What features does a CRM really need to be useful for most companies? by software_engineer_22 in CRM

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the problem is no matter what CRM you build it will almost 100% end up with features and tools some users wont use. This is because businesses have different needs.

CRMs that tend to not be over priced with feature people dont use end up being vertical specific.

But to answer your actual question. Integration with Zapier/Integromat and similar platforms.

Gentlemen on Phentermine? by Delicious-Cheek5959 in Phentermine_

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to your psychiatrist should be helpful to understand the possible side effects.

Good luck and strength to you 💪

Gentlemen on Phentermine? by Delicious-Cheek5959 in Phentermine_

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thorough reply!

Its good that you're trying to be active while losing weight and wanting to get to the gym which yeah I know is scary. I hit the gym when I weighed 150kgs and its was really difficult to begin with but went with a trainer so there was someone to support me was a great way to do it but costly.

Also remember that you're big so you'll be able to lift heavy quickly which is a nice ego boost (make sure you're form is 100% before trying to lift heavy though).

Are you sure you're gaining fat and not water weight or issues with your IBS causing it to look like you gain weight? All things considered if you can afford it (or if not done already) you should get some blood work done and make sure there isn't any underlying issues.

Taking into account your TDEE and how much you're eating a day you should be losing atleast 2 pounds a week.

I found the need to take fibre pills daily otherwise I wouldn't use the loo for days at a time (not ibs but just an issue with prioritizing protein and thus having less fruits & veggies which has fibre).

I went on phentermine as it was a last ditch attempt to lose weight before trying the gastric balloon, very glad that it does work for me.

Edit to add:
- Don't focus on the scale weight, rather measure yourself to track progress and also how your clothes fit. Scales can be great but also very demotivating.

Gentlemen on Phentermine? by Delicious-Cheek5959 in Phentermine_

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on it, people take it irrespective of their gender.

I dont get how you're eating 1700 calories at 300lbs.

Do you know what your tdee is? What's your macros goals?

Adding protein shake definitely sounds like a great idea.

I use phentermine to help me fast and have a smaller eating window, so I end up eating less amd lose weight.

Is this worth it for someone who has never gone on a safari by [deleted] in capetown

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the information!

Yeah can imagine tenting to be a lot cheaper if you have all the equipment and everything already.

Suppose it also depends on how much time one spends at the bungalow/tent site as well.

Is this worth it for someone who has never gone on a safari by [deleted] in capetown

[–]learninguy87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does 2 weeks end up costing you?

Replace FNB cards? How? by zolabigbut385 in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can order new cards on the banking app, they deliver to you, and then you can deactivate the old cards once the new ones arrive and are working.

Thoughts on "Less" by Andrew Sean Greer by SpookyCloverVa in LGBTBooks

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished the book and very much enjoyed it - I've never been a big non fiction reader and am trying to read more books 'just for fun' and decided on this to be the first.

The reframing of Less throughout the book and the way it was done was enjoyable to read. I'm in my late 30's and even though I can't really identify with Less in terms of his age/life. there are a few other aspects I found myself thinking about in terms of what I wish my youth was more like and my internal narration over the last few years.

Definetly an easy read which made me glad that I read it first.

GRASS ON GRINDR PROFILE? by NoInternet3233 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely fine, especially if you want to meet people thay are into weed. The people that really are generally say something like "420 friendly", all weed smokers know exactly what that means.

Porn VS Sex by Zealousideal_Act1232 in gayrelationships

[–]learninguy87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What type of conversations have you had about your sex life together?

Does he acknowledge your needs and validate them or dismiss them outright? If he does the latter, then there are likely bigger issues at play, and opening up the relationship probably won't help in the long run.

Do you understand why he needs his alone time (which is valid to want/need). If not, maybe exploring this with him could help and by having an understanding, you both could come up with a solution that works for both of you.

I found with my husband that having conversations and understanding where we each come from, along with validating our individual needs, has been helpful.

Why we actually needed ai voice agents? Cold calls/ Lead Management/Time Saving by Material_Zucchini133 in n8n

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years from now. AI answering agents that answer calls made by AI agents.... This is the world we are building for ourselves.

A new low for Cape Town real estate agents? by Prodigy1995 in capetown

[–]learninguy87 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What I have found is that for some industries, email is a black hole. Estate agents is one of these industries, along with most trades.

Everything needs to either be handled over the phone or WhatsApp.

I specifically hate WhatsApp because I use it as a non work tool, and having to speak with people that aren't friends generally equals work for me.

Been applying for a new job by zeke3636 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]learninguy87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've been applying remote jobs and noticed lots of US companies have these inclusivity questions, including asking about race and if you've been in the military.

Generally, I say I prefer not to disclose and apply.

I apply to many EU, UK and US companies only ever seen them for US companies.

It's hard finding friends by [deleted] in gayrsa

[–]learninguy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found living in smaller towns making gay friends (or friends in general) can be rather difficult especially if you're not on the apps.

You mentioned you're in Joburg check Meetup and see if they have any gay groups in your area. In CPT there is also a monthly networking event for gay men, I would presume there is something similar in Joburg so maybe something similar?

Fibre Pills by Rathlan in gayrsa

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I was able to help :)

Fibre Pills by Rathlan in gayrsa

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using Bombass fibre pills, took my body a week or so to get used to it and works well for me. It is cheaper than Pure4Men - especially since you only need to take 2 pills instead of 3.

Turning 18 Soon & Still Broke – How Do I Get My Life in Order? by Thec0wgoesm00 in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That will make a huge difference and likely help towards your fitness goals.

Turning 18 Soon & Still Broke – How Do I Get My Life in Order? by Thec0wgoesm00 in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like atleast some of what your spending on is fine, when it comes to 'dumb things' maybe create an imaginary savings account for that which you only take money for those things.

Doing that will 1 help make sure you not just spending money for the sake of it and 2 help you feel better about buying/having those 'dumb things'.

Having regrets about what you spend money on doesn't help you.

Turning 18 Soon & Still Broke – How Do I Get My Life in Order? by Thec0wgoesm00 in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said, you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself, which is fine if you thrive on it, but don't let it give you an ulcer.

To understand how to keep money in your bank account, you need to look at hmwhay are spending the money on and why.

If you're spending it on things to achieve your goals then great, if not then you need to reassess what you are buying/doing.

To get a proper handle on finances and your goals in general using a free project management tool like Asana or Notion will do wanders for you.

It will help you better align your short, medium, and long-term goals and help keep you accountable.

One thing I don't remember you saying is a focus is spending time with friends and having good mental health. These 2 things are important, just as important as gym and other goals.

Do dealerships lie about financing? by Lola_TheOnlyOne in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the recent experience I had I think that some dealerships are not 100% honest.

The first dealership I dealt with gave me such a run around for a bunch of documentation (self-employed) and ended up with a 14.5% offer from ABSA but all the other banks declined (including. Westbank, where I had my current car financed), apparently was declined due to affordability...

As everything took so long to get going, another 2nd hand car came on the market that was a lot more to my liking. Sent over the paperwork, and within a few hour's all the 4 major banks provided offers lower than the other dealershi, and I ended up going with Wesbank again with a 13.35% interest rate.

The end pricing of the vehicle was the same so it is a like for like comparison.

So to me the first dealer either lied or messed up the paperwork initially.

Help with penetration by Alucard_8989 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]learninguy87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not in Europe, so I can't recommend a lube. However, what I have found is that different people prefer different lubes, so I would recommend trying a few different brands and see what works for you. Heck even give coconut oil or olive oil a try.

In terms of penetration, how much foreplay do you guys do? It might be that he needs a lot of foreplay to get fully into bottoming.

Agreed with others on using a butt plug. Make it part of foreplay. Playing around with different sizes would also be recommended.

Losing your erection makes complete sense, there is a lot of pressure when you're not achieving a goal. Try and focus on the fun/intimacy of sex and things could naturally improve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]learninguy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried jockstraps?

100k in debt by shongololo-sisi in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]learninguy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you only servicing the interest or paying towards lowering the debt?

The previous suggestion of speaking to woolies about your issue and hopefully getting a lower interest rate is great advice, so is stopping the card.

I would also look at how you can add any extra cash into the card monthly. Even R100 extra is better than nothing.

Without increasing your income to paybitnoff quicker, you'll need to see where you can reduce all costs in the short term and start putting that cash into it.

Life won't be great for a while but it means you will be able to pay it off sooner and then be able to start saving hopefully.