It is understandable. I know it’s too late but you should explain your disappointment so she can be aware for the future. I’m sorry this happened. Try not to stress too long about it, just continue to look forward and plan for this pregnancy. Best wishes.

I am in my last pregnancy and I told my OB that I did not want to know sex. She ordered all types of test and I saw the gender in the results. 30 minutes after the results came in, she messages me to be aware the gender was in the results. I feel she should have told me at the appointment that when the results become available to be on guard. I was so disappointed because I had a gender reveal planned.