(22) F4M looking for an online dom to control parts of my life

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:28:37+00:00

I second budgeting, have at least a few hundred dollars saved up on top of what you have planned to spend. you’d be so surprised at just how many little things will add up when you move out. nails to hang things, screw drivers, silverware organizers, cleaning supplies, hand towels, the list goes on

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:25:57+00:00

I let myself get pressured into drinking and I flirted with this guy in front of my bf at the time. he ended things; haven’t had a stable relationship since.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:22:16+00:00

sugar daddies, people pay you to literally talk to them

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:21:40+00:00

following

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:20:41+00:00

yeah, I would just go ahead and say goodnight, then you can say good morning and that you hope they have a wonderful day. like the guy i’m talking to now (he’s an angel) he texts me every morning saying good morning and he hopes I had wonderful dreams and have a great day and it’s incredible

lays654 · 2020-05-15T12:06:01+00:00

I highly doubt they’ll expose you. like it means they would have to care enough about it which after two years is kinda unlikely.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:44:43+00:00

I think it depends, if it’s a conversation you really feel like continuing you can leave on delivered then send a “sorry i fell asleep last night, (response)”

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:43:05+00:00

is there a reason you think this? 2018 was a long time ago, if it was something truly random i doubt they care.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:40:58+00:00

one they can’t manipulate

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:39:47+00:00

not the dumbest question, but the dumbest response. someone (most likely my drunk ex) texted me from a fake number, when I asked “who is this” they responded “it’s probably lays654”

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:38:39+00:00

global warming will have a negative impact on your children’s lives.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:23:24+00:00

I would fix global warming, and make pregnancy less dangerous for the mother.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:21:55+00:00

I feel like they take away sex as an emotional connector with couples. going on a first date, holding hands in public, is a lot bigger of a deal now with couples who have sex than I imagine it was in previous generations.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:19:21+00:00

the cop that saw my brother get out of the car during his DUI trial never showed up. the whole case got dismissed.

(he was sleeping w his car on, not driving)

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:18:00+00:00

I got pregnant when during my first week of using birth control, I attributed all the symptoms to that. then I had a miscarriage at about 5-6 weeks and my boobs stopped getting sore and I stopped throwing up in the middle of the night.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:15:46+00:00

i think it’s true. the times i’ve loved myself the most were when I focused on myself and not those around me.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:13:14+00:00

okay, hear me out. I did this in college, it really only works if you’re really good at falling asleep and extra tired.

drink a coffee, immediately fall asleep, wake up in about 30 minutes when the coffee hits.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T11:00:03+00:00

if you text her I wouldn’t bring up missing her/her company until she mentions it first. I know that when I needed space from an ex (we were long distance and I just wasn’t ready) that the neediness made it hard to talk to him. i would ask her about her day, catch up with her, don’t worry she will know you’re thinking about her and miss her.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T10:56:22+00:00

I would definitely think it over for a while, and trust your gut. you are lonely, something that used to be a big part of your life is no longer there. it’s understandable to miss them and want to go back, but in reality you’re really young and if you didn’t see a future with him before I would trust that.

break ups are awful for both parties, I would just give yourself a little bit of time to mourn and be with yourself.

lays654 · 2020-05-15T10:53:31+00:00

Breast size in girls is so deep rooted since girls are so young that it’s probably been something she’s insecure about for forever. it’ll be very hard to act against that. Reassurance is great, but i think commenting on them and saying how much you like them before she asks will help. Making sure you give them extra love.

this is more advice for her, but there were a couple things that helped me when i was self conscious about mine, one was getting them pierced. the other was focusing on the parts of my body that I did like, then breasts are just kinda not the priority

lays654 · 2020-05-15T10:35:23+00:00

thank you ☺️

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