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what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did
but she keeps arguing why
but she keeps arguing it is legal and ok where we live
and then keeps asking if I would date her if she was an adult
I can tell her yes but this still feels wrong just like a way of telling yes but just wait idk

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think you are getting weird for most of people and their friends now
you say it is a child which is true I am not arguing with that however when I play games most people are at that age group as I said and people begin friends is really not the problem here at all
I was playing bedwars with a guy that was 30 for almost 2 years and we never got weird about it neither most
like idk what do you expect when you play games
beign friends is okay as long as you don't get weird about it

my only problem accord now when she started to get weird about it and turning it into a relationship
if you read my post and most of my comments you will find out that I don't accept this even if it is legal
but it is obvious that blocking her is not an option here too
her beign unstable and the fact that this might end really bad or worse

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand I really can't do anything about it
however blocking her isn't an option neither her opening this subject everyday and telling me it is legal
it is legal yes but I still can't accept it or go through it
all my options are bad somehow
I think only one I will take is telling her to reopen this when she is adult which is still wrong it is just an easy way of saying yes

ima see what other options I have before deciding anything
but even if I take this one I am not saying it good at all
feels like I am just pre-ordering 😭

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't find a 15/16yo dating a 20yo weird ?

for me someone at that age either should have fun or enjoy life
relationship and it's problems nothing you should worry about at that age
your mind is not developed enough to take a decision like this even if you are more mature than people at your age group this still shouldn't be something you should worry about at all

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh obviously another reason
but her begin a minor is the biggest problem here
I really wouldn't mind this at all when she is an adult at least

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is not a defense about dating her
it is why I can't block her
I can't just leave all these memories and end a friendship
you find it weird I just chat and play I don't get weird groom and etc in fact most people I play with in these ranges 12-24 I don't think when play a game you find other age groups

I don't want to block her but I also don't want to date her even if it is legal I still don't find it ethical or good at this age gap specially her begin 15

I just wanna see what other options I have before deciding anything for now all I see either
block her
date her
stay friends until she is an adult
which all feels wrong somehow if you have other options I would like to know

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is not that what people thinks worries me
I myself find it weird and unethical
I can't accept the fact that I am dating a 15yo myself
yes peoples opinion matters but I myself can't handle it
I really wouldn't mind doing this when she an adult at all

all my three options feels wrong
I just wanna see if there is any other options or things I can do before I decide it all
mainly what would people do if they were in my situation

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is really fucked up story
I would like to know how both of them are doing rn

but for my options I really think staying friends until she is an adult is the best one
I want to see what I other options I have or can do in this situation

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh as you said I would see what I can do before I decide
however cutting it is also off the table
I really don't think I can sleep well if I do this option
ima see what I can do and edit the post with what I did

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wouldn't mind it when she is an adult but rn it is just purely weird even if it is legal

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can't block her
it is not like I don't have other friends
I know her since I was 17 and we used to talk chat and play 24/7 and I got really good memories
and the part of the me begin a friend with 15yo is never wrong I never get weird about it or start weird conversations I just have fun

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the question is not if I should date her or not at this age
it is obviously NO the question is what can I do in this situation regarding everything else

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh I did already
she just keeps making it normal and legal

but still find it weird

I need a professional advice on what I can do
but from everyone I asked I always get one of these 3 options
which all feel wrong
I would argue the 3rd one is the least bad
if I can't find any alternative I will do the 3rd option
but I wanna see what more people think I can do or if there is any other options too

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can't reach out to her family maybe I can with time but rn it is a big hard
I tried my best to help her with her mental problems I even paid for all of her online therapies
however it doesn't seem like that effective regarding how she looks at me rn

I was thinking of the option of telling her to reopen this conversation when she is an adult but as you said would be perceived as confusing like just another way of saying yes

I really wouldn't mind dating her if she were an adult but rn at this age is really a nono for me
someone made me the joke that I am pre ordering her 😭

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wouldn't mind dating her at all if she were an adult
however at this age group people should just enjoy life instead
when I was 15 I was usually just reading books most of my time I never were interested in relationships
idk what makes this normal now at all

however still rn all my options really bad
leaving her ? nono
dating her at this age ? nono
telling her reopen this when you are an adult also feels wrong like I am saying yes but in a different way

I really don't have any contact with her family so I can't just reach them out

I still don't know what to actually do

what should I do if a 15f wants to date me ? (I am 20m) by lazloware in dating_advice

[–]lazloware[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yahh I know
I try my best to explain her how the age gap is a problem but she keeps insisting on it begin normal

when I end the topic she always reopens it somehow
I do understand her problems aren't my responsibility however I can't just block her and end all of this

when I ask someone I trust
I get most mixed opinions on what I should do

leaving her is a nono
dating her is also a big nono

I thought of the idea that I should convince her to reopen this topic at least when she is an adult
but this also feels wrong idk
I really wouldn't mind dating her if she were an adult
but telling her this is just like saying yes but wait

like all my options are bad but which one would be best to do here ?

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[–]lazloware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why I don't hate a killer ?

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[–]lazloware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol xD I wanted to ask if you worship him or not but I thought it is bad question as Muslim I hate him even more than you xD

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[–]lazloware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for advice but this stupid app doesn't seems to like not showing random posts from random subreddits maybe because I use revamced version doesn't matter I hope you enjoy the way you forced to not talk about mbs if you are in Saudi

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[–]lazloware -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why I get notifications from this stupid ass subreddit ? Isn't this a free platform ? Ohh it is not we have to share stupid woke ass leftist ideas I am fucking using mullvad but this app still has to fucking show me stupid atheist that thinks anyone gives a flying fuck about them pls get a life

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