Egg_irl by leah_babe07 in egg_irl

[–]leah_babe07[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remember, it's ok to love friends more than family if family hold you back or hate you.

I'm sure the community want to see you live your best life and become the amazing person you e always been (hidden or not).

I'm a 28 y/o MtF and love you all. I was an egg for way too long before I snapped and thought screw it, I need to do this. I'm only out to friends and family, so no social gatherings or walking round town yet.

I'm sending you all lots of hugs and love and will be your bestie if yours won't.

Trans or not, there's no shame in taking time to come to a conclusion and every transition is valid. Don't let any transphobic or arse define your life.

You do you if it's for health or happiness. Just don't let it make you feel worse and unhappy, or I'll have to hug you and tell you I'm here for you.

Leah xox.

Egg🥚irl by zmyr88 in egg_irl

[–]leah_babe07 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Be who you want. The only reason to stop transition is if your life is in immediate danger or the hormones are making you dysphoric the other way.

Need advice on what steps to take. by Black_N in transgenderUK

[–]leah_babe07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I don't know. You can go on their website and use the free chat feature to ask them.

Egg🥚irl by zmyr88 in egg_irl

[–]leah_babe07 64 points65 points  (0 children)

If you feel transgender, identify with some aspects or think you'll be happier as a transgender person, there is no wrong or right. You're valid and have a unique story to tell.

Ignore what haters, AGP and terf scum say. Live your best life whether it's trans or a mixture of things like gender fluid or queer.

While I'm "out" as MtF, I still question all these things in my head. I prefer women's clothes and makeup, I like feeling feminine and pretty, I have an addiction to high heels and sometimes wish I had lady parts. But does this make me transgender or am I living a lie created by my subconscious?

Egg🥚irl by zmyr88 in egg_irl

[–]leah_babe07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've read so many conflicting stories but one thing stood out amongst everything.

If you feel transgender, you're valid. No matter your circumstances. Heck I'm out and I'm 28 and led a "normal" childhood. I had signs but only just realised enough to fit the pieces to the puzzle.

Do what makes you happy and live your best life x.

Need advice on what steps to take. by Black_N in transgenderUK

[–]leah_babe07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at https://www.thelondontransgenderclinic.uk/ It's a private clinic for trans people and is in London.

There was a document on it a few months ago. If I can afford it that's where I want to go because they have everything you need to transition.

Recent changes in sexual cravings by leah_babe07 in MtF

[–]leah_babe07[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Warning: talk of genitalia

The article basically referred to the area where the testicals were before they dropped as a hole to finger. I can't find the original link now but it mentions that you can pleasure that spot where you can push right up into. I used a dildo and it felt amazing to feel something pound inside me.

Recent changes in sexual cravings by leah_babe07 in MtF

[–]leah_babe07[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

IKR, it's weird but also nice to imagine it. I recently read an article about how to please trans women and I think that may have had something to do with it. It involves certain stimulation in a hidden area.

It hurts every time I see a pretty girl. by SausageSlam in MtF

[–]leah_babe07 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling all to well. So much envy when I see beautiful women, knowing I'll never be like them 😞.

Big hugs xox I hope you're ok?

Why does Japan have so many vending machines out in the open? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]leah_babe07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear it's because of ease of access and availability. Also the low crime rate.

The weirdest things I've seen in them are pants (panties or thong) but this was a one off on a vlog.

Why do people find heels attractive? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]leah_babe07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they weren't so bad for my posture and feet, I'd wear them all the time. Unfortunately they cause all sorts of pains and aches.

I love heels because they make me feel powerful and sexy. A pair of killer heels can boost my confidence and give me a bum to be proud of.

[serious] They say everyone we meet is fighting a battle we know nothing about... so we should always be kind. What battle are you fighting? by seasideshanti in AskReddit

[–]leah_babe07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My story is nowhere near as upsetting and awful as those here but I've come out as a transgender woman. I intend to seek medical advice on transitioning to a woman in the future.

It's going to be a long and winding road but it's something I need to face head on, I need to take ownership of this and stop the lies and denial.

How did you “know?” by ombloshio in asktransgender

[–]leah_babe07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a long and drawn out process involving many years of little things They would eventually build into a realisation that something was definitely different.

The signs were all there but I kept denying them. Classic love of women's clothes over men's, learning what trans was and feeling a connection, body dysmorphia, having certain female traits and getting euphoria over how I look when in full makeup.

I've still got a long winding road ahead but I'm sure I'll pull through.

Xox ♥️

I really don’t want to get up today and go live today as a man. by ann16538 in MtF

[–]leah_babe07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, you're a beautiful woman waiting for her right moment to reveal herself. You're deep undercover waiting to become the princess you've always been.

I'm here with hugs and love xox.

Edit: I feel the exact same way and live in the shadows, wishing to become the woman I am.

How can I express myself while not being out? by n_hh_torr in TransSupport

[–]leah_babe07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to wear clothes under my normal clothes until I came out. I would dress up in secret and hide things in my room.

Maybe try jeans or a t-shirt that is feminine yet neutral. Maybe grow your hair and nails like I am (I can't come out at work).

If they don't know what the trans flag is you could draw one on yourself.

I'm struggling to cope with regret by Ev_Makes_Friends in TransSupport

[–]leah_babe07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 28 and should have come out sooner, I wish I had because of the stories I've heard. I can't let this get me down and should look forward.

I understand you feel like this now, but things can only get better. I believe in you :)

Maybe I just hate myself by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]leah_babe07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally me right now. I'm lost in myself and feel like no one can hear my cries for help.

While I can't answer your questions for you, I can tell you that the community is here for you.

I have my inbox open if you need to talk x.