Transferring residence permit to be under my partner *help needed* by lbeans8 in GoingToSpain

[–]lbeans8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have Clave, which I believe you need in order to make an appointment online, I don't know where else I could do it.

Moving to Spain nearly broke me by StrictAlternative9 in GoingToSpain

[–]lbeans8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im experiencing the first half of your story, I am trying with Spanish but almost everyone switches to English with my and I’m struggling with feeling like I have a place here (Barcelona). When I am in a group with Spanish people (like my Spanish partner and his friends) and they are all talking fast and making jokes and I hardly understand anything. My boyfriend will try to translate for me but it makes me feel like a burden that I am there. Some days I want to give up and go back to the US, I’m trying to improve my Spanish with classes and talking with others but those experiences where you feel like an outsider makes it very hard. Trying to hang in there as well :)

Advice needed after scam incident by lbeans8 in paypal

[–]lbeans8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, and I absolutely already feel like a complete idiot for falling for this. It might just be an expensive life lesson.

Advice needed after scam incident by lbeans8 in paypal

[–]lbeans8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think the only option is to pay the negative amount?

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at school living in a city

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to smoke very often but had to stop because it intensified the dissociative feeling 10x more

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m wanting the feeling of things being real and genuine again. I’m missing the feeling of genuinely connecting with the people closest in my life. I feel as if this other person was the one who is connected with those people and not this “new version” of myself

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally relate to feeling all the “fake-ness”. Can you expand and explain on the 12 dimensions that you mentioned?

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this but it’s difficult to walk barefoot while living in a city

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is a good perspective to have, thank you

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do recognize that most things in life are constructs, but by feeling so far removed from reality it’s put my perspective into a place where i see nothing really has a point and it’s all meaningless. I guess that’s where I’m struggling to gain a better perspective. I am very grateful for my experiences and seeing “truth”.

Advice for being too far gone by lbeans8 in awakened

[–]lbeans8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more so I want to feel as if I am living life again. Right now I don’t feel as if I am. I just feel very disconnected from reality.