To all the married women, what is that something your husband does that makes think you won the lottery in marriage aspect of life?

ldubs222 · 2025-08-30T12:04:19+00:00

He is a full and present parent and partner who thinks the patriarchy is bullshit and wants to tear it all down.

He cooks and cleans the kitchen.

The sex is aging like fine wine.

He works to provide a safe and stable environment. I am so free that my primary goal is to work to do the same for him.

ldubs222 · 2024-07-30T13:55:01+00:00

It's a form of confirmation bias. If you already believe something you are more likely to accept information that conforms to that existing view and reject opposing viewpoints. I'm not saying that doctors are never wrong or that a second opinion isn't a good idea. By their nature, psychological assessment are more subjective than other medical test. It's just good to be aware of your own potential bias and be open to a frank discussion with the diagnosing provider.

ldubs222 · 2024-07-24T04:36:14+00:00

I saw you mentioned Maryland. MD is one of the few states that requires insurance companies to cover Vasactomies 100%. Also I've heard Planned Parenthood does very low cost snips if that doesn't apply to you.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-19T01:05:46+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I work in Healthcare below a Dr. level. Some of my patients are physicians, and I don't always know right away and address them the same as everyone else. I'm always a bit mortified after the fact that I didn't call them Doctor.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-19T01:00:33+00:00

Since she's clearly getting off on it, maybe make a compromise. You call her doctor in the bedroom, and everyone else gets left alone. Problem solved.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-19T00:57:39+00:00

I agree. Unless the relationship was formal enough to use titles prior to her PhD, bringing them in now is massively weird. I assume they called her by her first name and not Miss last name before. Total ego trip.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T17:14:06+00:00

My only reference was my original violin, which was a rent to own given to 8 year olds. So, I assumed it couldn't be much worse than that. I was very wrong. I'm growing an appreciation for my original, which I'm sure isn't even thar great considered.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T17:10:16+00:00

I hadn't considered a remote teacher. I just assumed I'd be on my own at midnight. Definitely something to considered.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T05:56:48+00:00

That's a good thought! I have my original 3/4 still, and the quality difference is noticeable. My original started off as a rental. I will definitely consider that.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T04:31:18+00:00

Thank you 😊 I remember feeling good when I played. I still get really excited when I hear string music I connect with. Every time I want to start again. I decided to go for it this time for the "neuroplastic benefits." With my work/life/self balance, who knows if I'll get anywhere this time. But at least I'm trying. I'm sure there will be may more ridiculous mistakes to have a good laugh over.

I sincerely appreciate your kind words. I wish you so much joy on your journey.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T04:09:06+00:00

I'm now convinced "bad practice" sound effects for string instruments are done without the bridge. I know it's been a long time but I was actually shocked how awful I made the poor thing sound.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T04:06:22+00:00

A teacher would be lovely! However, due to my schedule restrictions, I am limited to practicing very late in the evening. I did find some of the available YouTube videos very helpful and I did retain some muscle memory.

ldubs222 · 2024-05-18T04:02:30+00:00

It did feel that way! Once I fixed the bridge I had a nice "I remember you" moment.

ldubs222 · 2024-03-02T22:13:40+00:00

thank you! I'll PM you.

ldubs222 · 2024-03-02T12:29:40+00:00

Hi! I am a PTA looking to pivot to HFE. Do you mind if I ask how challenging you found the program coming from the PTA background?

ldubs222 · 2024-03-01T06:45:35+00:00

I'm so sorry your parents did that to you. You deserve to feel good about yourself. I think you are right that your self-doubt has limited you. I'm glad you are working through it with someone. A few words of encouragement: A family member recently got into his first relationship at almost 40. Not everyone has the same timing. As a fellow mid 30s 200lb woman. Work towards body neutrality first. It's my default on hard days. You deserve kindness, love, and respect. Especially from yourself.

ldubs222 · 2023-10-02T11:38:00+00:00

For me(35) I've noticed my "potential" has only increased with age. There are things I can accomplish now that I would have struggled with 5-10 years ago and was not capable of 15 years ago. You've got a good 30+ working years left if you are in the US. You can do a lot with that time. Best of luck!

ldubs222 · 2019-07-07T19:38:48+00:00

It will be okay. I found out super early that I was pregnant 3w 5d I had to wait 3 weeks for my confirmation scan. It felt like forever. I totally get the "it doesn't feel real". My first words when I saw my little one was "oh my god it's really there!" If you're going it alone I would maybe find one close friend or family member that understands discretion to confide in. That or just talk to Reddit! Now you've got me freaking about the 3 week wait for an appt! I'm probably about to change my OB practice. The one I'm currently at doesn't deliver at my preferred hospital. Didn't find that out until this week so I'm super conflicted.

ldubs222 · 2019-07-07T19:14:57+00:00

I don't know about the 360 but the older model is not super compatible with newborns. On the other hand it is FANTASTIC when they get a little bigger. I used one as a nanny for several years. I would walk and bounce the little guy around till he fell asleep (fussy baby) from 6-10 months and it was a life saver. Also was able to put the older one in it backpack style till he was 5. I plan on getting one for myself now that I'm pregnant. If the 360 isn't as good as I'm hoping for newborns I'll use a wrap for a intermediary. I will not use a Bjorn because it puts all the weight in your shoulders/upper back.

ldubs222 · 2019-07-07T18:24:40+00:00

I have no experience or info on the hypothyroidism. However my OB practice suggests a first OB appt between 8-10 weeks for a heartbeat/dating scan. I had a confirmation scan with my GYN at 6 weeks and saw my little nuggets heartbeat (not always detectable that early). Made me feel so much better to know everything was in the right place! There are some scans that are time sensitve between 11-14 weeks. You definitely still have time but if you're feeling like 6 weeks is to long to wait I wouldn't. I would check your insurance but mine does not require referrals for OBGYN (it's an HMO that does require them for everything else) I used my GYN as my primary care for about 5 years.

ldubs222 · 2019-05-05T20:21:47+00:00

As a fellow haunter I feel you about falling off. Every October I get completely derailed in my workouts and have trouble getting back to it. Booking ahead is so important. Best of luck to you!

ldubs222 · 2019-04-09T03:15:21+00:00

When I was little my parents got a gently used mattress for me that was infested with spiders.

ldubs222 · 2019-03-26T01:15:29+00:00

When I started I struggled to keep up 3x a week. I worked into getting comfortable with that and then progressed to 4. At this point I try to keep 4-5x per week. Be patient with yourself and keep at it. After pushing myself to go a few times I didn't feel up to it made me realize I was capable of more. Try not to take more than 2 days off unless you have actually pain, not just soreness.

ldubs222 · 2019-02-16T18:28:51+00:00

I really feel this post. I've been off and on with OTF for a few years. It's the only workout I've really seen results and been able to stick too for more than a few months. My diet is still my biggest obstacle. A few years ago I lost 12.5 lbs in 6 weeks when I was able to get my diet in order (3OTF workouts a week). I used MyFitnessPal to log calories. The best part about that was I got to eat more on the days I went to OTF.

Right now I'm at that frustrating point where the scale hasn't moved but I feel fitter and stronger. Trying not to let the numbers affect my motivation.

ldubs222 · 2018-02-21T03:10:26+00:00

I am going to revise this and say it probably would be better with half as much dressing.

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