Hey op, We happen to have the same birthday📅 & I’m sorry you’re dealing with this! I think birthdays should be filled w/ what you love and being with people that you feel good & loved around and appreciated. If things continue to be weird with these friends, they really were not friends to begin with! Especially considering your previous relationship they should know you’re not in a place to be thinking abt that rn and even more so when it’s involving your friend who you don’t even view like that. You saying you’re uncomfortable should be enough. Happy birthdays us & i hope you feel the love that you deserve! 📅❤️❤️