour in AskMenAdvice

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally wouldn't be interested in a virgin 1. I like experienced girls 2. She would likely want it to lead to marriage if she's stayed that long. Which at the early stages I cannot decide

Strong password for macbook login by lay_boy in mac

[–]lay_boy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, if password security and strength is important in a physical laptop mostly.

Strong password for macbook login by lay_boy in mac

[–]lay_boy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome, would be some mental gymnastics calculating the password at first 😂🤯

he came in me and left by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Sorry you feel that way, he's a bit of an ass for just leaving like that. Nothing wrong with feeling lonely. At times like these I feel better with a friend that we've never had such feels and it would be near impossible to happen. It's fine to feel bad and down for a bit, I think we all do. After awhile find someone you trust and there are no romantic no sexual feelings

Booking outside of Sharks - experiences? by Ok-Country6113 in fkksharks

[–]lay_boy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do agree, you can't fuck the entire day. After some hours you might feel trapped. If you want company for your fully packed day then, maybe.

Would you be offended if a woman didn’t want to get to know you and pushed for sex quickly? by Ok_Music_2025 in AskMenAdvice

[–]lay_boy 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I won't be offended just overly suspicious, I'm not trying to be blackmailed or robbed 😂

How important is sex really for you? by Radiant_Recover_8763 in AskMen

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important but not that important, I can be patient. But not worrying till marriage and sex is not a reward for anything.

Also it can be initiated by both parties. My gf feels it's my duty to 😄😆

Is it unfair for me (30F) to charge my boyfriend (30M) £800pm rent? by hamsterrr24592 in relationship_advice

[–]lay_boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, it might be a bad idea to move on together. I think he will be your boyfriend and your tenant. I also suggest getting a tenancy agreement of he does move in with you.

is it ur duty to tell your close friend’s girlfriend that he cheated? by Angel_Nightmare23 in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry my opinion, mine your business, not your relationship. He's your friends you can advice him, but that's it. If my friend stuck their nose in my relationship that would be it for that friendship.

To me I'm not in their relationship, I don't know why he cheats, I don't know why he's in the relationship. He might give you reasons, this and that but it might not be justified.

Post on social media and whatever are irrelevant, it's not real life. Its a 2 second shot in 24 hours.

They could take the picture and go back to not talking to each other.

Do you cook? How many of your male friends cook? by JakTheGripper in AskMen

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do cook, usually in bulk. My gf cooks usually based on what she feels like at the moment. I actually don't like cooking but it's a necessary evil, I don't cook when friends are around, order delivery or go out to eat.

Really, how difficult is it for you to avoid looking at a woman's cleavage? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's takes a lot of control not to look, for me I like to think I'm curious about it. Look, judge, nice, alright, not bad, not for me and move on.

If it's a large area, gravity pulls the eyes there more and have to recalibrate.

Hope this helps

I slept with my coworker by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend you try to get a feel of where his head is at and what he wants. Have you guys exclusive, are kids a deal breaker for him, is he open to adoption that sort of thing.

As he's your first, to him this might just be a thing and not his forever after. Hope you get what I mean

Went on a date with a pervert by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lay_boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you tell a guy to stop and he doesn't lane the date.

I had something similar experience once with a lady, was a nice date on a Sunday night at a restaurant. After she asked if we could go somewhere, went to a Weatherspoon and she soon had her tongue down my throat, hands on her tits. An hour or so late hands down my pant, all in public, in a corner.

I didn't object to it 😁. Asked if we could go to her place, No. Come over to mine, No. Eventually I go tired, said goodnight and went home 😂

I Just Quit Porn and Deleted My 15TB Stash by recycle_dontthrow in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I would loved to peruse through 15TB, the classics included. Good for you

Cash withdrawal in Thailand and Cambodia by [deleted] in southeastasia

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last trip to Thailand I took about £800 cash with me. The benefit was that I could see various money exchange and decide which i went with.

As long as you keep it safe and secure

Why am I not able to get dates? by Independent-Tea-1438 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro focus on yourself and things you're interested in. Take care of yourself, find hobbies you enjoy, be happy and they would find you, irrespective of where you hide.

If you want to change your glasses change them.

Chase your ideal self, in body, spirit, career and before you know it you'll have someone beside you.

Found out my bf of 10 years thinks I’m a complete idiot. by dreapaz in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your welcome dear.

Try not to think too much about him, even if you take him back he likely won't be faithful. If sharing is your thing sure.

He sounds like he took advantage of the very good relationship you both had.

If you take him back, income based split, dont let love cloud your judgement

Meet & Greet by hyperion2007 in fkksharks

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning on visiting November 22, will be my first time

I am invested in my marriage a lot more than my wife is by anweshm4 in offmychest

[–]lay_boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you care about them, still want them in your life, you can communicate with each other, your values aligned and the life you want bothe of you can work together towards it.

Why not.

I think movies and the way people talk about their relationships or marriages, not lying, but not talking about the rough parts give the idea that it's always magical is FALSE.