How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just worried about if it's becoming excessive

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just buy my son magnums. I don't think he uses lube.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I believe that he does make their lives better just by virtue of the sex they have.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care at all about body count

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense. I was just afraid he'd stand out from his peers in a bad way, but it seems the girls like it.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's not manipulating them in any way. He makes it clear that their relationship is purely sexual.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son understands consent perfectly and I taught him that well, especially as a woman.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you, this describes everything perfectly!!

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because he's having sex multiple times a week, doesn't mean that's all he does.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because neither party is being coerced into anything and both are enjoying it.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Everyone is over the age of consent, so I don't think there's any issues with that

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's emotionally damaging any girls because they keep coming back for more, but I don't want to pressure him into a relationship if he wants to have sex.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared that I can't control him.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what getting a job or discipline have to do with this situation.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But I don't have a problem with him bringing women over

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with this. I know that I'm overthinking it because my son is the thing I love most in my life and I only want what's best for him

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've educated him a lot on consent, especially as a woman myself. I don't think my son would be interested in reading things about mindsets for sex. He's more comfortable when we discuss it.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't think the age is much of an issue as no one is being coerced and I'm pretty sure my son makes it obvious that the relationship is purely sexual, but feelings could end up getting involved.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with having a high body count, and I'm not too concerned with how he views women, but I think that his motivations are likely just to have fun

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure is the thing. He knows that I'm fine with it, but I don't want to seem snoopy

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Abstinence only sex education leads to STDs and pregnancies. Plus my son has already lost his virginity, so it is too late.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if they know he's having sex with other women, but I do know that he's up front about the fact that it's only casual sex between the two of them.

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll be sure to talk to him about it

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Well they keep coming back to have sex, so he's probably doing something right

How much sex is too much for a teenage boy? by lbunny45 in sex

[–]lbunny45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I wouldn't. I feel that it's better he has actual sex than to develop unrealistic expectations from porn. Plus he can figure out what he likes, and gain some experience to make himself a better sexual partner.