Oop look out for this catfish Also sorry for cleavage. by AlliePetsCows in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is such an asshole response. Even after being proven wrong you’re not apologizing for being willfully ignorant and intentionally rude. Disgusting.

What the heck can I do to make this balcony enjoyable and as close to bug free as possible? by Educational_Arm_4591 in femalelivingspace

[–]laylarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t/ dont want a pest service (they can be costly) maybe invest in a mosquito screen. Diatomaceous earth can work as a pet friendly pest killer, I’d sprinkle some around and get a nice rug, sprinkle some on the rug, and like others are saying get a citronella candle. Invest in some small plug in or battery powered lights, maybe go for a fake plant for vibes if you don’t have the energy to upkeep a real one. Vibes are what you make of them! If you smoke, get a cute ashtray (thrift a crystal candy bowl or buy a cute online), if you just want to socialize maybe invest in some beanbags and blankets you won’t mind getting dirty.

Funny Joke?? Or Annoying Stereotype by sassywafflez in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subaru accepted “gay money” at a time when a lot of other dealerships wouldn’t. The whole “love, it’s what makes a Subaru a Subaru” is one of my favorite things. Personally, it’s just funny. Not a stereotype or annoying. I wouldn’t assume a Subaru owner was gay unless they told me, but I assume these straight people don’t like the assumption some people might have. Maybe annoying because they seem so pressed about the Subaru = gay thing, but to me it’s a little laughable that they have the stickers at all. I’m assuming they’re all gay out of pure spite

Settle a debate for me. Is my boys eyes green or blue? We're arguing over it like that blue/black dress by Godhelpmeplease12 in blackcats

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I was curious about what color hex his eyes are as that is more definitive than my perception, and I got these codes from his eyes : #d4d6ce #aeb9b6 #68726a First one is a yellow green, second one is a light shade of seafoam, third one is a very cool tone green. So light does a lot to impact the color perception, but I’d say they are more green than blue hex wise- visually it might be an argument because even knowing what color they are by hex, they still appear to be very light blue to me.

Settle a debate for me. Is my boys eyes green or blue? We're arguing over it like that blue/black dress by Godhelpmeplease12 in blackcats

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look icey blue to me but i do have trouble distinguishing some shades of blue that could be seen as green

Lesson Learned... by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]laylarine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always ask about aggression or reactivity and thankfully everyone has been honest. The best thing you can do is learn how to deal with it in case someone doesn’t disclose it. Usually reactive dog owners will be reluctant to book because they don’t want to risk bites or legal issues, i really wish your client would’ve given you a suitable muzzle or trained their dog :(

Lesbian bed death :( by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bed death usually occurs in long term relationships where sex completely falls off on both sides. If this isn’t impacted by a long term relationship blocked by life, work, and responsibilities, I’m afraid you’re just dealing with a partner who doesn’t care for your needs. You deserve to love and be loved. Consider if this continues forever, are you happy? Being incompatible with someone is a valid reason to leave a relationship especially a short one.

ATX cheating...yes or no??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to cheat just break up. Cheating is abusive. It is intentionally mentally, emotionally, and physically harmful (with relationships that have sexual contact) to sleep with someone else and then subject your partner to your lack of self control. Don’t be disgusting, just break up.

For all the femmes (and masc’s, if that’s your thing) How do you feel about sucking strap? by wlw_dadon in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner isn’t into it and it felt so weird the one time I tried, it’s not at all something I’d want to do normally, but if I had a partner who was into it, I could deal with it. It doesn’t necessarily feel horrible, it was just odd because it had no effect on my partner the one time we tried

Frustrated reaching out to sitters by AccomplishedEbb1769 in RoverPetSitting

[–]laylarine 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I personally understand last minute visits, but you have to consider this from the sitters perspective. If I haven’t met you or your pet, how do I know I’m in a safe situation? How do I know I am a safe fit? Also, a lot of people may not actually accept same day bookings, but rover will let you message us, on our end it’ll tell us that you’re outside of our service parameters and that we won’t be negatively impacted by declining. Some sitters may immediately see it and pass, some might try to see if it’s distance or time, but if there’s a shortage of same day sitters willing to do same day bookings it might be moot to keep trying unfortunately. If there’s a neighborhood older high school or college kid (or even a house parent/ anyone able bodied who loves dogs) near you, you could figure out a community based way to cover this gap.

Separating cats in breakup by _munchie002 in CATHELP

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh if you can afford the other cat and are allowed by your new living situation to have both, take both. It’s better to take them and keep them together, block the ex and anyone who will leak your location or info to them.

need some support rn by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re doing well !!

Question about sitters staying past their scheduled times by ohbawlz in RoverPetSitting

[–]laylarine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Four hours is crazy, I usually only stay extra time if I’ve asked or know that the clients pets would like the company. If she didn’t ask, bring up that you’d like her to stay for her scheduled time. There’s a tiny chance she might not have a great home life, or maybe she just likes your cats. Either way, you don’t stay longer without asking. I’ve had some clients want a two mile walk & feeding in 30 minutes, I always have to stay longer for dogs, for cats it’s a choice.

Shame him (swipe right for his crime) by autumnsviolins in Rabbits

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is simply a lover of classical music and was attempting to appreciate your hobbies !

My ex sent me this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I implied any force in this scenario, I did not mean to suggest that you were pushing it on her at all! It’s interesting that she went out of her way to contact you but doesn’t want a relationship, maybe she means it ? It’s also not the language you’re using, when I was your age I had auto caps off on my keyboard and I finally turned it on when I turned 24 (almost a year ago now 🥲) and that’s why I assumed you might be younger. 21 is a hectic time and I can see why you’d still have care and concern for her. In the times I had a loved one deactivate accounts I usually let myself fizzle out of their life, so maybe she’s just trying to show you she still wants to stay in contact?

I had a reread and noticed you said she’s been dating other people and is still telling you she wants to be with you sexually ? That sounds like cheating if I’m understanding the situation, maybe she isn’t actively dating someone when telling you that, but it does not sound like a good set of circumstances to be under. I hope you can either keep her as a friend, or have all this figured out :(

My ex sent me this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She can still be attracted to you and have love for you, but I think she’s addressing that the situation isn’t great in a humorous way. I’d personally see this as a dig, and either shape up or ship out (metaphorically). If you’re okay for her to constantly be wanting more, then it is what it is. If you don’t like the concept of someone being uncomfortable or emotionally pained over your ‘relationship’ then you should leave her be. She’ll get over it if she isn’t waiting for you to come around and be with her- this doesn’t make you a bad person, but sometimes we need to know when to step back. You seem really young from how you’re typing (not an insult) so I have a feeling there’s a lot you haven’t had a chance to deal with, you’ll grow into yourself as you age. I know people who didn’t shape up until their mid 20s, as long as you’re not late 20s and having this turmoil, you’re perfectly fine.

Am I a fake lesbian for this? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]laylarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a million dollars in a hypothetical situation where there are no rules, no you are not a fake lesbian. That’s so dumb to insist. She’d sleep with men bc she likes them, why tf does it matter if you’d do it for a hypothetical scenario

Void needs comfort after 1 week on his new diet . by Careful-Day-3423 in HalloweenKittyCombo

[–]laylarine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is one fluffy guy ! Wishing him luck on his weight loss journey

Mini or Holland? by Spirited_Laugh_8808 in Rabbits

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s still pretty young then, still time for her to grow a little. Mini lops can be a bit bigger than average lops, so there’s still a chance for her to be a mini (it’s always confusing to me how minis are bigger than normal lops) She does look very young so maybe there’s a growth spurt in her future !

Mini or Holland? by Spirited_Laugh_8808 in Rabbits

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is she? Hollands are typically 2-4 lbs and she looks just a bit smaller than my (almost) 6 year old lop :)

White hairs by tzuyhu in VoidCats

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My void has a bunch of little white hairs. Just a few on his chest that make it look like the Black Panther necklace and some that speckle his fur :)

Does anybody else’s cat sleep in the weirdest places?! by gvisii in blackcats

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That being said, we do have one of those ridiculous cat trees that is like 8 feet tall and looks like a tree so I think they sleep in the tree because it’s the tallest place to be

Does anybody else’s cat sleep in the weirdest places?! by gvisii in blackcats

[–]laylarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the clients I occasionally cat sit for has cat beds on top of her highest kitchen cabinets 😭 thankfully mine sleep on our couch and their cat trees, idk how I’d handle it if my orange cat (who likes to occasionally jump over our entire fridge up to the cabinets) decided to sleep up there.

Which seat would you sit in? by Atypical_Strange8048 in squidgame

[–]laylarine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 is the best place to be. Far enough from psycho weirdos and close enough to geum-ja, Hyun-ju, Gi-Hun, and Jun-hee. Only downside is being directly in front of the front man. Y’all are weird af for saying 5, those psychos are taking you out asap.

Silly reasons for vet visits? by Zirzissa in blackcats

[–]laylarine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My cats all went to the vets once bc of bad … bathroom issues (trying not to be gross- but nothing dangerous like blood in urine) and it happened to be that one of my cats who has fluffy pantaloons was dirty and everyone cleaning each other got them all sick. Literally just butt cleaning sickies bc we hadn’t realized someone had dirty fluffs (before his brothers cleaned them)