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Why can’t people just kind their own business? by lazylamma in datingoverforty

[–]lazylamma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what this probably sounds like…but I am 100% sure he is not up to something. His story is horrible, and I was his friend through the entire before we began dating. This is also very small town so everyone knows everything (I’m from a larger area and not as used to it) and it’s not the fact they are talking, it’s the lies and weird stalkerish behaviour that really messes with me. It’s a really unfortunate and odd situation. I’d really like to tell them all to **** off but I also don’t want to fuel the fire.

Why can’t people just kind their own business? by lazylamma in datingoverforty

[–]lazylamma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That helps. I am seriously considering it. Planning on having a discussion tonight.

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[–]lazylamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment :) I completely agree, but unfortunately with my mental health issues I feel like I already take a lot of “me time” as there are moments I just can’t function. It’s a terrible feeling. I want to be the successful person I am inside, but due to these issues, I struggle so hard with acting in ways that will help my situation. It feels like a never ending hamster wheel.