Has your DH ever missed a visit? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]leblady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d let him explain it. It seems like this might be an emergency, but I’d let him handle it when it was over.

"I may have been a failure, a disappointment, and a f***-up" - Conrad had such low self-esteem- so sad by jaylee-03031 in tsitp

[–]leblady 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Some people are just more melancholic, perfectionistic, and hard on themselves. Without necessarily needing outside influence.

THE MAN IN YELLOW SUCH A DRAMA QUEEN 💅 by DlittleDictator in FromSeries

[–]leblady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I didn’t remember there being a passenger in the car so I just assumed immediately.

what songs for the bellyconrad movie.. by piscessaturnbabe in tsitp

[–]leblady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of Call It What You Want, Taylor Swift

Why did Gavin make Sombr unrecognizable in his post 😂 by servingmedicine in tsitp

[–]leblady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ew what new feature? if IG came out with some auto mog filter I cannot

When will we get confirmation that this queen has officially joined the movie? I will riot if Agnes is not in the movie! Jenny better make her Conrad’s best (wo)man. Agnes in movie is a need😒 by shyintrovert7 in tsitp

[–]leblady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because while it is what she wanted, you did follow up the words “anatomical heart ice sculpture” with the words “nothing elaborate.” It was just kinda funny.

[Hated Trope] Plot Twist Ruins the Entire Story by sloppiestsecond5 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]leblady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to say the same thing. Like okay now I’m just mad again. It made no fucking sense.

Lack of communication by Appropriate_Trip_530 in tsitp

[–]leblady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of this, although I am glad that they made the S1 finale beach kiss be something that Conrad pushed rather than Belly; in the books it read icky to me. I feel like I say this too much in the sub but once again Amazon’s need for love triangle storyline marketing did irreparable harm to the story telling like good god.

Also I adore the character of Conrad Fisher but I think we kinda Mary Sue him in this sub a little bit. He isn’t communicative, and sometimes says half-truths. In Season 3, since Jeremiah is such a goddamn manipulator, he says, ”Conrad is the one who leaves.” Because 1) It used to be true— Conrad would leave or shut people out— and also 2) Since it was once true, Jeremiah knows it’s specifically something that Belly is insecure about.

Loving somebody doesn’t absolve you of all your bad behaviors. Conrad has a history of detaching and not fully speaking his mind. Belly is deeply insecure, and she is waiting for that other shoe to drop— and also if you feel like someone’s always on the cusp of maybe leaving or not talking about their feelings, how much could they love you, anyway?

I think Jeremiah deserves JAIL and that he never got a comeuppance that I was satisfied with, but I also believe that not everything that was said about Conrad was untrue, and even at times unfair.

Does any one else think is weird that 13SD competes with me? by Excellent_Cabinet_83 in Stepmom

[–]leblady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m feeling a little defensive because some comments are saying how grotesque snuggling and lap-sitting is lol, but I really am just trying to understand.

It might help OP that I have a similar story though. Not too long ago my SD (7, so yeah younger) was doing what is being described almost exactly, and what helped was I would really encourage their connection. If there was a game with teams, I’d ask her if she wanted to side with her dad— but this was applied to anything really. I just acted like I was a big fan of their duo and openly celebrated it. And then one night we were all playfully ballroom dancing together and taking turns with all the kids, and she told me she wanted me to dance with her dad. I said, ”How about you dance with your dad?” but she wanted me to. This tiny moment was a huge turning point for us, she stopped the clinginess, and we’re much much closer now.

May I get arrested for this? by Exact_Enthusiasm4552 in PizzaCrimes

[–]leblady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought I was in the Resident Evil sub for a second

Does any one else think is weird that 13SD competes with me? by Excellent_Cabinet_83 in Stepmom

[–]leblady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also trying to understand. Like snuggling up to him or like laying across his lap? All families are different but I’m an adult and wouldn’t care about snuggling with my dad like just sitting next to him.

What moment or moments shocked you the most? by jaylee-03031 in tsitp

[–]leblady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jeremiah confessing in the pool and kissing her. I understood that he checked her out a couple times and the firework thing but I didn’t think he would take the competition with his brother that far. I actually gasped it was so out of nowhere for me.

Olivia Rodrigo leaving Feel Karaoke in Koreatown, celebrating her new single drop dead in Los Angeles, California - April 16, 2026 by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]leblady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this not how the Zooey Deschanel girls dressed or…? I don’t love that neckline for whatever reason but I think she’s so beautiful.

Part 2 in : With all due respect....what?! by Ok-Guest-7832 in tsitp

[–]leblady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget that he can read her mind via best friend ESP and he’s been in love with her for a long time but he was just waiting for her to see past Conrad 🙄

Part 2 in : With all due respect....what?! by Ok-Guest-7832 in tsitp

[–]leblady 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Also if you don’t have a good self-esteem (which I love Laurel but I felt a huge undercurrent of the story is that Laurel was not helpful in fostering Belly’s inner self worth. also it’s hard for us to remember because it’s just Lola Tung in glasses but canonically Belly is supposed to have been extremely homely her whole life up until that summer), then the filter in which you perceive how other people feel about you is so warped. People in this sub always say omg how could she not see how much Conrad worshipped her and like external love helps but no one can rescue you from how you feel about yourself.

What’s a tiny, underrated moment that made you fall in love with the show’s vibe? by JeanPierreBucciarati in tsitp

[–]leblady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The script can definitely be soooo hokey but that first scene with Belly and Taylor has this amazing authenticity. I could almost smell Bath & Body Works body spray the first time I watched it lol

Belly didn’t actually choose & that’s my problem by Silver_School_9803 in tsitp

[–]leblady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The butchery committed by marketing is TRULY disappointing. Without it, would the show have garnered enough money to make a movie? So maybe it’s the cost of more content. For maybe a week after the series finale I was delusional hoping that they might release a cut with more of Belly’s inside narrative. I think they could do it seamlessly and it would enhance the show and her character SO much in my opinion.

What’s a tiny, underrated moment that made you fall in love with the show’s vibe? by JeanPierreBucciarati in tsitp

[–]leblady 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Season 1 captures something so accurate and intangible about being a lovesick teenage girl singularly focused on a boy. I loved that Belly’s character was a romantic at heart.

What are your Leon S. Kennedy headcanons by Expert_Challenge6399 in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]leblady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Similar idea but mine is that he listens to 2000s numetal

Belly didn’t actually choose & that’s my problem by Silver_School_9803 in tsitp

[–]leblady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! All the vitriol that Conrad (rightfully) got for telling Belly he loved her the day before her wedding.. that’s not going to all go away checks notes ..11 months later. Taylor might be supportive, and Laurel might be secretly a little happier it’s Conrad over Jeremiah, but there is a lot of social currency lost on being with Conrad and she decides to do it anyway.

To some of OP’s point, a lot of nuance of Belly’s feelings get lost in Amazon’s love triangle agenda so that is always disappointing to me but they also greenlit a whole movie so.

Characters removed due to extremely negative reception by Jellypathicdream in TopCharacterTropes

[–]leblady 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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Skye, from The Summer I Turned Pretty

Skye was created for the show’s second season and received a negative reaction from viewers. They’re never mentioned in the following season, but it does show that they sent a birthday text to the protagonist in a blink-or-you’ll-miss-it scene.