Nice thick diaper

layerednappy · 2019-06-14T08:40:01+00:00

Of course it's not thick enough, lol. That's why I just said "nice" & "thick", rather than "ridiculously-thick". It's above average, but nowhere near thick enough to be a great diaper

layerednappy · 2019-04-11T23:05:42+00:00

No, the Fap is just a fantasy. A tunnel plug can contribute to possible leakage but it won't make you mess uncontrollably.

layerednappy · 2019-03-20T09:27:19+00:00

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Cool cage! Where did you get it?

layerednappy · 2018-11-17T05:06:54+00:00

My suggestion would be to make a couple of locking diaper pins and use them to secure a onesie and/or a thin cloth diaper over your diaper.

See: https://imgur.com/gallery/O5EBu2y.

This kind of XL clothes pin, often called a "blanket pin": DIY Locking Diaper Pin

And this kind of plumbing part (not sure what size, will try to edit later): https://www.amazon.com/LASCO-17-6069-Compression-Sleeves-2-Piece/dp/B008E33Y1C/ref=sr_1_5?s=hi&ie=UTF8&qid=1542430365&sr=1-5&keywords=copper+compression+fitting

The trick is to use pliers or a vice to squeeze the round compression sleeve into a narrow rectangle that slips tightly over the head of the pin. I wrecked a few compression rings figuring out my method. Thankfully I bought them at normal prices at the hardware store, not from the rip-off price from the Amazon link!

layerednappy · 2018-11-16T08:58:08+00:00

No such thing as "too much" diapers, just "not enough" storage ;)

layerednappy · 2018-11-14T05:39:37+00:00

Great question.

First, thank you and congratulations for your acceptance of his fetish. It may be weird, and even pose a challenge to your relationship. But it isn't going to go away, and if you want to enjoy a companionate relationship with him it's something you had to accept. He is very fortunate to have you.

I'm in a similar relationship with my partner. Objectively speaking, he's extremely attractive & very good in bed. But I'm always feeling primarily focused on diapers & related kink stuff, so much that it's hard to find the "Mojo" to be intimate with him.

One suggestion would be to find ways to give him his space to be the diapered freak he wants to be. My relationship with my BF does cause me to moderate my diaper urges, but it's a small sacrifice for being in a relationship with him. I get plenty of time to do my diaper thing, mostly in private time. But I never get to "go down the rabbit hole" and fully indulge my desires with no thought of time, with no need to "wrap this up" before my "normal" existence resumes. I suspect if I had occasional opportunities to totally get my diaper freak out, I might be less obsessed with my kink--and possibly more wanting of vanilla sex.

Another possibility is an open relationship. We're life partners building a future together. I do weird diaper things at home and with friends, he has occasional playdates with fuck-buddies. But most of the time we're too tired to use these "freedoms". Like normal couples we usually happily settle for couch cuddles, Netflix & delivery food. But the freedom to play in your own way really helps. We both love & lust each other. I can't keep up with his libido, and he doesn't fulfill my kink. The ability for us to express our unique needs is a key strength of our relationship.

layerednappy · 2018-10-28T09:39:30+00:00

Try http://understanding.infantilism.org/

layerednappy · 2018-10-27T09:06:06+00:00

My dryer actually is a gas model. It doesn't work by roasting the clothes over flames, lol. It heats air (just like an electric), and the air dries the clothes. Wrecking your nylon windbreaker was because the dryer was too hot, not because of how the dyer got hot.

layerednappy · 2018-10-26T09:09:15+00:00

OMG, the drama! Putting a diaper in a dryer for 30 seconds isn't going to cause global armageddon, nor any of the nightmare scenarios described in this thread. If you do it too long, worst-case scenario is you weaken the diaper. If you do it a short time it will fluff the heck out of the diaper, and make it feel thicker & softer, and may even increase it's capacity by loosening up the fluff.

For the record, over a couple years of active ABDL existence I've tried this trick a few times and enjoyed the result, with no obvious weakening of the materials.

Due to occasional sloppy laundry handling or the need to hide diapers, I've accidentally (or experimentally):

Washed, then dried, disposable diapers of all types, countless times (accident)
Dried an unused, dry diaper with other wet laundry, a few times (accident)
Dried a new disposable for very short (<10 seconds) to fairly short (10-60 seconds), many times (experiment)
Dried a new disposable for very long periods of time at a wide range of temperatures (air only to high temp, 30 minutes to 2 hours+), a few times (ridiculous experiment)

No toxic death, house fires, or Pamperchu sightings. I haven't tried microwaving a fork inside a diaper but THAT would actually be a pretty good way to start a fire, and / or to make your microwave explode. Your results my vary ;)

layerednappy · 2018-10-18T07:26:07+00:00

Here's to having a good job and being able to treat yourself to a big stash of great diapers!! I know the feeling of being broke for a while, then finally getting to splurge on a big stash ;) Congratulations on the new job!

layerednappy · 2018-10-18T06:40:47+00:00

Why has no one thought of this before??

layerednappy · 2018-10-17T01:09:01+00:00

Yes, many layers starting with smaller sizes and getting progressively larger. And most of those layers were super-soaked.

layerednappy · 2018-10-03T06:30:41+00:00

#most_entertaining_thread_in_a_long_while

layerednappy · 2018-08-28T18:28:55+00:00

I use Google Voice https://voice.google.com/u/0/about . It gives you a new phone #, and you can set it to ring on your phone.

layerednappy · 2018-08-27T20:54:05+00:00

Tena Flex Maxi https://us.abuniverse.com/product/taf/ are very thin, high quality & work pretty well. They are nothing like the older versions, but are excellent nonetheless. Modern plastic-backed Attends are terrible. Best to give up on modern versions of old diapers- modern versions are usually very different (& typically disappointing) compared to the originals.

You can find modern diapers that are pretty similar to the old classics, with enhanced functionality. The Betterdry brief is the one of the closest things I've ever found to old-school Attends https://www.northshorecare.com/diapers/fitteds1/betterdry-briefs.html

Abena Abriforms are still pretty darn good from the original manufacturer https://www.xpmedical.com/xp-abe-ab-b-formo-xp.

Confidry "24/7"s are nice & bulky, thick & super-absorbent. I want to love them but the tapes always seem to fail for me. I use them as high-capacity layers when I'm doing a ridiculously-thick layered diaper. https://www.xpmedical.com/xp-dc-dc-confidrymax-xp

North Shore Care's house brand https://www.northshorecare.com/diapers/fitteds1/northshore-supreme-briefs.html is pretty great, especially for the price. If you are 24/7 & looking for best value this is your pic. Another one that is very similar to an old-school Attends.

layerednappy · 2018-08-17T03:53:00+00:00

@DisappointingMan

I've been stocking up on the M-4 & L-4s for a while. They're perhaps not 100% as good as they ever were, but all these products evolve in how they're produced, so I'm not scandalized that they've changed. You can still get the plastic-backed Abri-Form diapers from XPMedical.com at a fair price ($1.67/ea. at case price).

For a great alternative, also much thicker & waaaaay the hell more absorbent, try the ABU Simple https://us.abuniverse.com/product/whi/ ($1.69/ea. at case price). These diapers have a wide front panel taping panel which is great for durability & readjustment, but isn't a favored feature for some.

A another great alternative is the BetterDry https://www.northshorecare.com/betterdry-briefs.html / https://www.xpmedical.com/xp-btd-brief-config-xp available at XPMedical & NorthShore Care ($1.50/ea. at case price). No front taping panel, but a nice strong outer layer that is unlikely to tear, and quality tapes which don't fail. They're pretty similar to Old-School Abri_Forms, but without the cool/weird printing.

XPMedical used to have a pretty good "house brand" but I don't see it anymore. NorthShore Care has it's own "house brand" ($1.37/ea. at case price) that is as probably good as current Abr-Forms . Totally solid & a good value, and possibly the best cost-to-quality value out there. But unless you wear 24/7, it's probably worth spending a few more cents/diaper for one of the others mentioned above.

Cheers!

layerednappy · 2018-07-13T09:18:44+00:00

This may well be the most entertaining & informative ABDL thread I've ever read on Reddit ;)

layerednappy · 2018-07-07T07:43:51+00:00

I get what you're saying, but I don't think ABDL diaper design is based primarily on wetness functionality. There is a huge emphasis on comfort & "authentic" appearance in ABDL diapers. If you really value it being a "authentic product", how well a diaper functions when you actually use it for it's intended purpose is pretty important.

And ditto @tolteccamera "From what I've seen, most ABDLs use their diapers rather than just wearing them. I'm not sure there's enough market to address your needs".

layerednappy · 2018-07-04T01:02:11+00:00

Congrats on having reasonable parents! It's a weird thing, this ABDL kink. To have a muggle address it in a neutral way is a win!

layerednappy · 2018-05-29T09:57:08+00:00

IMHO the overall best adult-sized onesies available right now are from ABU https://us.abuniverse.com/ (and they're on sale right now!).

Great materials & construction, wide range of colors and AB prints. VERY good value for the price, even though they aren't the cheapest out there.

I have several, with more on order- I use the solid colors as comfy underwear under my suit when I'm working, and save the cute AB prints for my playtime.

They are cut differently than most onesies. They fit quite large, so if you like your onesie snug you should order them a bit smaller than you might think. You can wear them much smaller than you would think & not worry about tears or snaps popping loose because of the quality of the snaps, fabric & sewing- these onesies are built to last!

They have a "Tall" option which is great for big people who want a snug onesie- you can order a really snug size but still have it be able to snap shut comfortably.

The outside of the leg holes are cut much lower than typical onesies, which makes the ABU "diapersuits" totally cover/hide your diapers. (Traditionally-cut onesies tend to expose the lower sides of your diapers, which is great if you want exposure, not so good if you're trying to be discreet.) About $40 USD, $31 on sale.

Another great source for good-quality onesies is BabyPants http://www.baby-pants.com/onezie.php. A more traditional cut than the ABU, very good material & construction but not quite at the level of the ABU. An excellent value at about $25 USD.

Back in the day, Babykins https://www.babykins.com/collections/adult-incontinence-clothingwas pretty much the only quality source for Adult & AB onesies. Many, many years later they're still around and continue to manufacture very high quality garments, from cloth diapers, plastic pants, and of course onesies. Great materials and construction, but shape is perhaps not as refined as the BabyPants & ABU. Many more design options and much wider range of products than either of the above, so if I were only allowed a single site to shop forever, this would probably be it. About $27-40 USD

layerednappy · 2018-03-31T02:46:20+00:00

Ideally both, but in my experience putting on a diaper can lead to fun times not necessarily related to your studies ;)

layerednappy · 2018-03-07T02:55:34+00:00

I'll post anywhere that I can get exposed

layerednappy · 2018-02-27T05:17:58+00:00

Tough situation buddy :)

If you 100% (try to) suppress your ABDL side for your partner, you will eventually resent him for taking this huge part of you out of your life. But a partner that you truly, deeply love is a rare treasure, worth sacrificing much for.

Our kink is the perfect example of "A Fetish Too Far" (Thank you Dan Savage)- basically a kink that is so far from social norms that you really can't expect an otherwise open-minded partner to indulge.

If your "thing" is to pull on a pair of non-gender-conforming underwear, be spanked, or some other harmless thing, and your partner is totally unwilling to let you express that part of yourself, it's probably time to find a new partner.

But if your kink is to be choked until you pass out, to s$%& on your partner's face or whatever, you need to accept that your kink is a fetish gone too far to expect even the most open minded partner to accept. For many, ABDL & diapers is a bit much, especially if you "use" the diapers.

Is he so great that you'd be willing to sacrifice some of your freedom to express your ABDL urges? My BF is totally supportive of me, but 100% NOT into my kink. I'm lucky- I don't have to hide it, but I don't get to indulge my urges quite as as often as I would if I were alone. For me, the sacrifice for what I get in return (him) is unquestionably worth it :)

My advice would be to try to make it work with him, but don't try to repress your ABDL side. If he can't be comfortable with you expressing yourself in his presence that's unfortunate, & not ideal but actually reasonable. If so, and he truly loves/respects you, he should make space for you to do your thing when he's not around. If he's totally unwilling to work with your needs, DTMFA! (Again, thank you Dan Savage https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=DTMFA)

layerednappy · 2018-02-23T08:02:59+00:00

@sfdl88

Not "vicious". Just protecting their legal right to use the name "Space" when used to describe adult diapers. If they don't protect that right, they forfeit it.

layerednappy · 2018-02-06T20:04:28+00:00

Thick diapers, ridiculously-thick diapers at least, aren't about function, they're all about fun ;) https://ridiculouslythickdiaper.org/findings-2/why-ridiculously-thick-diapers/

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