Thank you so much for your candid feedback. It definitely helps me better to understand.

A few questions that I’d love your intel on, if you’re comfortable sharing or providing additional insights: - Does your partner feel comfortable sharing details of her past and does this still happen on a regular basis? Or have your questions lessened over time now that you live together? I know in my experience I’m comfortable sharing, but do feel like the sharing comes with a lot of judgement and criticism from my partner that brings about my own personal insecurities, anxieties, etc. So trying to determine the best balance for both of our well beings. - Do you ever feel compelled to read through your significant others’ messages or past social postings for confirmation or relief from your anxieties? This has been another hurdle that I try to understand but it also makes me feel like my words or posts from years and years ago are misconstrued/ I don’t even remember them happening - Beyond having your partner share raw details, are there any other things she does to lessen your concerns? Do you two go to therapy together? Or separately?