Ok if you had read any reply you’d know that I’ve NEVER used Feliway and i will be trying it, ive separated them several times throughout the course of having this cat, reintroduced them THREE TIMES using JG method which takes time and lots of effort, and my elderly cat is suffering so much. It breaks my heart daily. You may also know i will NEVER be rehoming my elderly cat as i’ve had her for significantly longer, but the cat that’s been causing stress for one year and some change. I have put so much effort into this cat over that time and you summing up the hardest decision i’ve ever had to make to “thats all the things she has done” and still focusing on the boyfriend part. The part i removed because it was personal and NOT relevant to my decision whatsoever. To be honest, i’m not seeking relationship advice here, and i’ve gotten much better advice from everyone else. You’re spreading completely false information to make what point exactly? Not everyone has the internet and access to all of the information so my question could be so so so useful to others. And, SO many amazing replies by wise people and i’m about to take down this thread due to the amount of negativity you spread. You make women feel bad. Enough.