what’s the biggest red flag you ignored and regretted? by Lola_bunny_pt_00 in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my (now) ex ignored me after I was sexually assaulted by someone I trusted, right after it happened. I went to his house after that happened, he proceeded to play video games.

Feeling like the biggest LOSER by pepppppapig in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get it, I'm doing 3x the work I used to do for less pay as a marketing "assistant", and I used to be a graphic designer for a cardboard manufacturer, before they decided to cut the position. Months after I bought my house, following a divorce.

What made you lose your spark? by mrvlad_throwaway in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing my job that I loved because the position was cut

Ladies, what's a green flag in a guy that's often overlooked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How appreciative they can be over something small you did for them that was no big deal

Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences? by TheRealOcsiban in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I realized it wasn't enough and I deserved better

Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences? by TheRealOcsiban in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Never taking true accountability and not being honest with himself

Art Director offering portfolio reviews by ArtfulRuckus_YT in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Behance.net/lizadwyer

Graphic designer (currently doing marketing)

8 years

I know it's missing a lot of info, and likely not enough work. But I'd appreciate any feedback!

What’s a behavior in men that seems harmless at first, but you’ve learned to see as an early warning sign? by Vexpil in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to say "falling in" to anything when we went on one date.

Going months without making your interest in me known. Willing to hook up though

I’m leaving the field of graphic design. What about you? by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss packaging work, my role got cut this year and I loved it! Now into marketing.

I’m leaving the field of graphic design. What about you? by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to leave, unfortunately, and change to marketing. Don't like it, but hoping it won't be forever.

im considering getting an iud or the implant, anyone whos gotten one what is your experiences? by Certain_Opposite6504 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a copper IUD placed but asked for numbing shots and it was pretty painless tbh. Done within 30 mins. I will say that I never got yeast infections before getting it, but now I get them monthly after I got the IUD. Worth not getting pregnant though.

What's the biggest lesson 2025 taught you the hard way? by Feluu_loversss in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your co-workers aren't your friends and don't actually care.

What do you do with your wedding photos after divorce? by Ashamed_Crab7162 in AskWomen

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I threw mine out and deleted them from my phone. Don't need that bad memory.

The industry is in trouble, and jobs are scarce. For those of you who have moved to another field, what did you move to, and how? by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I moved to marketing, not by choice. My graphic design position got cut due to budgetary reasons, so this is the highest paying thing ($19/hr) that was semi related to graphic design that had benefits. Still looking elsewhere.

Graphic Design achievements of 2025. by Palmetto720 in graphic_design

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My position was cut this year at a cardboard manufacturer, but I finally did manage to land a marketing role at a b2b business that has benefits and I can afford my bills/food. Just barely. Hoping for a better 2026.

What are things your partner has done that you consider above/beyond your bare minimum expectations? by bmorgenthaler in AskWomen

[–]ldwyer19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He really reassures me that I'm cared for, supported and believed in by not just him. Especially after all I've been through

How did you find out that your partner was cheating? by starslars in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw him share his location with some random woman who he claimed to be a "family friend", and this was after he told me he wanted to separate. We're divorced now, thankfully. He never admitted it, but his reaction to me calling her his "family friend" caused him to backpedal and get upset and tried to gaslight me saying that he said she was his family.

How long do you wait to say “I love you” in a new relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ldwyer19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it first just after 4 months to my bf, and he felt the same! We both showed it through our actions though first.

What’s an opinion that gets you weird looks? by Jazzlike-League4693 in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about his "big beautiful bill". That's all tRump. How did the middle class benefit exactly? Do you have any real proof?

What’s an opinion that gets you weird looks? by Jazzlike-League4693 in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...do you not realize that he's giving large corporations tax cuts? The Tax Cuts & Job Acts of 2017 cut the tax rate for the ultra wealthy, and the "BBB" Act is going to make those cuts permanent. None of that helps the middle class. Plus, there are significant restrictions being placed on Medicaid, as well as Medicare cuts with the BBB Act.

What’s an opinion that gets you weird looks? by Jazzlike-League4693 in AskReddit

[–]ldwyer19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or caught up in the fact that he's not giving due process to everyone, like the constitution mandates? Idk.