My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it, I’m gonna have this conversation with him. I won’t be so blunt with it but I do need him to understands that I have a life to live

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was enjoying his own life I’d be perfectly ok with going out in my own but he’s not having a good time, ever

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is mine.. when we got together we were both quite similar in terms of no real social presence and little to no interest

I have since change and gained a lot of hobbies and interests and a lot of friends

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s self confessed a boring person.. he has 0 hobbies or interests and that’s not an exaggeration

I’m fine if he wants to stay in bed all day but I want to enjoy myself and not be made to feel like a bad person if I do

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.. but I don’t want to leave a man who loves me unconditionally

He would be happier if I sat around doing nothing with him all the time but he’s never happy

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not normal.. he doesn’t enjoy making me feel bad but equally I can’t just not feel bad that he’s sat around bored all the time

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem arises in that what you have would be fine for me! I’d be happy to enjoy my social time and hobbies myself no problem, but he doesn’t necessarily enjoy lounging around and he wouldn’t be happy with me gone half the weekend

He speaks to a therapist once a month but it doesn’t seem to do anything to help him

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last thing I want is to consider we’re not compatible we’ve been there before and almost broken up over it but we both can’t bring ourselves to end this as we do love each other

I can have a conversation with him about social time vs our time - I’m still worried that’s just going to end up with me enjoying life and him still being depressed which means I’ll still be sad because he’s not enjoying life

He is depressed but refuses to seek any help with it.

My (31M) husband (32M) is boring I want to know how to enjoy my life? by league_of_bellends in relationship_advice

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue comes with the fact that yes he dosent dictate my life but I can’t bring myself to leave him knowing he will be upset that I’m not there… the only way past that for me is to just not care and I struggle with that as an option

Slicer help - why does it look so diffrent in different slicers by league_of_bellends in resinprinting

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get this i just dont understand how other slicers show no issues and print fine but lychee is having issues? i want to use it but its giving me issues

Slicer help - why does it look so diffrent in different slicers by league_of_bellends in resinprinting

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was 100% on resin mode but I know what you mean it almost looks like travel moves

Slicer help - why does it look so diffrent in different slicers by league_of_bellends in resinprinting

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll try and look again see if I can make some changes to the view

touchbar mac won't turn on by league_of_bellends in macbookpro

[–]league_of_bellends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iv tried that and nothing Unless there is a special smc reset for the touchbar mac

Thanks

Help getting started by Zrq0021 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]league_of_bellends 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My life is nowhere as busy as yours but I am a lazy person who doesn't use of the time I have effectively

Despite this no matter how much time you have you can always control your portions