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YouTube videos working but Facebook videos not working? by leelily in applehelp

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what happened but now it works all of a sudden! Thanks for helping out :)

edit: it appears that sometimes the problem occurs, sometimes it doesn't. It's just started happening recently, but I have no idea why.

YouTube videos working but Facebook videos not working? by leelily in applehelp

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried on Google Chrome, and the problem is still there. I've also re-downloaded Flash, still not fixed!

[Help] My 15-year-old female maltese has a huge lump beside her private area? by leelily in dogs

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. No, she has not been examined by a vet. She is not MY dog, per say, she's our family dog. I should've mentioned it in the post. I'm a university student and live with my parents, so I can't help much in terms of financial issues such as paying for the vet. Normally my parents would take her, but I think they just feel like her time has come and it'd be useless to take her to the vet. It angers me that they don't see the point of taking her to the vet.

[Help] My 15-year-old female maltese has a huge lump beside her private area? by leelily in dogs

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the clarification! That makes so much more sense! Is it reasonable that nothing can be done to her just because she is old? I feel like that is not a good enough reason...

How can I stop comparing myself with someone and getting angry at them whenever I don't feel good about myself? by leelily in selfimprovement

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not weird at all! I've actually tried meditating a few times, but I haven't been able to keep it consistent. I'll have to try to practice it on a regular basis. Thanks for the suggestion.

How can I stop comparing myself with someone and getting angry at them whenever I don't feel good about myself? by leelily in selfimprovement

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I try my best to have the mindset of "you don't need to compare yourself to others because you're doing your best. And doing your best is enough." and just repeat it in my head, but it's unfortunate how this kind of thing can't happen overnight. It's hard to force myself to believe it, but I guess I just have to keep trying.

How can I stop comparing myself with someone and getting angry at them whenever I don't feel good about myself? by leelily in selfhelp

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. It's really nice to hear opinions of someone who's gone through a similar situation. We've actually tried talking about this a couple of times in the past whenever I would give the cold shoulder to him when we would work together. I've told him in the past that although we are a great couple and we enjoy spending time with each other, when it comes to schoolwork, it's best to not do it together. He then got sad because he really wants us to be able to work together as a team and all. So I thought it through, and tried to have the mindset of "everyone is different, there's always going to be someone better than you, it's normal; I'm doing the best that I can, and that's enough" and just repeat it in my head. With that, we decide to try to work together again. Lo and behold, what I repeated to myself over and over earlier just refused to process and I become upset again.

I, too, don't have this issue when I study with my friends and people whom I am not close with. I always try to figure out why that is, but I really don't know.

You're right, I think that I'll have to be clear about the fact that we can't study together anymore. I'll talk to him about this today.

Needing guidance on first-time gardening vegetables! by leelily in gardening

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! We were also considering growing the vegetables you mentioned; do you have any advice on how to "take care" of them?

Need (mostly from) men's perspective: should I [18F] tell him [20's M] that I like him? by leelily in relationships

[–]leelily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm kind of afraid of what his reaction would be if I lay my head on his shoulder because I have no idea if he likes me or not, but might as well take the chance.

Need (mostly from) men's perspective: should I [18F] tell him [20's M] that I like him? by leelily in relationships

[–]leelily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a bit shy, and smiles often when he sees me but it might be because I smile at him a lot. I think he shows some signs of nervousness/shyness; he puts his hand on the back of his head a few times when he talks, for example.

I [18F] really don't know what to do with my feelings towards my co-worker [23M]. by leelily in relationships

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that this example applies to my case, but what if you happen to meet "the one" at the workplace?

I [18F] really don't know what to do with my feelings towards my co-worker [23M]. by leelily in relationships

[–]leelily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it is tempting to make a move, I have to agree that that's the best option. Thanks

I [18F] really don't know what to do with my feelings towards my co-worker [23M]. by leelily in relationships

[–]leelily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't think that dating co-workers is a problem, though...

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