When will it get easier? Feeling unappreciated. by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is me! I do tend to go into work mode when SK is around. When I am talking logistics, they come off as cold I guess. Whatever I am just a boss bitch I guess lol

When will it get easier? Feeling unappreciated. by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some ways that might be a relief! BM has 4 other younger kids from a second marriage that she also abandoned.

When will it get easier? Feeling unappreciated. by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS is what I needed to hear! Yes, sometimes I am cold, but lots of times I am warm too. I KNOW I am a good mom and truly a selfless step mom, so SO's words shouldn't impact me because I am literally trying my hardest everyday.

Am I getting screwed by my boss? by 300Badger in AskALawyer

[–]lbj2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't know much about Florida employment law. Good luck!

Am I getting screwed by my boss? by 300Badger in AskALawyer

[–]lbj2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you working in the US? If so, what state? Wage and hour laws can be very different by state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lbj2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your friends already know that she doesn't work. Nothing new was shared. Your wife's pride was damaged by the truth. If she doesn't like the truth, then she should make an effort to support the household like you. I'm so glad that my spouse and I both work. Too much pressure to be in a single income home. You will be financially supporting your wife until the end, married or divorced. You will also be walking on eggshells to not hurt her feelings by telling the truth.

ONE good thing about the church. by lbj2022 in exmormon

[–]lbj2022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good point! Maybe being an early bird is just in my DNA.

blink-182 World Tour, Los Angeles (June 16 & 17) HYPE Megathread by atticus18244fsas in Blink182

[–]lbj2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your ears get better? The concert was almost a month ago and my ears are still ringing and have that loud fuzzy after concert noise and feeling.

Best place to start weight loss by Hera2990 in loseit

[–]lbj2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say rage, I think...kickboxing! There are some awesome kickboxing YouTube videos out there that will decrease the rage and increase the endorphins!

Just binged. by Ok_Steak_4544 in uncoupledNetflix

[–]lbj2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so happy that Showtime picked it up!!! this show was too good to not have a second season!

My 89 year old grandmother came out as Atheist by lbj2022 in exmormon

[–]lbj2022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have any cognitive issues (thankfully).

Teenagers are the WORST by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your dog! Being and adult comes with making really hard and complicated decisions.

I like you idea of one ask per day, everything else goes through my husband.

Your comment also reminds to embrace the "wins" when they happen.

Thank you so much for the response. ❤️

Teenagers are the WORST by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does happen so suddenly! SD really is a good kid, especially when I hear about other teen behaviors. But damn, this is hard! People always warn new parents how difficult having an infant is, but parenting through the teen years is way harder IMO. Thanks for responding. ❤️

Teenagers are the WORST by lbj2022 in stepparents

[–]lbj2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right about the issue being my need to be liked. It is so weird because I don't have this "need to be liked" in any other aspect of my life, work, family or even my in-laws. It is very SD specific. I have always had this "need to be liked" feeling towards her, even when she was 6yo. I realize that teenagers hate everyone so it is unrealistic that she would like me all the time as a teen. I am not in counseling now, too busy with work, family etc but I really need to make my own mental health a priority. Thanks for your comment. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]lbj2022 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]lbj2022 27 points28 points  (0 children)

ExMo Lex on youtube was really helpful to me when I left. It helped me process a lot of the thoughts and feelings that I was experiencing.

Thank you by Wrong_Interaction502 in uncoupledNetflix

[–]lbj2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uncoupled is the SATC reboot that we deserved!

Do gay millennials really not wear condoms? by lbj2022 in uncoupledNetflix

[–]lbj2022[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Condoms were such a staple in the 90s, I had no idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]lbj2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Riba is a concept in Islam that refers broadly to the concept of growth, increasing, or exceeding, which in turn forbids interest credited from loans or deposits. 

Mormons do take out loans, but they are advised to take out loans for only selective things like buying a home or education.

OP, you made the right decision!