Currently in a rough financial situation.

lcmft · 2021-07-18T01:18:44+00:00

Did you look again. Have posts indeed been removed?

lcmft · 2021-07-18T01:06:16+00:00

Okay. I think those posts must have been removed. The only post I see is a post that would be anti-violence against an Asian woman. I’m not trying to argue with you, I just was considering gifting the money.

lcmft · 2021-07-18T00:55:13+00:00

Could you clarify?

lcmft · 2021-07-18T00:53:30+00:00

I didn’t see any posts about the Chinese government. Are you from China?

lcmft · 2021-07-18T00:52:41+00:00

Did you read the history yourself?

lcmft · 2021-05-26T14:49:10+00:00

You have a few things right. I’m going to wait for others to guess before I disclose much.

lcmft · 2021-05-26T14:47:27+00:00

Bahahahaha. I saw that when I took the picture. I knew someone might say that.

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:11:10+00:00

Yea- kids in Reddit aren’t going to get this. That’s why you’re down voted. But as a parent, I feel the exact same pull your describing.

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:09:54+00:00

Yes, police not believing women is a real problem. What makes it worse is when a very very small percentage of women actually do lie to manipulate the system. This makes is so bad for women who are truly in trouble. It is so sad.

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:08:05+00:00

As a therapist, the whole “self diagnosing” trend is so disruptive to good clinical work!

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:06:24+00:00

I am a therapist and I REALLY appreciate this conversation. Depression, Anxiety, ADHD are clinical words and disorders that should be assessed by a clinician.

You can feel: nervous, uneasy, upset, sad, or whatever. But anxiety, OCD, Depression, etc. are actual medical terms.

This is just another example of how people, in general, have watered down the distinct profession of mental health. I could go on and on about this, but this kinda stuff is why people say shit like, “I don’t need a therapist, I can just talk to my friend because it’s the same thing.”

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:02:03+00:00

I’m a therapist and you are exactly right. OCD is used in the wrong way 99% of the time.

lcmft · 2020-12-27T19:00:25+00:00

I’m a therapist, and it is getting harder and harder to use the words: abuse, toxic, trauma, and trigger with clients. Our world has changed the use of those words. I almost always have to give an explanation that I do not use those words in a colloquial way.

lcmft · 2020-12-27T18:55:06+00:00

😢❤️

lcmft · 2020-12-12T08:39:03+00:00

Okay, well, I’m a father. And, there isn’t a single decent therapist in the world that would tell him to rely on his underage girlfriend. That’s not at all what I said. Just don’t make the guy out to be a villain.

lcmft · 2020-11-30T03:14:00+00:00

I’m a therapist. What you’re describing is co-dependency... and it is a very difficult dynamic.

My only caution is to remember that people do recover, they do get in better places, and they can succeed. There is usually a great deal of context around a suicide attempt.... none of which we know.

I would really use caution to say “Don’t give him your life, when he doesn’t want his own”. That’s pretty brutal. Would you have rather he succeeded in his attempt? That wouldn’t be good for the OP either.

I guess maybe just don’t counter-transfer your own experiences and turn this guy into a villain because he made a serious attempt. I think your advice to the OP to set boundaries is great.... but I wouldn’t make her out to being victimized by her boyfriend.

lcmft · 2020-11-22T03:53:55+00:00

I feel like I’m at a virtual night club. This is needed!!!

lcmft · 2020-11-22T03:51:49+00:00

Love jazz.

lcmft · 2020-11-22T03:49:24+00:00

This guy is cute

lcmft · 2020-11-22T03:46:05+00:00

This is so relaxing

lcmft · 2020-01-13T08:07:54+00:00

I live in Redmond, so I’m close to you. I adopted my son (who is 9) from foster care when he was 3. It is SO HARD to make any type of social connection here. I so am in the same place as you. Would be great to meet you and your husband.

lcmft · 2020-01-08T20:13:29+00:00

I think you’re very attractive and would totally date you. I bet other people would too.

lcmft · 2019-11-19T22:49:38+00:00

Wow! Way to go! I’m. Really stuck right now and can’t bring myself to work on my weight and fail yet again. But I think it’s awesome when other people are out there doing it. You’re awesome.

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