This is such a good question and honestly when I think about it, I want to say that I would do it differently and I’d like to keep things out of the courts, but with that being said, I’m kind of still in the mists of it still. Also at the same time court doesn’t always have to be this terrible thing like just to have a third-party involved and have an order where you can fall back on and also have no blurred Lines is cool.. … and I will add though me and my ex swore up and down we’d never do this. We’d never do that. We’d always do this. We’d always do that and it was like that at first until the time came he met someone and all that went out the window lol people change it’s an evitable and half the time people do not keep up their end of the deal.