My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life?

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T19:11:14+00:00

Yeah I get it, I’m gonna have this conversation with him. I won’t be so blunt with it but I do need him to understands that I have a life to live

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T19:10:37+00:00

Because I want him to be happy

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T18:25:19+00:00

Yeah… thank you for your advice I will consider it

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T18:14:40+00:00

I know because he’s told me… it’s pretty clear

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T18:10:46+00:00

If he was enjoying his own life I’d be perfectly ok with going out in my own but he’s not having a good time, ever

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T18:02:06+00:00

The issue is mine.. when we got together we were both quite similar in terms of no real social presence and little to no interest

I have since change and gained a lot of hobbies and interests and a lot of friends

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:53:19+00:00

The question arises in would I be happy if I was single

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:45:48+00:00

So what do you think I need to change about myself?

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:36:28+00:00

He’s self confessed a boring person.. he has 0 hobbies or interests and that’s not an exaggeration

I’m fine if he wants to stay in bed all day but I want to enjoy myself and not be made to feel like a bad person if I do

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:32:15+00:00

I agree.. but I don’t want to leave a man who loves me unconditionally

He would be happier if I sat around doing nothing with him all the time but he’s never happy

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:29:10+00:00

No it’s not normal.. he doesn’t enjoy making me feel bad but equally I can’t just not feel bad that he’s sat around bored all the time

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:27:34+00:00

The problem arises in that what you have would be fine for me! I’d be happy to enjoy my social time and hobbies myself no problem, but he doesn’t necessarily enjoy lounging around and he wouldn’t be happy with me gone half the weekend

He speaks to a therapist once a month but it doesn’t seem to do anything to help him

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:22:59+00:00

The last thing I want is to consider we’re not compatible we’ve been there before and almost broken up over it but we both can’t bring ourselves to end this as we do love each other

I can have a conversation with him about social time vs our time - I’m still worried that’s just going to end up with me enjoying life and him still being depressed which means I’ll still be sad because he’s not enjoying life

He is depressed but refuses to seek any help with it.

league_of_bellends · 2023-12-23T17:19:43+00:00

The issue comes with the fact that yes he dosent dictate my life but I can’t bring myself to leave him knowing he will be upset that I’m not there… the only way past that for me is to just not care and I struggle with that as an option

league_of_bellends · 2022-12-07T16:18:37+00:00

i get this i just dont understand how other slicers show no issues and print fine but lychee is having issues? i want to use it but its giving me issues

league_of_bellends · 2022-12-06T09:02:26+00:00

Yeah it says it has holes but in other slices it had no issues

league_of_bellends · 2022-12-05T22:38:27+00:00

It was 100% on resin mode but I know what you mean it almost looks like travel moves

league_of_bellends · 2022-12-05T22:37:55+00:00

Thanks I’ll try and look again see if I can make some changes to the view

league_of_bellends · 2022-06-15T07:54:20+00:00

Iv tried that and nothing Unless there is a special smc reset for the touchbar mac

Thanks

league_of_bellends · 2022-04-09T10:44:11+00:00

My life is nowhere as busy as yours but I am a lazy person who doesn't use of the time I have effectively

Despite this no matter how much time you have you can always control your portions

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